Need advice from BBW/larger ladies

[Ant04]

Hi all,

Looking for some advice from BBW/larger women.

I am currently dating a girl, but we havent done anything sexually yet. She is around 5' 5" and is a UK size 20, so she is on the larger side, which I adore and find amazingly sexy.

But i have never slept with a larger woman before, and was wondering what the best positions would be, and in general any advice.

I only ask, because I am not the largest guy in the world, so I was curious if that would affect positions in any way?

Just curious because I want to make the first time special for her, so any advice is appreciated!

 

[nimoway80]

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[RedHotMamaTN]

Being a BBW I have no problems with any sexual positions with my body. Now I am very busty and sometimes with me on my back and legs over his shoulders my boobs tend to push up on my throat and i cant breathe like I ought too. But I dont struggle. Just not breathing normally. Just because shes a big girl doesnt mean shes not flexible. But doggie is my favorite. Just do what feels good to you. even ask her what she would like.

 

[SexyFatGirl]

I am very busty and sometimes with me on my back and legs over his shoulders my boobs tend to push up on my throat and i cant breathe like I ought to.

This ^ is the only problem I personally have ever had with my size affecting sex, and it's easily solved by having some pillows under my shoulders & head.

Her personal preferences are going to be more significant than her size in terms of what will work best. Find out what she likes and dislikes just like any other lady, and you'll be fine.

 

[rexhame317]

I like to lay on my stomach with my ass in the air a little for him . I am fairly flexible and have tried lots of different ways. I also love being bent over some piece of furniture .

 

[satindesire]

Trees? Ha! You speak for the trees?
Well I speak for men, and human opportunities!
For your information, you Lorax, I'm figuring
On biggering and biggering, and biggering, and BIGGERING!~Once-ler

What....The...Fuck...?

 

[AudioFilly]

I'll echo doggie style as my favorite...but another fav is me on my side, leg closest to the bed extended & he straddles it, then takes the other leg & puts it up on his shoulder. Creates a sort of scissors effect for the way we line up & he gets deep penetration.

 

[Elaya]

Hi there. my biggest turn on is good hard, unpredictable pressure sliding up and down , varying pressure ect down my clit. funny enough.. cocks are perfect for just that! The annoying thing is.. that my labia see to uhm.. really cover my clit, so I sometimes have to move them out of the way to really make contact. When we're having sex, if my guy can enter, vanilla style, and then kind of shift his whole weight/body up, towards my head, that creates more friction against the clit with every movement. Another thing smaller guys can do is scissor.. vanilla, but where you are straddling her thigh pretty much while being inside her.. allows for more contact between pubic bones, and can get more pressure on the clit. This is one of the ways I come fastest. Also, with doggy style try to find a comfortable way to reach around to finger/play with click while inside, sliding finger up and down applying pressure to clit. If she's anything like me.. you'll have a fun, sensation full ride

I wish it were easier to tell where the guys that are cool with larger woman are. I'm dying for some action.. I could really use a fwb.. but no one will even look at me because of my size. I really need a hitachi... I’m 32.. and I don't think my face is all bad. Event the guys on chubby fishing hide their face more I think so they won’t be identified for being on the site.

Anyway. enjoy. I'd love to see an explanation on how you find BBW's more attractive.. or attractive period. I'm afraid I'm caught up in thinking I’m gross..since no one around here wants to play. .. and all I want to do is find someone safe with a cock to worship!!

 

[shanier]

I'm quite a bit larger than your g/f, but Throughout my life, I've had an okay time with most positions. Doggy is probably the easiest, but it's also my favorite so...it could be either.

The thing to remember is that we're all built differently so you just have to kind of find what works best for your body and hers. That's actually the good part, because exploration is a lot of fun.

 

[MissBonita2012]

Hi all,

Looking for some advice from BBW/larger women.

I am currently dating a girl, but we havent done anything sexually yet. She is around 5' 5" and is a UK size 20, so she is on the larger side, which I adore and find amazingly sexy.

But i have never slept with a larger woman before, and was wondering what the best positions would be, and in general any advice.

I only ask, because I am not the largest guy in the world, so I was curious if that would affect positions in any way?

Just curious because I want to make the first time special for her, so any advice is appreciated!

Pillows are your friend . Depending on the structure of your lady (not all BBWs are shaped the same), she may be more comfortable will pillows under her neck and head or under her ass. I find pillows under my ass seem to open things up and make deep penetration and access for licking in the clit/pussy area easier. I am pretty uncomfortable on top, I am always worried about hurting someone by moving wrong, but I have done it (he never complained) but it was easier for me when he was laying down in the middle of the bed but close enough to the headboard to be able to hold onto it for leverage. I am not super adventurous in trying positions that look really complicated, but all the standard positions seem to work well (missionary, doggie, cowgirl, laying on our side, etc).

Aside from pillows, the only other thing I would advise is that you use your words to tell her how you feel about her, how much you find her sexy, her opening her body to you is such an amazing experience. If she is like most larger ladies, she may have some hang ups about her own body, she may have been shamed for being larger. The more you tell her and demonstrate how beautiful you find her the more open she will be to you and the experience.

That is my 2 cents, hope it is helpful and you and your lady truly enjoy being with one another.

 

[Elaya]

Pillows are your friend . The more you tell her and demonstrate how beautiful you find her the more open she will be to you and the experience.

That is my 2 cents, hope it is helpful and you and your lady truly enjoy being with one another.

I second that!! I even specifically asked my guy to tell me that I was attractive more often.. assuming he thought so.. as I didnt fell like he was at all physically attracted to me. Who knows. Maybe he wasn't. he never did make any effort to telll me he though I was pretty/beautifull or anything.. and never really said anything in bed. Even though I asked him too. So I was pretty self consious, the whole time, and felt ugly ect. all he'd do was tell me my skin was soft... um.. yipee.

 

[jen_litgirl]

I was going to suggest being vocal during sex as well. I know lots of BBW who believe that men don't REALLY want them. Sometimes they miss out on great relationships simply because they don't believe in the genuine feelings from the guy.

I would suggest being really vocal all the way through sex unless she says otherwise. Tell her every time you notice something you like. Tell her she smells good while you are really close to her and breath in her scent. Kiss her and tell her how soft her skin is. Tell her what she does to you, that she makes your cock rise to attention. Frankly you can even make up compliments. The point is for her to relax and feel like the sexual goddess you want her to be and she'll start to believe it herself.
If she starts to believe she's a sexual goddess then you better brace yourself!

 

[thirty]

Sizes really matter?

 

[nimoway80]

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[RedHotMamaTN]

I absolutely agree with you. Especially about the flexibility bit.

I use to could put both my feet behind my head. But since having 2 major back surgerys I can only put one because of the nerve damage in one leg. But Im flexable still. Ive never had a complaint because I wasnt able to do a certain position.

 

[nimoway80]

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