wife with husband and another man?

[nwiowaman69]

how many ladies out there have a fantasy of being with their husband and another guy? i would love to convince my wife to tell me her fantasies and this be one of them! she recently started playing with my ass and i absolutely love it!

is there any way to help me convince her to open up and let me know what she wants? i can tell by the look on her face when i use things in her pussy and ass at the same time she is in love with it.

any help would be greatly appreciated! comments welcome!

 

[sweet_secrets4u]

Just tell her its one of your fantasies. You never know it may be one of hers. And just ask her what fantasies she has, because we all do have fantasies.

But then I have mentioned one of my fantasies to my husband, more than once and he hasn't taken up the idea though. so maybe my input isn't all that valuable to you

 

[nwiowaman69]

i have tried and all she says is "i don't have fantasies" i have alot of different ones lol and i would love to help her fulfill some of hers if she would tell them....been thinking alot lately it would be hot to watch her with another guy....

 

[amofiga]

i have tried and all she says is "i don't have fantasies" i have alot of different ones lol and i would love to help her fulfill some of hers if she would tell them....been thinking alot lately it would be hot to watch her with another guy....

Odd, I got the same answer from my wife years ago when I tried to get her to open up. I knew she had to be lying because as someone else said, eveybody has fantasies. It's a shame that most people are embarrassed to discuss them because too many people can't seem to accept the fantasies of their partner. They don't want to hear that they fantasize about sex with somebody else or a group of others because it makes them seem weird. I think a lot of marriages and other relationships are limited because people are embarrassed and they aren't accepting.

 

[peebudy]

I'm in the same boat. when we were dating my wife was very adventurous and playful in bed. that ended shortly after we got married. sex with her is now very standard and boring. she says she has no fantasies, and doesn't seem interested in exploring mine. thank God for Lit or I'd probably go crazy.

 

[Blue_Duck]

I'm in the same boat. when we were dating my wife was very adventurous and playful in bed. that ended shortly after we got married. sex with her is now very standard and boring. she says she has no fantasies, and doesn't seem interested in exploring mine. thank God for Lit or I'd probably go crazy.

I have the exact same problem. My wife and I were very adventerous back when we were dating. We enjoyed the company of a woman and a man in our bed on seperate occasions. She seemed to really enjoy herself during those times. Now she claims to not have any fantasies and never initiates sex. I keep trudging along, but it is frustrating and tiresome. This is what turned me on to literotica!

 

[Scentofawoman]

I have been a bit reflective of this lately. i have been trying to get my husband to open up more and be more adventurous. I think the stress of work, and the burden of day to day life just really is putting pressure on him. It occurred to me that sometimes we did our best communication on vacation. Not a huge trip, just the lazy ones where we would drive 3 hours away to a beach or something. I'm going to try that again. Relax, pamper, and strategy. It might take a couple of forays into battle but hopefully the campaign will be worth it. : )

 

[NaturistLouise]

how many ladies out there have a fantasy of being with their husband and another guy? i would love to convince my wife to tell me her fantasies and this be one of them! she recently started playing with my ass and i absolutely love it!

is there any way to help me convince her to open up and let me know what she wants? i can tell by the look on her face when i use things in her pussy and ass at the same time she is in love with it.

any help would be greatly appreciated! comments welcome!

Your first question: My favourite fantasy is being with my husband and another guy and usually the other guy is big and black!

Your second question: I may be wrong but I believe that all women have sexual fantasies. Some are reluctant to share them because they are afraid that hubby will view them as a form of cheating. The phrase "You are all I want" may be an indication of this.

Others may be concerned that hubby will keep pressuring them to act out the fantasies, when they really don't want to. When I look at your post, I'm not sure that you realize that your wife may not want to act out her fantasies.

For me, I used to be reluctant to share fantasies because of my religious upbringing. I was taught that good girls don't dress sexy, masturbate, think about sex or even enjoy it! Wow, how can religion get so off track? But seriously, it did prevent me from opening up for a few years.

