Why do you like cumming on someone or having someone cum on you?

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I was thinking the other night...always a dangerous thing. What is it about the act of cumming on someone or having them cum on you that you like so much? My wife has always been opposed to the idea, so it had been years since it had happened. The other morning I surprised her with going down on her as she woke up. After she came, I was feeling naughty and jacked off on her tits. It was good (even great?) but I was a bit disappointed that I didn't love it as much as a lot of people here seem to like it. What about it do you like so much? For me, I love the feeling of her pussy squeezing me tight and pushing me over the edge as I fill her up. Or having her continue to suck me as I cum from her blowing me. To me a hand can never replace a pussy or mouth. Maybe I'm just not getting into the visual of it enough...I'm an eyes scrunched shut as I cum kind of guy.
 
The reason why I like having someone cumming on me is it's very intense and erotic. I like feeling his warm cum on my body and it's a huge turn on.

I have only done this with play partners not with a boyfriend or someone who I really loved.
 
I only like it once in a while when I'm in a particularly dirty mood...and when I think about those times a little bit of alcohol was involved. Anyway, I like it because it makes me feel used and wanton.
 
I only like it once in a while when I'm in a particularly dirty mood...and when I think about those times a little bit of alcohol was involved. Anyway, I like it because it makes me feel used and wanton.

I was wondering if that could play into it a bit. I'm a guy that is a bit reversed in how I feel. I don't like doing things that are one sided or where she doesn't enjoy it. That is why she always cums first and if she can't, then I would rather not cum. But I would LOVE to be objectified by my wife. I have fantasies of her using me just to get off. There have been a few times where she was riding me and at the end I could tell she could care less how it felt for me. She was riding me in a way to get herself off. My ultimate fantasy is the reverse of the stereotypical guy fantasy...the blow job while watching football. I'd love to be licking her while she watches her girlie movies.
 
Marking

I love cumming on a woman. To me ,cumming on a woman is a sign of submissiveness on her part, as but I think what I like more is that I am marking her, branding her, making her mine, if only temporarily. My cum on a woman is also extremely visual, and I have been told my cum is very hot...lava-like. So it's a visual thing, as well as touch thing.


Bottom line? I LOVE cumming on a woman.....
 
I was wondering if that could play into it a bit. I'm a guy that is a bit reversed in how I feel. I don't like doing things that are one sided or where she doesn't enjoy it. That is why she always cums first and if she can't, then I would rather not cum. But I would LOVE to be objectified by my wife. I have fantasies of her using me just to get off. There have been a few times where she was riding me and at the end I could tell she could care less how it felt for me. She was riding me in a way to get herself off. My ultimate fantasy is the reverse of the stereotypical guy fantasy...the blow job while watching football. I'd love to be licking her while she watches her girlie movies.

You`ve kind of given yourself the answer here. Its all about dominance and submission, and it sounds as though you`d like your wife to dominate you. That`s why you in turn can`t see any great turn on in cumming on her, because you would be marking, dominating her, and that goes against your grain...
 
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Why? Because no words can accurately describe the wonderous sensations felt when sperm coats your face!
 
I have never been cummed on but I would like to and I do enjoy cumming on my gf. Though I wish she would make me clean it up too.
 
i enjoy watching him work his cock then explode over my breasts and abdomen...best if he then shoves his cock into my pussy and presses his body down on me for passionate kisses, smearing cum all over both of us. i love to feel dirtied by him, his cum shot inside me only to drip out of my pussy later...reminding me that i am his. or his hot juices flowing down my throat after he has fed me
 
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The intimacy and just the whole
feeling of completely fucking letting it go does it for me.....
 
I was thinking the other night...always a dangerous thing. What is it about the act of cumming on someone or having them cum on you that you like so much? My wife has always been opposed to the idea, so it had been years since it had happened. The other morning I surprised her with going down on her as she woke up. After she came, I was feeling naughty and jacked off on her tits. It was good (even great?) but I was a bit disappointed that I didn't love it as much as a lot of people here seem to like it. What about it do you like so much? For me, I love the feeling of her pussy squeezing me tight and pushing me over the edge as I fill her up. Or having her continue to suck me as I cum from her blowing me. To me a hand can never replace a pussy or mouth. Maybe I'm just not getting into the visual of it enough...I'm an eyes scrunched shut as I cum kind of guy.

it might also be more thrilling or have more significance if a partner is excited by the prospect of cum play
 
To me, it's like planting a flag on her. Primal, staking out of territory...

Mine!

:D

OMG I love that train of thought!! Someone please get me a fan, Im so hot right now!!

I just love it when he cums on me, especially after watching him jack off.
Its sexy, sensual, erotic and just so so hot watching that hot white cum shooting out towards you, covering you with his cum juices.
 
My wife likes having me cum on her tits and she rubs it all over them like lotion. It's not as much of a turn on for me as cumming on her face or in her mouth, which is my favorite thing. I had a lady friend in the past who liked it on her tits to obecause she liked the smell of it and she wouldn't shower right away after I did it because she said she could smell it on her all day afterwards. I think it's like someone else said here; maybe it's a primal territorial thing. In my wife's case I think it's also a throwback memory to her highschool boyfriend. They used to row a boat out to an island near where they lived. They'd make out and he'd finish off by cummint on her tits. Hey, if it's something she likes, I'm happy to oblige now and then, but frankly I prefer her mouth to be honest about it.
 
I love it when my hubby cums on me. I especially like when he jerks off and cums on my tits. I like to clean him and me up after he is done.

I guess I like it so much because it feels dirty and submissive. I like him watching me and I like seeing how excited he gets with anticipation.

I even like when he cums on my face. I get so excited waiting to feel his hot load on me that I cum as soon as he does.
 
I love it when my hubby cums on me. I especially like when he jerks off and cums on my tits. I like to clean him and me up after he is done.

I guess I like it so much because it feels dirty and submissive. I like him watching me and I like seeing how excited he gets with anticipation.

I even like when he cums on my face. I get so excited waiting to feel his hot load on me that I cum as soon as he does.

...that is real intimacy...:)
 
i love cumming all over a woman,

my favorite is to cum all over her face

with her mouth open so she can swallow some,


ive had a woman a squirter, cum all over my face

she rode my face and came all over it


mmmm so hot
 
Yeah it's really a a control thing for me. Knowing that I am cumming all over her/him after fucking them completes the act for me and fufills my dominant need.
 
Ithink it is more erotic, so she can watch, feel, smell, andtaste the cum
 
Why? Let me count the ways. I like watching myself ejaculate as I feel my orgasm pulse throughout my body. I like jerking off in front of my lady. I like seeing my cum land on my lady’s tits and drip down her body. My lady gets a thrill from me cumming on her tits.
I’ve cum on women who didn’t get such a thrill from it and I agree with the posts above, that wasn’t as much fun for me, either. The fact that my lady wants my cum on her tits makes it so much more enjoyable for me to put it there.
 
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