If you could go back and change something

[snorkyman]

So..............if you go back and change something in a relationship what would it be?

And where would you want it to be?

 

[shewantsmore]

i would not have married quite so young

 

[snorkyman]

really? why

 

[a75]

So..............if you go back and change something in a relationship what would it be?

I would change my cell phone number when I started dating my wife.

 

[strapon_tales]

Everything.

 

[Xerxes82]

I would break off my first long term relationship at least two years earlier, when I was thinking about it. And I'd go out with the devilishly cute brunette who I pushed away to stay faithful to that gf, after ending things with said gf.

But really, I'm finally in a place where what's come before doesn't haunt me, or chase me from my dreams of happiness. So I'm actually good as is.

 

[needsom]

I would not have married at all...seems I make poor decisions when it comes to women

 

[Kahlo]

Yes.. I would have walked away for good the first time I tried to.

 

[RedMonkeyButt]

So..............if you go back and change something in a relationship what would it be?

And where would you want it to be?

I wouldn't change a thing. The decisions of my past have made me who I am, and I wouldn't change that for the world. Just because I may not have like those decisions, doesn't mean the end result wasn't worth it all.

 

[brw02]

I don't know where to start. I've had more than one relationship, and I don't like the way they ended. I should have: 1) never got into the relationships in the first place; or 2) got out of said relationships long before I did. I'm sure that I have met girls who I could have a good relationship with. Unfortunately, I didn't realize it at the time(s).

 

[kodos9000]

God the list is endless. for one I would not have fallen for party girls, fun yes! dependable no!

I would have been way more confident with my first real woman! I was so timid and shy I think she thought she was dating a beat dog!

 

[philos]

Iknow it's been said but, not get married.

 

[goatchick1]

I don't know where to start. I've had more than one relationship, and I don't like the way they ended. I should have: 1) never got into the relationships in the first place; or 2) got out of said relationships long before I did. I'm sure that I have met girls who I could have a good relationship with. Unfortunately, I didn't realize it at the time(s).

never too late brw....

oh and i probably wouldn't change anything, i've had and got a pretty fine life.

 

[ms_intrigue]

......

 

[Stanstheman]

I had a friendship here.
I lost it.
It make me sad.

 

[RedButterflySlut]

I'd be more myself to the guys I've liked. I get really nervous and sometimes say things that aren't at all my own words or thoughts, they just come out like word vomit.

I'd rather be rejected as myself than keep someone around that thinks I'm a different person than I am. It's really hard to change someone's perception once they've made a decision about you.

 

[Rolando2]

my whole fucking life,...... seriously!

 

[fullservice65]

I wouldn't have been such a doofus while we were dating.

 

[chelleb]

I wouldn't change a thing. The decisions of my past have made me who I am, and I wouldn't change that for the world. Just because I may not have like those decisions, doesn't mean the end result wasn't worth it all.

This, put into words much better than I could have!

That being said, the one thing I'd like to change isn't something that was in my control anyway, and not something I could have changed even if I wanted too.

~Chelle

 

[KarenM411]

I'm not sure i'm capable of making different choices then i have, even if i were given a second chance, so i just embrace the ones i have made.

Now if i could change other peoples decisions that would be more fun.

 

[Jake_Knight]

Would've avoided my first girlfriend who gave me that kind of kiss that ended up being a gooey, invasive experience. Felt more like a dental/throat check-up with moans than a kiss. Still don't use tongue much for kissing ever since.

 

[Paul_Chance]

Earlier

I would have slept with C.S. earlier. She's "the one who got away". We'd worked together for years, then became lovers in the week before I moved across the country. It was a great week and we've crossed paths every now and then down through the years.

 

[fullservice65]

I would do a lot more yoga, so I could blow myself well into my 50s/60s.

 

[BongoGal]

I can think of at least four guys I shouldn't have had sex with. One was a complete mistake, and the other three became too clingy afterwards, thinking that the sex made us a couple.

 

[Hans101]

...the other three became too clingy afterwards, thinking that the sex made us a couple.

There are many girls who make that same mistake.