Women having "happy endings" during massage ?

RachelZee

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I originally posted this in General Board but someone suggested I try to post it here.

Kind of new at this I guess I don't know what I am doing.

Last year, I began getting regular massages at a spa and I really love them. They are so relaxing and wonderful. But, a few months ago I noticed that I get very aroused during them especially when my low back and hips are worked on deeply.

More and more I have wondered how it would feel to have an orgasm when I am so relaxed during massage. I know I have heard about men getting "happy endings" at like massage parlors, but I never hear about women having the same kind of experience. I really don't want to go to a place like that. I am comfortable in regular massage places or spas.

So, I guess I am wondering if other women have had situations where they been satisfied sexually during a regular massage session. I want to have this experience but I am kind of shy so I don't know if I could just ask for it. Or if there is way to hint at what I want. I guess I don't even know what to say ? I have aroused myself shortly before going to the spa to increase the excitement and once even played with myself right on the massage table after the massage therapist left the room.

I am really curious whether others have had experiences or desires like this ?

Rachel
 
I originally posted this in General Board but someone suggested I try to post it here.

Kind of new at this I guess I don't know what I am doing.

Last year, I began getting regular massages at a spa and I really love them. They are so relaxing and wonderful. But, a few months ago I noticed that I get very aroused during them especially when my low back and hips are worked on deeply.

More and more I have wondered how it would feel to have an orgasm when I am so relaxed during massage. I know I have heard about men getting "happy endings" at like massage parlors, but I never hear about women having the same kind of experience. I really don't want to go to a place like that. I am comfortable in regular massage places or spas.

So, I guess I am wondering if other women have had situations where they been satisfied sexually during a regular massage session. I want to have this experience but I am kind of shy so I don't know if I could just ask for it. Or if there is way to hint at what I want. I guess I don't even know what to say ? I have aroused myself shortly before going to the spa to increase the excitement and once even played with myself right on the massage table after the massage therapist left the room.

I am really curious whether others have had experiences or desires like this ?

Rachel

This is something that I'm very interested in my wife doing. And I have heard that there are certain massage therapists who are willing to do this. I think you have to ask around a bit. It's certainly not unheard of at all.

You can also give more hints when getting the massage, for example, when undressing you can say that you don't need him to leave the room. And perhaps if he stays you can make sure your panties are a bit visibly wet, or maybe not wear a bra or something to show that you are interested sexually. Another thing you can do is decline to be covered.

I imagine that if you ask around you can find the masseuses who do this sort of thing, though I'm not sure who you would ask. I'm sure they are out there. I know they exist in my area. And if you do this, be sure and write about it here.

This is one of my biggest fantasies.
 
Thanks !

Thanks for the suggestions CaliGuy60

I really think this is something I am going to pursue and appreciate the encouragement.

Rachel

This is something that I'm very interested in my wife doing. And I have heard that there are certain massage therapists who are willing to do this. I think you have to ask around a bit. It's certainly not unheard of at all.

You can also give more hints when getting the massage, for example, when undressing you can say that you don't need him to leave the room. And perhaps if he stays you can make sure your panties are a bit visibly wet, or maybe not wear a bra or something to show that you are interested sexually. Another thing you can do is decline to be covered.

I imagine that if you ask around you can find the masseuses who do this sort of thing, though I'm not sure who you would ask. I'm sure they are out there. I know they exist in my area. And if you do this, be sure and write about it here.

This is one of my biggest fantasies.
 
My ex GF used to get regular massages due to a bad back from a car accident, a friend of hers had started a massage therapy center. The GF began going on a regular basis and always felt great afterwards, she and the masseuse were good friends and both very straight. The sessions went on for about a year before we broke up, but one time the GF came home all flushed and embarrassed, when I asked what had happened she told me that as her appointment and as the massage was going on she started to relax, which was normal as she sometimes would fall asleep during them. That day however as she was relaxing she started to get aroused, the next thing she knew she was climaxing, she didn't know if the therapist knew it or not but she said she had never had that happen before, I don't think it ever happened again but I do know she said that it was a very powerful climax and she struggled to stay still and quiet :eek:
 
I know how she felt......I wonder if the massage therapist notices how excited I am getting and what she thinks when she finds the sheets so wet. I moan a lot but the deep muscle massage encourages it.

