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Safe_Bet
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What kind of pics?
If they are GLBT related (and posted in accordance with forum rules) I'm sure nobody will say anything.
If they are pictures of hetero shit (like you getting fucked by your wife - which appears to be one of your kinks), they don't belong here, IMO.
If they are GLBT related (and posted in accordance with forum rules) I'm sure nobody will say anything.
If they are pictures of hetero shit (like you getting fucked by your wife - which appears to be one of your kinks), they don't belong here, IMO.
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Adre
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Bring em on. Who cares what they think?
Safe_Bet
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And you "in some tights" makes it GLBT related exactly how?
(BTW, WTF is with THAT? You think you're Robin Hood or Mr. Tiny Dancer or something?)
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Judging from your previous pics they'd be most welcomed here. Please go ahead.
No being in some tight does not make it GLBT in anyway. I want to know what the men on here think.
So why is it that some people here seam so harsh and closed minded? Is it because us "straight" people don't fit into some nice little GLBT file? or is it because we are the "norm"?
Thank you it's some what of a downer to be shut down for no real reason over something that is no big deal.
Safe_Bet
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Why do you "normal" "straight" people want to post in GLBT forum? Does it somehow turn your sorry ass on trolling for queers or sumthin? Why is it closed minded to want ONE SINGLE PLACE IN THIS ENTIRE SITE where we don't have to endure your arrogant shit that makes you think your "norm" is so superior to us homos that you can inflict it on us against our wishes.
BTW, the correct word is "seem" you illiterate git!
Wow nice ego and thanks for the English lesson. Your wit has enlightened me.
Safe_Bet
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"Shut down"??? You fucking ASKED for our opinions and I gave you mine, so stop with your whiny "downer" shit.
Non-GLBT, effeminate, cross dresser threads belong in the Fetish forum. Just say'in.
I just ad to this one as to not offend anyone.
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=40187962#post40187962
Safe_Bet
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CJontherocks
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I'm going to have to reluctantly side with Safe_Bet on this one. The purpose of the GLBT Chatter thread is "Discussion of non-straight sexuality and life. Find support and friends."
There is, as you said, a specific place for you to post and receive feedback on your photographs.
Now, if you'd like to discuss your desire to post photos of yourself in tights, this might be the place, provided you have questions or comments on how that relates to your non-straight sexuality. If it your fetish to post photos and read other men's compliments, then there's a specific place for that as well.
I think what Safe_Bet is saying, albeit ineloquently, is that gay, lesbian, bisexual and transsexual people find it offensive when self-professed straight people come in here to the GLBT forums just to rattle our cage. When you post photos of yourself, expecting gay men to get all turned on and to hoot and holler about your fine sexy ass, we feel like you're condescending. A great many of us find that to be an insult. You do not appear to be here to meet any of us, get to know any of us, or to try to understand any of us. You're apparently here to get turned on by fantasizing about gay men wanting you. We, on the other hand, are here to talk about our non-straight sexuality and life. I'm making the assumption you are heterosexual, of course, based on the conversation thus far. If you are not, then please make that clear.
At any rate, this is not the place for your photos. You already knew where to post them. We know where the photo place is too, and if we want to look at them, we will. If you'd like to discuss your apparent need for affirmation from gay men about your body, then please continue.
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One last note for you, Safe_Bet... and please don't take this the wrong way. I love that you wear your heart on your sleeve (or perhaps on the end of your fist?), and are adamant about standing up for the GLBT community when you perceive an inappropriate post. But your comments are often so abrasive and insulting that your message is lost. I believe you have some important things to share, but few people listen because you are just so gosh-awful mean. Sometimes people just don't know any better. Maybe we could try to teach them, not just push them away.
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Well put. There are some of us who would like to have the freedom to move between all worlds without having our fucking heads bitten off by some angry person. I have learned much over the years by visiting communities of all sorts. Building walls will keep me out...but it will also keep you in.
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Okay, dude... (and I don't think I'm taking this wrongly because I don't think you mean it that way at all), but:
• after "turning the other cheek" for the gazillionth time only to have it slapped once again by a bunch of heteros...
• after having my loved ones insulted because of who and what their "moms" are/were...
• after fighting tooth & nail (and ten times harder that a str8 person would have had to) to achieve a level of self respect and pride...
• after having a fucking hetero try to rape the "queer out of me"...
• after seeing most all of the gays & lesbians who used to call this place home driven out by the bi-curious bandidos, "look at my str8 ass in tights" fetishers and "I like cock, but I'm not gay" commandos...
I think I have the right to express my outrage and anger AFTER they start to give me shit in a forum where they don't fucking belong in the first place.
Please also note that I stated my opinion to his question and made it VERY clear that it was my opinion. I didn't start getting on his ass until he started with his "close minded" crap (funny how it's always the queers who are close minded when the str8s can't do what they want and never vice versa) and didn't get completely pissy till he started with his "straight people are the norm" bullshit.
