Not a fan of Oral

[spoiledchrissy7]

Help! Im not a fan of oral sex being preformed on me. Hubby really likes to do it though. Any tips on how to get more from it? I love to give him a blow-job and really feel kinda lacking that I dont enjoy getting more. Thanks for any tips.

 

[simpletimes]

Well what I would do is:
First give you a nice warm bubble bath.
Towel you dry, bring you into the candle lite bedroom with soft music playing. Lying you on the bed, begin giving you a full body massage with scented warm oil, as you relax and enjoy the sensations of my hands caressing your body I would lightly begin kissing your back and trailing my lips down your body. Kissing and massaging slowly as my lips continue to tease. When I have reached you derriere I would kiss your cheeks, letting my tongue slid between your cheeks, then lying between your legs I would slowly let my tongue begin to dip into the folds of your pussy, tasting your juices and telling you how beautiful you are and how sweet you taste, and how extremely lucky I am to have a woman as beautiful and sexual as you in my life.
Telling you between licks how sexy you are and how much the taste of your body turns me on.

 

[Emmcee20]

Have a chat

Help! Im not a fan of oral sex being preformed on me. Hubby really likes to do it though. Any tips on how to get more from it? I love to give him a blow-job and really feel kinda lacking that I dont enjoy getting more. Thanks for any tips.

Nice advice SimpleTimes.
Not wanting to cast any aspertions on your loving hubby's technique, but is he doing what you want him to do down there?

When he isn't around and you let your fingers do the talking, how do you play with yourself? That's the way your body responds. Having his warm tongue and mouth replace your fingers is great if they stimulate you the way you like to be turned on. I love to give oral to a lady but also know that there are different strokes for different folks.

When next he is in that mood try directing the action a little with what you do like - soft/harder, up/down, in/out. He won't work like a Playstation controller attached to your brain unless you give him the signals. GOOD LUCK! Hope this was helpful.

 

[simpletimes]

Exactly. We men do need guidance. Nothing is more stimulating, at least to me, as a woman who will help me help her.

 

[gabriel16]

love

Love giving oral sex.

 

[moredildoplease]

Well what I would do is:
First give you a nice warm bubble bath.
Towel you dry, bring you into the candle lite bedroom with soft music playing. Lying you on the bed, begin giving you a full body massage with scented warm oil, as you relax and enjoy the sensations of my hands caressing your body I would lightly begin kissing your back and trailing my lips down your body. Kissing and massaging slowly as my lips continue to tease. When I have reached you derriere I would kiss your cheeks, letting my tongue slid between your cheeks, then lying between your legs I would slowly let my tongue begin to dip into the folds of your pussy, tasting your juices and telling you how beautiful you are and how sweet you taste, and how extremely lucky I am to have a woman as beautiful and sexual as you in my life.
Telling you between licks how sexy you are and how much the taste of your body turns me on.

Oh my! Feels a little warm in here now! Great advise simpletimes!

For me - taking a bath or shower is a great way to "start" the whole pussy licking event. Gets me very relaxed and feeling clean. I make sure the girl is cleaned up and smooth for my hubby's sweet tongue.

Then once we get started, he knows that I love a good tease. So the more he touches me, massages me, kisses me in all the other right places, I am relaxed and ready to go. He will start to rub and gently tease my clit and by this time, I am begging for him to start licking me. I love when he slides a few fingers in me when he is teasing my clit as well. Then let the biting, sucking, licking continue until I cum all over his face.

I think I need a nice hot bath tonight! LOL

 

[sweet_secrets4u]

I love a bit of oral, both giving and receiving.
Setting the scene as described by one of the posters may help you,
and letting your husband know what he is doing is either nice or not.
But, maybe, since we all arnt the same, maybe oral just isnt your thing,
and that isnt anything to feel bad about.

