A question for Lit Ladies

[PleasePeesMe]

Ageism seems to be rife in many areas. Do you think men over a certain age are Dirty Old Men? And if so, what age is the cut off point?

 

[Noor]

Ageism seems to be rife in many areas. Do you think men over a certain age are Dirty Old Men? And if so, what age is the cut off point?

Its not an exact age, its a mindset. A man who is interested in a person young enough to be his daughter or granddaughter could fall into that category.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Very true.

But I was thinking more of women who think that sex and a man over a certain age just don't go together. A sexual version of surveys or TV audiences, where people over 55 apparently don't exist. (And if you post a reply, ladies, would you mind stating YOUR age, please?)

 

[Ember_on_ice]

Personally, I don't have any problem with people of any age wanting sex. I've been sexually aware since I was about seven, though I didn't actually have sex until I was 24. I fully plan and expect to be having sex at least into my 70s, so I certainly don't begrudge anyone else that right.

I'm finding that many of the men who contact me here are either in their 20s or over 50, and I'm not sure what's up with that; for me, anyone more than 5 years younger or 10 years older is not a good fit. And the men who are old enough to be my father are definitely out of bounds, due to the ick factor. I have never understood the whole "Daddy" thing.

I'm 41, and have been abstinent for about three years now due to life issues. I'm planning to change that this year, because I've always thought my 40s would be my best decade, and I don't want to waste them

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I sincerely hope you don't.

 

[sweet_secrets4u]

When I first met my husband I was 30 and he was 49. Yes Im old enough to be daughter material, and only one person ever called him a dirty old man to which he told the guy off, because our relationship wasnt like that of a dirty old man and a younger woman, we just clicked, and age never came into it.

He is now 68 and 'can still fuck like a rattle snake' (his words not mine, though i do agree). Another saying is, it now takes him 'all night to do what he did all night'.

Noor is right when she says that being a 'dirty old man' is a mindset, there is no age when one becomes one, but its also acting like a creepy person too, and you don't have to be old to do that. I have 3 people on ignore here on Lit, and there all younger guys.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I agree

Just that one or two "silences" recently made me wonder whether some women thought "Ewwww, no". Even though I know there are a lot who don't.

 

[EnglishEm]

I recently had a 76 year old guy contact me on a swingers site. He wanted to watch me fuck my husband while he masturbated and would I also allow him to touch me?

I didn't think he was a dirty old man - I was more worried about the two stokes he'd had in the last couple of years! I sent him a polite 'no' (in case you're wondering).

I think everybody has their own opinion of what a dirty old man is, but being a pensioner and still wanting sex...what's wrong with that?

 

[SmileyGirl]

I think any male can be 'dirty and sleazy' regardless of age!

 

[jackflash81]

I think any male can be 'dirty and sleazy' regardless of age!

I would agree...no age limit on dirty, sleaziness!

 

[Boundlife]

I'm a young 37
To me a "dirty old man" hits on the same women in the same way as horny arogant young guy ex "Hey Sexy, wanna fuck"

Honestly, I have met some wonderful men here who are a chunk older than me. I would only call them a dirty old man with a smile on my face and a lustful or satisfied look in my eye

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I'm reassured

by the positive responses. I think I'm a 64 year old with a strong libido. But you can't help wondering sometimes......

 

[NaturistLouise]

by the positive responses. I think I'm a 64 year old with a strong libido. But you can't help wondering sometimes......

Keep up the good strong libido! Sex keeps us seniors young.

 

[ella_v]

There are no age limits for a guy, as long as everything is working well.

And there is nothing dirty about an older fellow to have some fun, it is just natural. Besides, there are a lot of things that a young girl can learn from a mature guy.

 

[peachesmelba]

58 year old here with a 56 year old SO - I call him "dirty old man" and he calls me "dirty old woman" and we're both enormously satisfied with that state of affairs... When I was 12 I thought it was cute and sweet that my 60+ Granny got remarried - that they would hold hands and she would sit on his lap and they would call each other pet names...they did until their deaths in their 90s. I hope my own grandchildren are as proud of the SO and I at that age......

 

[nimoway80]

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