If people have a problem with my language or my snark I guess I'm saying they can put me on ignore and save their sensitive little ears. If they have a problem with my anger they should be USING those selfsome ears and be asking themselves what makes me that way.
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Ahh, what the hell... might as well hijack this fella's thread. Maybe we can turn it into something useful after all.
Amy, there's nothing I can say or do that will take any of your pain or anger away. I will never know what your life has been like, and I can't imagine enduring what you have any more than you can imagine what I have been through in my life.
You're right. You expressed your opinion, and I do agree with your opinion. But you have to admit, the comment "like you getting fucked by your wife - which appears to be one of your kinks," was a bit provocative (and not in the good way), as if you were looking for a fight. At least that's how it appeared to me. You know I'm not just talking about this one occasion, right?
I can't speak to your trials and tribulations on being lesbian. I have, for the most part, avoided the attacks both physical and psychological by hiding who I am. So for what it's worth (probably nothing), I have a great amount of respect for you in that regard. But then I'm probably the kind of person who makes you angry... sniveling little biatch hiding in the closet letting everyone else fight the battles.
What I'm saying is that you could be one of the reasons people gather at this little spot in cyberspace... the role model, mentor, friend, and teacher for those of us who come here to connect with people who are like ourselves, who have questions and experiences and answers, who have jokes or a shoulder for those who need a laugh or a cry or just someone to listen. You have been "in the shit," to borrow a phrase from my last profession. Don't you think there are people out there who would love to talk to you? Don't you think they'd love to hear what you have to say? I know I would. But I've been afraid to say a word to you since forever. I thought I was safe this time, 'cause I agreed with you.
Look, all I'm saying is that I'd love to see what you have to say for real some time, not just when your blowing some bi-curious bandido away with your double-barreled insultinator.
Which brings up another point we agree on. I don't believe the intent of this forum is for sexual gratification. Can it be fun and sexy? Sure. But the porn and the "pm me while I masturbate" is not really my idea of the GLBT lifestyle. The "I'm straight but I love cock" guys? What? I mean... what?? If anything, I think that kind of stuff makes me happy to remain snuggled nicely in this closet. I hope people can see that's not who we are... but I doubt it. Though I will admit to looking at a few pics... maybe watching a video or two. Am I a sellout?
Anyway, you're right... you do have the right to express your outrage and anger after someone starts to give you shit. But you really should--in my opinion--wait until they give you shit before you attack with both barrels.
Ahh, what the hell... might as well hijack this fella's thread. Maybe we can turn it into something useful after all.
Amy, there's nothing I can say or do that will take any of your pain or anger away. I will never know what your life has been like, and I can't imagine enduring what you have any more than you can imagine what I have been through in my life.
You're right. You expressed your opinion, and I do agree with your opinion. But you have to admit, the comment "like you getting fucked by your wife - which appears to be one of your kinks," was a bit provocative (and not in the good way), as if you were looking for a fight. At least that's how it appeared to me. You know I'm not just talking about this one occasion, right?
I can't speak to your trials and tribulations on being lesbian. I have, for the most part, avoided the attacks both physical and psychological by hiding who I am. So for what it's worth (probably nothing), I have a great amount of respect for you in that regard. But then I'm probably the kind of person who makes you angry... sniveling little biatch hiding in the closet letting everyone else fight the battles.
What I'm saying is that you could be one of the reasons people gather at this little spot in cyberspace... the role model, mentor, friend, and teacher for those of us who come here to connect with people who are like ourselves, who have questions and experiences and answers, who have jokes or a shoulder for those who need a laugh or a cry or just someone to listen. You have been "in the shit," to borrow a phrase from my last profession. Don't you think there are people out there who would love to talk to you? Don't you think they'd love to hear what you have to say? I know I would. But I've been afraid to say a word to you since forever. I thought I was safe this time, 'cause I agreed with you.
Look, all I'm saying is that I'd love to see what you have to say for real some time, not just when your blowing some bi-curious bandido away with your double-barreled insultinator.
Which brings up another point we agree on. I don't believe the intent of this forum is for sexual gratification. Can it be fun and sexy? Sure. But the porn and the "pm me while I masturbate" is not really my idea of the GLBT lifestyle. The "I'm straight but I love cock" guys? What? I mean... what?? If anything, I think that kind of stuff makes me happy to remain snuggled nicely in this closet. I hope people can see that's not who we are... but I doubt it. Though I will admit to looking at a few pics... maybe watching a video or two. Am I a sellout?
Anyway, you're right... you do have the right to express your outrage and anger after someone starts to give you shit. But you really should--in my opinion--wait until they give you shit before you attack with both barrels.
Hijack away and thanks for your response.
Don't know about that... This is Literotica.com("source for the hottest in erotic fiction and fantasy")...not GLBTLifestyles or some such.
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People have different opinions on the use of the Lit forums. Personally, I use the story side for gratification, and the forum side for intelligent chat. Other people use both for gratification. Some people get annoyed when there are threads that aren't focused on sex stuff, and they complain that it's too boring. So different strokes for different folks, eh?