Rachel


My ex GF used to get regular massages due to a bad back from a car accident, a friend of hers had started a massage therapy center. The GF began going on a regular basis and always felt great afterwards, she and the masseuse were good friends and both very straight. The sessions went on for about a year before we broke up, but one time the GF came home all flushed and embarrassed, when I asked what had happened she told me that as her appointment and as the massage was going on she started to relax, which was normal as she sometimes would fall asleep during them. That day however as she was relaxing she started to get aroused, the next thing she knew she was climaxing, she didn't know if the therapist knew it or not but she said she had never had that happen before, I don't think it ever happened again but I do know she said that it was a very powerful climax and she struggled to stay still and quiet :eek:
 
I know how she felt......I wonder if the massage therapist notices how excited I am getting and what she thinks when she finds the sheets so wet. I moan a lot but the deep muscle massage encourages it.

Rachel

One think also you can do is be sure and open your legs so that she could see you being more open as you are more and more aroused.
 
There are masseuses and masseurs out there willing to provide this service, I'm sure but I don't know how to find them. I would bet, they don't normal offer this to a first timer so I might be even more of an exception. I know because the one and only massage I had, she offered me a special 'personal' technique that would relax me. Hell, it was so exciting, I passed out.

This was just across our country's northern border but I don't think it means that's where you have to go or any guarantee that you can get them easier up there. My sister and cousin had massages at exactly the same time and place and neither received a female happy ending (at least they never said they did :rolleyes:).

Sandra
 
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Definitely not unheard of...

Most legitimate massage therapists will underline non-sexual in their ads. Still, I don't doubt there are masseuses/masseurs who offer a "deeper relaxation rub."

Rachel, please let us know how it turns out!
 
Some swinger sites have "off duty" therapists who offer this service. Instead of payment you "subsidize" their travel (if they come to you).
 
I have been going to the same massage therapist for almost 8 years now. She used to operate a massage therapy business with her husband. Unfortunately, he was trying this on a lot of his clients and one of them finally told his wife. She was shocked and eventually divorced him. She's still my therapist but I'll bet a lot of his clients assume she was in on it too.

She's very cute so I sometimes find myself getting excited. But I don't want to lose a great situation by making a "tent" under the blanket even though I'm sure she's seen it before.
 
many cities have strict laws about this and someone can loose their license over it. To ask someone is very risky. And it is very very normal to get aroused doing a massage. I have friends who do this for a living and they tell me people go to sleep or get turned on or even cry during a massage... so nothing is abnormal.
If this is someone you know pretty well and someone you feel you can trust with your openness, then share with her, how lately you have been getting turned on. She will either say yes that does happen and blow it off, or she will tell you for extra she can finish it. But I would say it in a questioning manner.
 
Appreciation

Thank you all for the feedback and suggestions.

It really helps hearing the experiences that others have.

You know how sometimes you feel like you may be the only one who feels these things. I appreciate being encouraged by people.

I am getting massage later today. I don't know if I have the nerve to ask directly for what I want this time. But I have been fantasizing about slipping my hand down my belly and possibly touch myself while I am being worked on face down.

Rachel
 
Thank you all for the feedback and suggestions.

It really helps hearing the experiences that others have.

You know how sometimes you feel like you may be the only one who feels these things. I appreciate being encouraged by people.

I am getting massage later today. I don't know if I have the nerve to ask directly for what I want this time. But I have been fantasizing about slipping my hand down my belly and possibly touch myself while I am being worked on face down.

Rachel

That is SO hot!
Let us know how it goes Rachel!!;)
 
Most legitimate massage therapists will underline non-sexual in their ads. Still, I don't doubt there are masseuses/masseurs who offer a "deeper relaxation rub."

I've been to several massage therapists, and I've never had one be anything short of professional, or even give me the impression they'd go there.

I think you could find plenty of professional escorts to fulfill this sort of fantasy, but I doubt many licensed therapists would risk their professional credentials by being sexual with a client.
 
My Massage Experience

I did go to the spa and get my massage. My regular massage therapist wasn't available and so I nearly lost my nerve when I found out I would have someone new. I asked for a massage therapist who was great at deep muscle work. And I took the suggestion someone gave me to ask for deep work on my hips.

I was so turned on by what i was considering doing that I was very wet from the start and worried the massage therapist would be notice and possibly smell my fragrance. It felt so good feeling her hands glide down my back deeper into my hips.

