The Men who Crave Cock but aren't attracted to Men Club!

[peebudy]

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damn...now I'm dying to know what he posted!

 

[Tmmldr]

...and....

This was more like it. I had one hand wrapped around the cock, and the big purple head was straring at me. I stared back. It twitched. That was when I decided to go all the way. Just this once, at least. Some how my cock liked that decision, because it got rock hard right then. So...one little lick at the drop of precum, and it went into my mouth deep. I reached around to his ass and pushed him in with both hands, closing my eyes. It slid about two thirds of the way in, and I made little bobbing motions with my head. Then he pulled back and it was outside my mouth, and my lips and mouth were empty. There it was, the veins sticking out now, and saliva and precum dripping off of it. This cock was going to cum in my mouth, and on my face. Because of what I did to it, stroking it and sucking on it, it was going to erupt those gobs of cum. One hand went down to gently caress my balls, that's what I liked to do early in getting off. Then I realized - maybe he was the same! My other hand quickly put the cock back in my mouth, and went to giving his balls that same workover.

 

[FreshlyDirty]

Because you bitches make it look so fucking good...

No, seriously, aside from the submissiveness and humiliation factors, what it boils down to I think, is that YOU, yes you little lady, make sucking dick look like an art form. For me, and for a lot of guys I'm guessing, had we never seen your beautiful face, your sexy eyes smoldering, your wet lips gliding, your tight fist pumping, the idea would have never occurred or at least never become a strong desire. The sub/dom aspect definitely plays a major part in it I think, but if it weren't for women making cock sucking, cock worship look so fucking appealing, I doubt many of us would want to do it.

Stay with me here, and I'll tell you why I think that to be the case. I've watched gay porn. It does nothing for me. Seeing a guy suck another guy's cock does absolutely nothing for me. Not even a twitch. Limp city all day.

But seeing a woman suck cock, especially a sexy woman, makes me pull into Bonerville at top speed. Instant erection. No touching necessary, automatic hard on when seeing a sexy woman suck cock.

Yet, the fantasy of sucking a cock myself gives me a boner too. If a dominant female is included in the fantasy, directing the action by seducing, forcing, coercing, blackmailing, tricking, conning, however she's doing it, I'm close to popping a load in a no time.

So why the discrepancy?

I think it's for the same reason as why my mouth waters when I watch lesbian porn, but not so much from watching a guy eat pussy. Seeing a woman really go to town on a hot box, FUCK, it looks so wet, juicy, tasty, so fucking hot and delicious. Makes me salivate and crave the taste of juicy pussy.

In short, women make it look fucking good. Whether it's sucking cock or eating pussy. They're moaning, and slurping, and getting it wet, and FUCK it's so damn hot. Men, Blah! The only man's face I wanna see in some pussy is my own. Yet it's still baffling because the only man's face I wanna see inhaling some fat juicy cock meat is my own too.

Even still, I don't wanna see any man's face, not even my own, kissing, cuddling, or being intimate in any other way with another man. The cock, that's it. No male face or other male body parts. It's kind of wierd I guess, kind of confusing, but I learned long ago to just roll with what makes my cock hard and gets me off without too much questioning or trying to figure shit out. Fantasy of sucking cock is arousing, cock hardening and cum inspiring. Kissing or getting intimate in other ways with men is a turn off, fast trip to limp city.

Can you figure it out? It's got me stumped. The only thing I can cum up with is it has a lot to do with sub/dom desires and the fact that women look gorgeous sucking cock and/or covered in sperm. I wonder how many guys who watch a lot of porn, seeing all those blowjobs, eventually started fantasizing about sucking cock but never would have had they not seen all those hot women making it look delicious.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Well, if I didn't say that I wanted to suck a cock, no one would believe me. But then I'm not straight, either.

 

[BiTodd]

I like the way it feels and makes me feel.

 

[wnt2cumnu]

It's only human nature to behave/fuck like animals.
If it feels good, why do we have to label it bi,gay or staight?
I have recived a b/j from a man & enjoyed it. Have not yet
Gave 1, but I will. I can say i'm not attracted to men. I'm not
Gay or bi. But when I watch porn I think oh he's ugly or uh he
Got a ugly cock. I can all so think oh he looks good, he's got
A nice body, or oh now thats a nice looking cock.
I have been at the gym, pool, beach and thaught to my self
I bet he's got a nice big cock. I've also thaught I bet he's got
A stinky hairy nasty ball sack. So maybe I am attracted to men.
Or maybe it's just my human nature to Hyhave an opinion on every
Thing. I would not want to kiss a man, but to give a b/j would
Be sexually arousing. I may not hold hands with my best buddy
But drink together, pass out together, piss in front of each other,
Share the hot tub/sauna together, share our secrets, so why not
A blow job ?

 

[SpankMePlease83]

Making your own choices is awesome

And isn't that in the end, what its all about??? Great thread....

 

[haurni]

I think another reason because most of us like being the bottom once in a while, and guys don't always get the chance to be the passive partner.

