a fetish or s&M..

[smj4740]

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[abella117]

a friend and i was talking about being tied up.. but not being mastered just loved and trusting the one who tied you to not hurt in you in any way what so ever.. just light forcful sex with your hands tied.. would this still be s&m or just a fetish fanitsy ..

More fetish fantasy than sadomasochism because your not inflicting any physical or emotional pain for sexual gratification.

But its still kinky and being tied up and giving yourself over to your partner even for pleasure, there in lies submissiveness

 

[Stella_Omega]

It's one of those borderline things-- you could identify as BDSM, or not. It is considered a kink, probably.

But I want to point out that not all BDSM involves pain.

Nor do you need to be submissive to enjoy being the one that gets done to. Personally, I love me some Pillow Queens!

 

[abella117]

Personally, I love me some Pillow Queens!

Pillow Queen? I haven't heard that term before.

 

[klippert]

a friend and i was talking about being tied up.. but not being mastered just loved and trusting the one who tied you to not hurt in you in any way what so ever.. just light forcful sex with your hands tied.. would this still be s&m or just a fetish fanitsy ..

I would call that a fetish...Mrs K likes lite bondage.

 

[smj4740]

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[absorb]

good to know

More fetish fantasy than sadomasochism because your not inflicting any physical or emotional pain for sexual gratification.

But its still kinky and being tied up and giving yourself over to your partner even for pleasure, there in lies submissiveness

I was wondering the same thing, glad someone asked. I find I do like the bondage, yet not recieving any emotional pain or major physical pain really. So, my husband was right, its kind of a kink, not really the real thing.

 

[skinnysinner]

I was wondering the same thing, glad someone asked. I find I do like the bondage, yet not recieving any emotional pain or major physical pain really. So, my husband was right, its kind of a kink, not really the real thing.

Agree its a fetish thing, I like the idea of the light bondage, but don't want to be hurting, or to be hurt... just a little teasing and control when you are least expecting it!

 

[peterford]

Tied up and left alone for awhile always gets me going.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I was wondering the same thing, glad someone asked. I find I do like the bondage, yet not recieving any emotional pain or major physical pain really. So, my husband was right, its kind of a kink, not really the real thing.

Nothing wrong with a little bit of kink!

And there's a whole lot wrong with trying to force yourself to like something you don't like for the sake of a label. Labels are our servants, not the other way around.

You can call yourself a "bottom" and a "kinkster."

 

[absorb]

Cool thanks.

Nothing wrong with a little bit of kink!

And there's a whole lot wrong with trying to force yourself to like something you don't like for the sake of a label. Labels are our servants, not the other way around.

You can call yourself a "bottom" and a "kinkster."

I like that, "kinkster".. cool. Your right, its just a label. We have been experimenting is all, recently with things, and I was so wondering, what exactly what it was to be named.