As soon as I could, I secretly began to slip my hand under my belly while she continued to knead and relax my low back muscles. I began to moan and I was so scared she was going to find out what I was doing. But, rather than be suspicious she encouraged me by telling me to "Let go and release".

I gradually began to move my hand and touched my fingertip to my clitoris. She began to work more vigorously and began rocking out my hips and muscles. I was surprised that I didn't even move my finger and the lips of my pussy were being rubbed even more intensely.

She kept telling me to breath deeper and encouraged me to release. My fingertip even slipped inside me over and over again as she massage my legs strongly. I was so close to climaxing and then she told me to turn over. I felt so aroused and excited and yet kind of weak.

I wanted so badly to have an orgasm but I felt so shy about just asking her to help me. She asked me if I wanted covering for my chest while she worked out my front. I told her no it wasn't necessary even though I was kind of embarrassed at how hard my nipples were.

She then proceed to massage the front of my shoulders and worked the muscles around my breasts. It was strange how much it turned me on that she was not touching my nipples. She massaged my ribs and abdomen deeply and I began moaning again. I wanted so much to have her go lower and work her strong fingers into my tender areas. She again encouraged me to breath deeply and release.

She finished up working out my legs as I breathed harder and harder. I told her how good it felt to have my thighs massaged but I kind of chickened out and didn't actually ask her for a climax.

Then the massage was over and it was crazy but as soon as she left, I threw off the sheet and I immediately began fingering myself. It was like I couldn't wait to have an orgasm. I was pushing deeply into my pussy harder than I usually do. And then all of a sudden I thought I heard a noise and I thought "Oh God she is going to catch me doing this". So, I jumped off the table and then nothing happened.

Immediately I began pleasuring myself again and felt the heat and excitement build. I just kept getting closer and closer to orgasm. I reached over and took the massage oil bottle and put some oil on my pussy. It felt so wonderfully slippery. I was even able to get three fingers inside me which I don't remember ever doing before. I then squatted down beside the massage table and spread my legs wide. And began penetrating myself harder and deeper. And then I slipped over the edge and had a strong climax. It was hard not to scream out. But sometimes i feel that I cum even harder when I have to be quiet.

I cleaned myself up and noticed there was a very large wet spot on the sheet. I wondered what she would think about that. I went out and I thought for sure the massage therapist would know I had just had an orgasm by how red my face was. I thanked her for a great massage and said I was sorry if I made too much noise when she was working deep on me. She said it was natural to express myself and not to ever worry about being too loud.

I went out to my car and I shocked myself with how aroused I still was and slipped my hand under my skirt into my panties and began playing with myself in the parking lot. It's crazy I never did anything like this before. I was so frightened that someone would catch me doing this in public but that only seemed to increase my excitement. I came again and then drove home. But when I got home I gave myself another orgasm while I was taking a shower.

So, I kind of felt like I failed to get up the nerve to ask for what I really wanted. To have the courage to directly ask for an orgasm during my massage. But, it was a very exciting time.

I am still curious if other women feel this way and have had similar experiences.

Rachel
 
I did go to the spa and get my massage. My regular massage therapist wasn't available and so I nearly lost my nerve when I found out I would have someone new. I asked for a massage therapist who was great at deep muscle work. And I took the suggestion someone gave me to ask for deep work on my hips.

I was so turned on by what i was considering doing that I was very wet from the start and worried the massage therapist would be notice and possibly smell my fragrance. It felt so good feeling her hands glide down my back deeper into my hips.

As soon as I could, I secretly began to slip my hand under my belly while she continued to knead and relax my low back muscles. I began to moan and I was so scared she was going to find out what I was doing. But, rather than be suspicious she encouraged me by telling me to "Let go and release".

I gradually began to move my hand and touched my fingertip to my clitoris. She began to work more vigorously and began rocking out my hips and muscles. I was surprised that I didn't even move my finger and the lips of my pussy were being rubbed even more intensely.

She kept telling me to breath deeper and encouraged me to release. My fingertip even slipped inside me over and over again as she massage my legs strongly. I was so close to climaxing and then she told me to turn over. I felt so aroused and excited and yet kind of weak.

I wanted so badly to have an orgasm but I felt so shy about just asking her to help me. She asked me if I wanted covering for my chest while she worked out my front. I told her no it wasn't necessary even though I was kind of embarrassed at how hard my nipples were.

