So we can give guys a back-handed compliment if we don't come during intercourse? "Sorry, honey, you're too big and straight to hit the right spot...."
So we can give guys a back-handed compliment if we don't come during intercourse? "Sorry, honey, you're too big and straight to hit the right spot...."
heh well, that's the other sad truth, a guy who is big enough to stretch those interior walls nice and tight is going to get closer to the gspot than otherwise-- hitting a ball with the side of the barn is easier than the other way around.
I stopped feeling much in the way of penis envy when i discovered what my entire hand could do inside a woman
Bingo.
Amanda Marcotte seems to hint that the myth of vaginal orgasms and the quest to prove the existence of the G-spot could be a sexist tactic for wrestling women's control of their own pleasure. I don't know if I buy into the sinister aspect of this notion, but I do agree that we are preoccupied with the concept.
What is missing is the recognition that good sex is about comforting both mind and body. It starts between the ears, not between the legs. I don't really care if my partner has a G-spot or not; I know that she enjoys stimulation there. For her, a day of appreciative conversation, shared labor, a hot bath, a full body massage, and cunnilingus with internal and external vaginal massage usually results in an explosive orgasm. And sleep. For me, this is my reward: watching her blissfully sleep off the effects.
Of course, when she wakes, she is very appreciative.
