Talk to me about anal sex

[cmky]

Help me understand the fascination with the backside.
I've had two boyfriends that were serious enough for long-term sexual relationships. Both of them prodded me for it. They wanted to do other things...rimming, is it?

Now, I'm writing a story, and I want to get inside the guy's head. So, let me have it. What makes you wanna go there? I mean, guys know what comes out of their own butts, I can assume they know by extension what comes out of mine. Yet, there is this fascination with it. I think butts are cute, but I'd never put my mouth there.

I'm in a relationship with a girl now, and while there might be the occasional slap on the ass, it's nothing like being with a guy.

So, what makes a guy see a perfectly good orifice and go, "naa, I'll take what's behind door #2"?

Is it porn conditioning? Is it simple taboo? What?

 

[jimmyboy1212]

i think it has more to do with the girl accepting you and letting you get your dick in yet another place on her body, also if the girl digs it then its kind of an obligation cause for me i want to see my girl cumming just as hard if not harder than me during sex.

 

[peebudy]

for me, it's a little the taboo, but mostly the incredible tight and hot feeling, and the willingness of my wife to open her ass to me.

i love pussy, don't get me wrong, but an occasional trip down the ole dirt road is heavenly.

Rimming is something i also enjoy, but mostly because of how my wife reacts to it. it's kind of like my way of returning the favor for her allowing me to fuck her ass. (although truth be told, i rimmed her for about 5 years before she finally allowed me to put my cock up her ass)

 

[tonihooper]

for me, it's a little the taboo, but mostly the incredible tight and hot feeling, and the willingness of my wife to open her ass to me.

i love pussy, don't get me wrong, but an occasional trip down the ole dirt road is heavenly.

Rimming is something i also enjoy, but mostly because of how my wife reacts to it. it's kind of like my way of returning the favor for her allowing me to fuck her ass. (although truth be told, i rimmed her for about 5 years before she finally allowed me to put my cock up her ass)

I am a male who has had mostly male partners and have never fully enjoyed the feeling of having something in my butt. The enjoyment comes from giving them a warm place to put their penis and orgasm.

 

[jimmyboy1212]

I am a male who has had mostly male partners and have never fully enjoyed the feeling of having something in my butt. The enjoyment comes from giving them a warm place to put their penis and orgasm.

you should look into buying an aneros they are great for getting to learn to like things in your ass they feel so fucking good pumping in and out of your ass YOU WONT REGRET IT

 

[breastysadie]

When I have sex with girls I love to rim them; there's just something so forbidden and hot about tonguing an asshole.

 

[curiousalways]

The fact that not every sex partner will let you, it's tighter, and it's so very personal. For me there is nothing I enjoy more than a feminine backside. Preferably showing pussy and anus. There's nothing left to see after that.

 

[stickygirl]

Butt guys, does an asshole actually feel better than a vagina? I mean an asshole is basically a bit of sphincter muscle and then that's it

 

[Dickstroker81]

Butt guys, does an asshole actually feel better than a vagina? I mean an asshole is basically a bit of sphincter muscle and then that's it

Yes it does feel better, always tighter and more friction.

 

[jackstud]

Yes, kinda fits you like a glove. Always use lube of course. The feeling of streaching it open is wounderful. When lubed it can be wicked nasty in n out, in n out

 

[celticmedic]

I've never had anal sex but I've used my tongue/fingers/a toy on girls' arses before. As well as naughtiness/taboo/forbidden aspect, I like the idea (in fact it's pretty much top of my list of fetishes, though I have many many Others I want to explore and/or repeat ) because it requires a lot of trust and is a very intimate act that can feel good for both parties. Plus, personally, I'm really keen on being on the receiving end from a woman because of the same reasons. I know full well what comes out of there (my user name should give you a hint that I'm fairly familiar with biology ) but you can avoid that most of the time and honestly the women that I've ventured back there with have enjoyed themselves. I really like the trust/intimacy side of things, as well as the fact that it's naughty, but that's just me.

 

[stickygirl]

Yes it does feel better, always tighter and more friction.

I get the tighter bit re the sphincter but inside - is that tighter than a vagina?

 

[MaddysSecret]

I always felt it was basically two things:

First, the taboo surrounding it, like another threshold cross. When I'm with another girl I enjoy tonguing her ass and getting tongued.

Second, it's the feeling of totally dominating the girl - the aggression coupled with her submissive position, and the physical intensity.

 

[NiceNastyMann]

I get the tighter bit re the sphincter but inside - is that tighter than a vagina?

Yep. More muscle groups there PLUS the 'instinct' to close, clutch and hold.

However I'm going to be in a minority here it seems - and not say it's better. Well, not always better. Depends on the mood I think more than anything else.

Besides there is another element here. The feel of the ladies ass against your lower belly and groin - along with what was already mentioned - the clearly submissive attitude that is automatically assumed (gee, the pun was NOT intended).

In terms of rimming - it is a taboo - and it does have an element of submission on the part of the person doing it. So a couple gets to play back and forth - equal time for both in a way...

 

[mrmiwon]

Help me understand the fascination with the backside.
I've had two boyfriends that were serious enough for long-term sexual relationships. Both of them prodded me for it. They wanted to do other things...rimming, is it?

Now, I'm writing a story, and I want to get inside the guy's head. So, let me have it. What makes you wanna go there? I mean, guys know what comes out of their own butts, I can assume they know by extension what comes out of mine. Yet, there is this fascination with it. I think butts are cute, but I'd never put my mouth there.

I'm in a relationship with a girl now, and while there might be the occasional slap on the ass, it's nothing like being with a guy.

So, what makes a guy see a perfectly good orifice and go, "naa, I'll take what's behind door #2"?

Is it porn conditioning? Is it simple taboo? What?

It feels tighter and warmer.

And, there's a great feeling parting a woman's sexy butt cheeks to get in. Very hot.

Like the others, I like the the mental turn-on of doing something a bit taboo. I've also found that the taboo goes the other direction and can create a special bond with the woman. Really great to hear a woman tell me she liked me doing her butt and wants to do it again.

 

[catimann]

No anal expert but the two I've been in were great and tight to get into. Deep inside neither were as tight as the pussy was. My GF loves getting it up the ass when she has had some wine. Then it is almost an obligation and she really gets off on it, but even then she like the feeling of my head going slowly in and out and not so much the depth. Her pussy is much tighter and she has great muscle control there.
What she tells me and gets very worked up over is how much she can feel. Entering her slowly is heaven because every ridge or bump she can feel 100 x more than in her pussy. It allows her to feel 200% of my hard cock and she just loves that.
For me the slow play of the head in and out of her ass gets me to have very big loads. That she loves as well because she wants me to unload when just my head is just entering. She feels all the pulsing and all the squirts going in and the warmth as well. Says she feels more this way than any other.

Then while she is still super horny I slip under her and lick her silly. Some of our best sexual times, this way.