She then proceed to massage the front of my shoulders and worked the muscles around my breasts. It was strange how much it turned me on that she was not touching my nipples. She massaged my ribs and abdomen deeply and I began moaning again. I wanted so much to have her go lower and work her strong fingers into my tender areas. She again encouraged me to breath deeply and release.

She finished up working out my legs as I breathed harder and harder. I told her how good it felt to have my thighs massaged but I kind of chickened out and didn't actually ask her for a climax.

Then the massage was over and it was crazy but as soon as she left, I threw off the sheet and I immediately began fingering myself. It was like I couldn't wait to have an orgasm. I was pushing deeply into my pussy harder than I usually do. And then all of a sudden I thought I heard a noise and I thought "Oh God she is going to catch me doing this". So, I jumped off the table and then nothing happened.

Immediately I began pleasuring myself again and felt the heat and excitement build. I just kept getting closer and closer to orgasm. I reached over and took the massage oil bottle and put some oil on my pussy. It felt so wonderfully slippery. I was even able to get three fingers inside me which I don't remember ever doing before. I then squatted down beside the massage table and spread my legs wide. And began penetrating myself harder and deeper. And then I slipped over the edge and had a strong climax. It was hard not to scream out. But sometimes i feel that I cum even harder when I have to be quiet.

I cleaned myself up and noticed there was a very large wet spot on the sheet. I wondered what she would think about that. I went out and I thought for sure the massage therapist would know I had just had an orgasm by how red my face was. I thanked her for a great massage and said I was sorry if I made too much noise when she was working deep on me. She said it was natural to express myself and not to ever worry about being too loud.

I went out to my car and I shocked myself with how aroused I still was and slipped my hand under my skirt into my panties and began playing with myself in the parking lot. It's crazy I never did anything like this before. I was so frightened that someone would catch me doing this in public but that only seemed to increase my excitement. I came again and then drove home. But when I got home I gave myself another orgasm while I was taking a shower.

So, I kind of felt like I failed to get up the nerve to ask for what I really wanted. To have the courage to directly ask for an orgasm during my massage. But, it was a very exciting time.

I am still curious if other women feel this way and have had similar experiences.

Rachel

Thank you so much for writing about your experience. This is one of the single more arousing things I have read on this site.
 
There are spas in Asia, which I love going to. There are so many different ones in terms of ambiance, style, quality etc altho all are extremely good.
It is not 'uncommon' for a a woman to go to a Spa and get the full pampered treatment and once a skilled Asian masseuse is working on you to touch a certain area ( breasts, inner thigh ) and if you react pleasantly, many will follow up with much more. Some will not as it does not happen in every single case.
When you do find one, you remember her name , always nice to leave a nice tip to her and when you return you ask specifically for her.. It may or may not take a few sessions but more often than not it will progress and she will understand what you enjoy. It can be a bit impersonal, but she will stimulate you and it is very very enjoyable and erotic.
I have done it a number of times.
All very private. all very very nice.
 
I did go to the spa and get my massage. My regular massage therapist wasn't available and so I nearly lost my nerve when I found out I would have someone new. I asked for a massage therapist who was great at deep muscle work. And I took the suggestion someone gave me to ask for deep work on my hips.

I was so turned on by what i was considering doing that I was very wet from the start and worried the massage therapist would be notice and possibly smell my fragrance. It felt so good feeling her hands glide down my back deeper into my hips.

As soon as I could, I secretly began to slip my hand under my belly while she continued to knead and relax my low back muscles. I began to moan and I was so scared she was going to find out what I was doing. But, rather than be suspicious she encouraged me by telling me to "Let go and release".

I gradually began to move my hand and touched my fingertip to my clitoris. She began to work more vigorously and began rocking out my hips and muscles. I was surprised that I didn't even move my finger and the lips of my pussy were being rubbed even more intensely.

She kept telling me to breath deeper and encouraged me to release. My fingertip even slipped inside me over and over again as she massage my legs strongly. I was so close to climaxing and then she told me to turn over. I felt so aroused and excited and yet kind of weak.

I wanted so badly to have an orgasm but I felt so shy about just asking her to help me. She asked me if I wanted covering for my chest while she worked out my front. I told her no it wasn't necessary even though I was kind of embarrassed at how hard my nipples were.

She then proceed to massage the front of my shoulders and worked the muscles around my breasts. It was strange how much it turned me on that she was not touching my nipples. She massaged my ribs and abdomen deeply and I began moaning again. I wanted so much to have her go lower and work her strong fingers into my tender areas. She again encouraged me to breath deeply and release.