I don't think this is it. As someone said, top & bottom are just labels - they don't really capture the fluidity of sexual relations. If by 'bottom' you mean 'the passive & receptive partner', the person doing the sucking could actually be 'topping' - I for one could be quite enthusiastic and aggressive about going down on another guy. If you mean 'the person who's not going to be cumming as a result' that might cover it, but I think that implies that straight men who like to suck cock would be less inclined to have their own sucked byanother guy, and I doubt that's true (in most cases, anyway) because men do like to get off as a general rule when presented with an(y ) opportunity. I still maintain that it has to be an extension of our fascination with our own dicks; that a lot of us would suck our own is particularly telling in this regard, and I don't think that's in any way indicative of homosexual leanings (not that I have a problem with them, being bi myself).

 

[Stella_Omega]

We are getting a lot of different reasons, and I hope they keep coming!

hehe I said "come'

 

[Baker St. Muse]

For me to feel comfortable sucking or being sucked by another man there would have to be some form of attraction(or lack of revulsion at least!) and SOME sort of a connection or common ground within our personalities.

I should note that I would want the man to be attractive, so somehow I have some sense of what I'd want a man to look like (for him to be an acceptable suckee), so in at least some sense there is a sort of attraction, but it's not like I see a man and because he looks a certain way that causes me to want to be involved with him. It's a very strange difference.

...if you had a friend of the same sex and they asked for a massage and you gave one, does that make you gay or bi? After all you did make your friend feel good and relieve stress. Just because you please a sexual organ on a person of the same sex it shouldn't change your sexual orientation. Its society and parents that teach us that, and in my opinion that's ignorant

The above three quotes resonate deeply with me. I'm a heterosexual married man, but I've been interested (curious, if you will allow me the word) in exploring things with another man physically, and that includes giving oral sex.

I'm not generally attracted to men. Still, I can easily imagine having a male friend, whom I trust implicitly and with whom I feel a strong bond and connection, and want to be physically intimate with him. In my mind, for two men to be comfortable enough with one another to be able to engage in physical intimacy as a way of saying, "You are my friend and I want you to feel good and be happy" is the highest expression of brotherly love I can imagine. Such an expression does nothing to diminish their "manliness" and says nothing of their overall sexual preferences.

I am attracted to women and do not feel as though I could "fall in love" with another man (though I could see myself "loving" one dearly.) In spite of that, I have for years and years wished I could find the sort of male friend I described above. Actually, I have had a handful of friends who could have been like that; we certainly had - have - a trust and strong bond of friendship based on mutual respect and admiration. But I know them well enough to know that they view physical intimacy with another man as something that's fine for other people, but not them.

So, I suppose my desire to suck cock stems in part from the desire to be able to share that sort of closeness with a friend of my own gender. However, there is another part of me that is always interested in learning, in exploring, in new experiences. Part of me looks at a hard, appealingly shaped cock and wonders, "What would it feel like to slide my fingers over it? To take it firmly in my hand? To glide my tongue along the underside? To feel the flared, mushroom-shaped head slip through my parted lips and deep into my mouth?" I have an almost overwhelming need...to know.

 

[michael2956]

Last summer one of my best friends was taking me to get my car after a party. We were driving down a dark road. I looked down at his muscular thigh and it was all I could do to keep from touching it. I still regret not grabbing him, telling him to pull off into a construction site we were driving by, bending over and freeing his cock from his shorts, and sucking him dry. To this day, whenever I see him in shorts I want to grab those legs and suck him deep. I suppose there's some deep-seated psychological explanation for this, but I don't care. I just want it!

 

[sterculius]

I've often wondered why I have this intense compulsion to suck cock while I've also always had the typical male's sexual obsession for women . I'm sure it's due, to a large degree, with the way I was introduced to cocksucking in the first place. As young teenagers, my best friend and I agreed to masturbate together. And although I was taller and stronger than he was and a year older besides, I was surprised to discover that his cock was very much bigger than mine was and as a result, I became fascinated with it. Whenever we jerked off, I would watch him stroking his massive cock and I would have an overwhelming urge to reach over and hold it and to feel it in my hand. I finally suggested to him that we try masturbating each other and from the first, I loved the sensation of my fingers wrapped around his thicker cock as I stroked him to orgasm. After a while, I suggested that we take turns blowing each other, again because I wanted to know how it felt with his large cock in my mouth. I doubt that I would have been as motivated to experiment with him this way if not because of the size of his cock. Because of his impressive cock and my attraction to it, what began as a mutual exchange gradually became more one sided with me always wanting to suck his cock until he stopped blowing me completely and I became his personal cocksucker. I just couldn't get enough of it! Eventually, I learned how to deep throat his thick cock and I loved the way that this felt. I took great pride in my ability to suck his cock and to control his orgasm. I developed a liking for the taste and texture of his semen and I found that I liked being a "cocksucker"

 

[blu_ox1]

I don't qualify as a would-be cocksucker but I have always fantasized about having a cross-dresser suck me off in some illicit place. The mix of masculine and hyper femininity is so fucking hot.