 

[Pj2424143]

Just tell her its one of your fantasies. You never know it may be one of hers. And just ask her what fantasies she has, because we all do have fantasies.

But then I have mentioned one of my fantasies to my husband, more than once and he hasn't taken up the idea though. so maybe my input isn't all that valuable to you

What sort of fantasies have you mentioned?

 

[nwiowaman69]

I have not mentioned any to her because Im not sure how to approach the subject

 

[blu3tooth]

I think wives keep their fantasies secret because they want them to remain fantasies. Once you start telling, the magic begins to disappear, and the chance that they become reality is present.

 

[beachtime]

women are more posessive

My X was extremely jealous and did not want to do anything with others for fear I would have sex with another female. So after a few years of fantasy talk just between us I realized it was going to have to be MMF or she would never be comfortable with it. I was right. She loved the idea of having two cocks and more making me watch her get fucked; but she would never want to see me with another female. Since I had my voyeuristic side it worked well for us.

 

[TrinityBlaine]

I would love to be with my boyfriend with another older guy.
He's into voyeurism so I think he would probably enjoy watching me be fucked by another guy.
I would love to watch my boyfriend with another guy but I don't ever see that happening.

 

[Bbb13]

I would love to be with my boyfriend with another older guy.
He's into voyeurism so I think he would probably enjoy watching me be fucked by another guy.
I would love to watch my boyfriend with another guy but I don't ever see that happening.

And what about males touching?

 

[erosthenes]

communicating fantasies

I echo Louise's and Blu's comments on what might lie behind a woman's (or anyone's for that matter) reluctance to share such fantasies; that they might come true. If it turns out that the reality does not match the fantasy, then that might be one less fantasy they have to "work with" in future.

One way that I and Mrs. E have of opening up to each other is in our writing - and as editor of my stories here on Lit, there are few secrets I have kept from her. Though, my bet is that there is still a lot more for me to learn about her than I shall ever have the intuition to figure out, or wisdom to handle in the years I have left. But I will have great fun trying!

Emailing each other what our fantasies for special nights together on those rare occasions when we are kids-free can be a great lead-in to an evening of mind-blowing sex - and we find that we can really open up a lot more to each other that way. Perhaps that might help the two of you open up and be more explicit in your desires with each other.

There is something about taking the time to write down such things ....

would you, could you, in a van ...
could we, add another man?

 

[sweet_secrets4u]

i have tried and all she says is "i don't have fantasies" i have alot of different ones lol and i would love to help her fulfill some of hers if she would tell them....been thinking alot lately it would be hot to watch her with another guy....

Believe me when i say this, all women have fantasies, were no different from men. Maybe she is just uncomfortable in sharing them with you, or she is afraid of you reaction, or what you will think of her, if she shares them.

 

[peter99jackson]

how many ladies out there have a sex fantasy of being with their husband and another guy? i would love to convince my wife to tell me her fantasies and this be one of them! she recently started playing with my ass and i absolutely love it

is there any way to help me convince her to open up and let me know what she wants? i can tell by the look on her face when i use things in her pussy and ass at the same time she is in love with it.

any help would be greatly appreciated! comments welcome!

My Wife and I enjoy watching adult movies together . I noticed the ones that got her going were mmf . When we were having sex I used to ask her how she would like to be fucked by an attractive well endowed guy ,asked her to imagine that he was inside her as I fucked her with a jelly , it drove her wild . I asked if she would like to turn the fantasy into reality and find someone . Although t he idea was very exciting for her she couldnt go through with it . I knew that with a little encouragement if we were in the right place at the right time with the right man that there would be a good posability that she would go through with it and enjoy the experience . After a long search I found someone who I thought she would find attractive and arranged for him to meet her without her knowing and in such a way that it wouldnt put her under any pressure . My plan worked perfectly and the guy ended up stayig the night with us and pleasuring her until the early hours. Once she opened up she couldnt get enough of it . He became a regular visitor for almost 4 years.