She finished up working out my legs as I breathed harder and harder. I told her how good it felt to have my thighs massaged but I kind of chickened out and didn't actually ask her for a climax.

Then the massage was over and it was crazy but as soon as she left, I threw off the sheet and I immediately began fingering myself. It was like I couldn't wait to have an orgasm. I was pushing deeply into my pussy harder than I usually do. And then all of a sudden I thought I heard a noise and I thought "Oh God she is going to catch me doing this". So, I jumped off the table and then nothing happened.

Immediately I began pleasuring myself again and felt the heat and excitement build. I just kept getting closer and closer to orgasm. I reached over and took the massage oil bottle and put some oil on my pussy. It felt so wonderfully slippery. I was even able to get three fingers inside me which I don't remember ever doing before. I then squatted down beside the massage table and spread my legs wide. And began penetrating myself harder and deeper. And then I slipped over the edge and had a strong climax. It was hard not to scream out. But sometimes i feel that I cum even harder when I have to be quiet.

I cleaned myself up and noticed there was a very large wet spot on the sheet. I wondered what she would think about that. I went out and I thought for sure the massage therapist would know I had just had an orgasm by how red my face was. I thanked her for a great massage and said I was sorry if I made too much noise when she was working deep on me. She said it was natural to express myself and not to ever worry about being too loud.

I went out to my car and I shocked myself with how aroused I still was and slipped my hand under my skirt into my panties and began playing with myself in the parking lot. It's crazy I never did anything like this before. I was so frightened that someone would catch me doing this in public but that only seemed to increase my excitement. I came again and then drove home. But when I got home I gave myself another orgasm while I was taking a shower.

So, I kind of felt like I failed to get up the nerve to ask for what I really wanted. To have the courage to directly ask for an orgasm during my massage. But, it was a very exciting time.

I am still curious if other women feel this way and have had similar experiences.

Rachel

Sorry I'm late.

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I was only talking to some1 the other day about my husband giving me massages. Love them, and he always lingers around my sensitive areas giving maximum pleasure :D
 
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As soon as I could, I secretly began to slip my hand under my belly while she continued to knead and relax my low back muscles. I began to moan and I was so scared she was going to find out what I was doing. But, rather than be suspicious she encouraged me by telling me to "Let go and release".
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I gradually began to move my hand and touched my fingertip to my clitoris. She began to work more vigorously and began rocking out my hips and muscles. I was surprised that I didn't even move my finger and the lips of my pussy were being rubbed even more intensely.
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Rachel

Of course she knew what was going on. She was encouraging you to "Let go and release" and have your orgasm right in front of her. She was helping you all she could by using her massage skills to get movement against your clit (while staying out the the forbidden primary erogenous zones).

I'm sure she knew what you were doing after she left the room. If she didn't have another client right up, she was probably listening (and possibly peeking).

You ain't the first, ner will you be the last. Give thanks she was friendly, and next time take your orgasm (even if she isn't the one working on you next time). Don't apologize, just praise her incredibly good work. (Tip well too.)

If you're really dead set on have the masseur push you over the edge, it would help to first have a reputation as a cummer. Then when you're on the edge, you can squeak out "please!", and if that doesn't do it, add "help?".

Your masseur may make a few conveniently accidental brushes. Reward them by taking your orgasm asap (even with your finger). Let her learn your body, and help her slide down that slippery slope until on some future visit, she gives you everything you want.
 
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Thank you all for responding.

CaliGuy60

The personal messages were very encouraging

amy1969

The spa experiences that you have described sound delicious. They give me some good ideas about how to see if I can explore my own experiences with massage further.

RAddams

The oil looks fun !

abella117

Smile

OnceFuturePoly

You have my mind spinning with helping me see that the massage therapist really may have known what i did. I will try and ask for her next time and see if I can get the courage to use your suggestions.

Again thank you all for being kind and helpful. It really is kind of strange to have people know what I am doing. Both kind of exciting and naughty and special.

Rachel
 
This all sounds fantastic. I wouldn't know how to approach the subject, either! Massages are very sensual, and I am pretty sure the touching and the relaxing lead to arousal for most. (Me, me!!) My hubby gives me massages from time to time.. I might proposition him for a "happy ending" next time ;)
 
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