 

[Tonka]

Like a few others here, my first experience with other men was through molestation as a 10-12 year old. The other boy was only 14 however, and it was not forced so much as coerced through verbal pressuring. I never really thought of it as molestation as I very much enjoyed the sensations and it was never an unpleasant experience. As such, I don't hold any ill will towards the older boy and if I did I couldn't even remember his name to do anything about it.

One of the lingering affects of the experience is the excitement over the taboo nature of secret meetings with other men. That being what it is, I get quite excited over the idea of video booths, erotic film cinemas and even outdoor meetings with other men in secluded areas. I don't engage in these activities too often, but about once every 3 months I have to feed the lust, and then I do, I'm ok again for another few months, lol.

I have no interest in kissing another man, but I do enjoy body contact, oral and other pleasures.

No man could ever come close to creating the lust I have for a woman's body and I could never enjoy the close contact with a man in the way I do with a woman. I would never caress, kiss and worship the body of a man the way I do with a woman.

with men it's about the cock, raw sex, and the taboo element.

 

[haurni]

So, I suppose my desire to suck cock stems in part from the desire to be able to share that sort of closeness with a friend of my own gender.

This, to me, is a very interesting comment because it's related to my own personal view (not backed up by any research of which I am aware!! ) of why men find the idea of two women so hot. Generally speaking, men are socialized to be unemotional assholes while women are socialized to be affectionate and supportive. However, we are all human beings and we all need love and affection, but for men to express that is typically taboo and/or has to be couched in other terms, whereas women can be far more straightforward about it. To me, two women together, then, is the ultimate expression of outward affection (I suppose three would be even moreso, but I don't know if that extension is valid ). So in that context, perhaps a man's desire to suck another guy is just an expression of that yearning to be emotionally intimate with another man. The fact that it is expressed sexually, in a manner that would be abhorrent to conventional society, suggests that an emotional love between two men is seen as even more socially taboo. Ah, homophobia.

Yeah, pretty silly, I know.

 

[FloridaCouple]

N.B:

I think another reason because most of us like being the bottom once in a while, and guys don't always get the chance to be the passive partner.

What's your reason?

I reread your post. Guess I scanned it too quickly the first time. The submissive reason could be a very valid reason. Nothing makes a guy more submissive than to perform oral on another guy. And if a guy wants to be submissive, it's natural to be on his knees.

 

[ImprovSpirit]

Yeah, this describes a facet of my sexuality very well. I have had fantasies about sex with men and they invariably involve me in a very submissive role, no lovey-dovey stuff, just taking cock up my ass and in my mouth, sometimes with two guys at once. Sometimes I'm totally dominated, facefucked, "raped" if you will. Other times I go about servicing other men willingly, but always as the 'bottom,' with no romance, kissing, tenderness &c. For the record, I've never had a homosexual encounter, but I've been increasingly bi-curious for a few years now.

 

[wanderingseaman]

.....

 

[moredildoplease]

Okay I don't normal budge into conversations, but that was so incredible hot and it has me so hard right now

I'm with you Killer. That was incredibly hot and got me soaked!

 

[musicfan1976]

For all us deviants...

http://www.xvideos.com/video1850391/faye_valentine_sucks_many_cocks_off

enjoy

 

[sterculius]

Has this thread been highjacked?

 

[Sam5556]

http://27.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1py26WdXp1rrdxmro1_500.jpg

Always like a good looking, cut cock

Wow! That does make a guy curious.

 

[BootsxAndxBoys]

I love guys who aren't afraid to admit they love some cock

 

[Aqualover69]

Great thread. Unfortunately reading all the posts on an iPhone is tedious. I've been in the chat room many a time and talked about cocks.

We're all on a sliding scale when it comes to our sexuality and it doesn't surprise me that there guys out there that like cock but aren't attracted to men. It sounds like an oxymoron but most guys on here get it.

I could quite easily have a FMM threesome and take a guy in my mouth or ass but I sure don't want to be tender with him or kiss him. The longing for and comfort of a soft female body is far overriding.

In the heat of action with the right guy, in my case a laid back, no-egotistical guy I would take that cock hard in my mouth or ass. In fact my wife's fantasy is to suck me off while a guy pounds my ass.

 

[mr_db]

So True!

Great thread. Unfortunately reading all the posts on an iPhone is tedious. I've been in the chat room many a time and talked about cocks.

We're all on a sliding scale when it comes to our sexuality and it doesn't surprise me that there guys out there that like cock but aren't attracted to men. It sounds like an oxymoron but most guys on here get it.

I could quite easily have a FMM threesome and take a guy in my mouth or ass but I sure don't want to be tender with him or kiss him. The longing for and comfort of a soft female body is far overriding.

In the heat of action with the right guy, in my case a laid back, no-egotistical guy I would take that cock hard in my mouth or ass. In fact my wife's fantasy is to suck me off while a guy pounds my ass.

^^^ I could just copy/paste that and it would exactly how I feel!!!