 

[klippert]

I'm in the same boat. when we were dating my wife was very adventurous and playful in bed. that ended shortly after we got married. sex with her is now very standard and boring. she says she has no fantasies, and doesn't seem interested in exploring mine. thank God for Lit or I'd probably go crazy.

I have been riding this boat for a while. Before marrying, the Mrs was all about sexual adventure. I have brought this subject up many times. Lately I have been funnin' her about her Sexy lady friends. The other MILF's. Playing round with her having a little girl adventure date.
But she knows the real fantasy is MFM. I was lucky enough to be invited in with a married cpl back in my twenties. Seeing his wife's complete pleasure will always be fixed in my mind

I have been a bit reflective of this lately. i have been trying to get my husband to open up more and be more adventurous. I think the stress of work, and the burden of day to day life just really is putting pressure on him. It occurred to me that sometimes we did our best communication on vacation. Not a huge trip, just the lazy ones where we would drive 3 hours away to a beach or something. I'm going to try that again. Relax, pamper, and strategy. It might take a couple of forays into battle but hopefully the campaign will be worth it. : )

This to me is a surprise...When I was stressed from work, or daily life in general...Lets talk sex baby

 

[TrinityBlaine]

And what about males touching?

I am all for it.
My boyfriend, not so much.

 

[nwiowaman69]

Yeah after she started playing with my ass i have come to believe i would enjoy a guys touch as well as her

 

[nwiowaman69]

wow is all i can say! last night made me realize she might be really opening up now lol....during our session(ended up being 3 of them one right after the other!) she told me one of her fantasies is to use a strap on and then once she started talking about it became very very wild and begged me to pull her hair and spank her! liking this new experience!

 

[MilkFountain]

My X was extremely jealous and did not want to do anything with others for fear I would have sex with another female. So after a few years of fantasy talk just between us I realized it was going to have to be MMF or she would never be comfortable with it. I was right. She loved the idea of having two cocks and more making me watch her get fucked; but she would never want to see me with another female. Since I had my voyeuristic side it worked well for us.

In addition to your voyeurism, I just get really turned on watching another man make love to my wife. It took several years for both her and me to go through all the stages of opening up—secret fantasy, broaching the subject during hot moments in bed, talking about invited dinner guests, earlier experiences, my setting up sexy situations with staged dinner evenings (dressing her for them, often disagreeing about “appropriateness”); leaving her alone with a guest on a staged emergency or "unexpected" phonecall calling me away; watching the two of them through the window; phoning to listen to her ragged breathing while he was in her, even asking her if he was . . . to being present, watching, fondling, kissing everywhere, even wetting and placing him in her—and finally, now, having her (when it suits her) be a willing accomplice in little adventures.

I have no interest in being with another woman now, as I did occasionally a few short years ago (and, I'm sure my wife, like yours, would not want to see me with another woman. My wife fulfills my fantasies and bent side.

 

[olly17]

Same response from my soon to be ex wife...I can't imagine not having any fantasies!

 

[Doctor Joe]

I would love to be with my boyfriend with another older guy.
He's into voyeurism so I think he would probably enjoy watching me be fucked by another guy.
I would love to watch my boyfriend with another guy but I don't ever see that happening.

Hi Trinity. I'm in Washington and I'm an older guy, so I just put together 2 pieces of your fantasy. How do we make the other ones fit all together?

 

[NICEGUY74]

Sometimes when my wife has mounted me ....I fantasize that a young strapping young lad is watching her ass bounce up and down from behind while he jacks off....perhaps he's not even in the room, perhaps outside watching through a window..thinking all sorts of dirty thoughts about her....I know this turns my wife on too as I once told her we should close the curtains.. she asked why..and I shared this possibility....her dry pussy was suddenly dripping..

I have also fantasized many times about sharing her with another guy.. One of my most intense fantasies, begins in a hot tub with a friend. We are all relaxed perhaps a little alcohol in the mix...then we share a shower... perhaps forgetting that this this is not usually appropriate...Before we know it we're naked and playing around..one thing leads to another and the next thing my darling is pressed between two men panting like a bitch in heat...as we lick, suck and fuck her to orgasm after orgasm...