 

[hwwannabe]

Well what I would do is:
First give you a nice warm bubble bath.
Towel you dry, bring you into the candle lite bedroom with soft music playing. Lying you on the bed, begin giving you a full body massage with scented warm oil, as you relax and enjoy the sensations of my hands caressing your body I would lightly begin kissing your back and trailing my lips down your body. Kissing and massaging slowly as my lips continue to tease. When I have reached you derriere I would kiss your cheeks, letting my tongue slid between your cheeks, then lying between your legs I would slowly let my tongue begin to dip into the folds of your pussy, tasting your juices and telling you how beautiful you are and how sweet you taste, and how extremely lucky I am to have a woman as beautiful and sexual as you in my life.
Telling you between licks how sexy you are and how much the taste of your body turns me on.

I'm lucky enough to have been on the receiving end of this scenario many times. IMHO, it can't get much better than this. I have to agree with others, too, find out what works for you and don't be shy about telling your hubby. It sounds like he would love to make you love it too.

 

[mgisobj]

Help! Im not a fan of oral sex being preformed on me. Hubby really likes to do it though. Any tips on how to get more from it? I love to give him a blow-job and really feel kinda lacking that I dont enjoy getting more. Thanks for any tips.

So is it oral sex in general or just oral sex with hubby? If its the former, what don't you like about it or enjoy? If its the later, then does he KNOW what you like?

 

[simpletimes]

I love a bit of oral, both giving and receiving.
Setting the scene as described by one of the posters may help you,
and letting your husband know what he is doing is either nice or not.
But, maybe, since we all arnt the same, maybe oral just isnt your thing,
and that isnt anything to feel bad about.

Agreed, all people are different and have preferences. I have met only 2 females in my life that do not like to receive oral sex. Nothing against that, to each their own.

The scenario I described is just what went through my head when reading the question. I am a big fan of giving oral gratification, and I do enjoy being lead in the right direction, because as stated, each woman is different and may not enjoy the same things as others.

 

[Emmcee20]

Any of this helped SpoiledChrissy?

 

[jomar]

As has been mentioned, might not be your thing and hubby may need tips...but another angle is what do you think about receiving oral sex? Right? Wrong? Maybe it would be more of a turn on to sit on his face with your fingers laced in his hair and direct him...you know, what's the missing ingredient?

 

[Carnevil9]

There is nothing wrong with not wanting to receive oral.

I used to have a lover who loved to go down on me, and was excellent at it. But whenever I would go down to return the favor, she would pull me back up. She would say, "I want you up here... with me." She preferred to get off by me fingering her pussy while kissing her on the mouth.

Much as I loved the taste of pussy, I respected her preference to get off to a fingering and a mouth-to-mouth kissing. It's all good!......Carney

 

[spoiledchrissy7]

There is nothing wrong with not wanting to receive oral.

I used to have a lover who loved to go down on me, and was excellent at it. But whenever I would go down to return the favor, she would pull me back up. She would say, "I want you up here... with me." She preferred to get off by me fingering her pussy while kissing her on the mouth.

Much as I loved the taste of pussy, I respected her preference to get off to a fingering and a mouth-to-mouth kissing. It's all good!......Carney

Thank you. I do think your right. After reading all of the replies and giving it more thought. Its just not my thing. I love have my toy inside of me, enjoy fingers and can really get into giving oral while said toy or fingers are buried deep inside of me.... but the tongue just doesn't do it for me

 

[Male23inmi]

My gf isn't into oral either, while I enjoy performing it on her I also respect her decision

 

[sunandshadow]

Humming, "motorboating", adding a carbonated (non-sugary) liquid, or a minty (non-sugary) gum/candy can all add sensation to oral.

 

[simpletimes]

I find giving a woman a nice bath to be very erotic for me. I love to wash her body while she relaxes and enjoys. And strange as it may sound, I really enjoy washing her hair. Guess I am a bit strange, but nothing is more of a turn on for me then sitting on the tub and taking care of her.