Innocence

[Interested_Girl]

I have a question about women and the look of innocence.

I have been told that some women have a look of innocence, at first I thought it had to do with height, weight, age, but it was explained to me recently that it has to do with a look in the eyes.

This innocence according to someone I know is a very sexy and attractive quality in a woman, but for me I don't understand why it is so attractive. Also, it was brought to my attention that not all women carry this quality, it isn't something that is universal.

Men:
So, my questions are as follows:

Do you search for a sense of innocence in a women?
Do you find it sexy?
If you do find it sexy,why do you think that it is?
Are you one to try and foster that innocence or to take it away?

Women:
Do you think you have this innocent feature?
Have you been told that you do?
Do you play this innocence up, or do you hide it?

Please answer the poll!


Thanks, L

 

[nicknude]

Very hot 'innocence' video

Laura Dern plays a teen nympho in 'Rambling Rose' who masturbates with a young boy in her bed....he is just mesmerized by her.

http://www.metacafe.com/watch/2839835/boy/

Men:
So, my questions are as follows:

Do you search for a sense of innocence in a women? absolutely

Do you find it sexy? incredibly sexy

If you do find it sexy,why do you think that it is?
i find it completely sexy when she acts all innocent and then turns into a total slut.....especially if she loves receiving my cum in every way possible

Are you one to try and foster that innocence or to take it away?
to foster it completely.....then take it away.....temporarily

 

[SactoRN]

I have a question about women and the look of innocence.

I have been told that some women have a look of innocence, at first I thought it had to do with height, weight, age, but it was explained to me recently that it has to do with a look in the eyes.

This innocence according to someone I know is a very sexy and attractive quality in a woman, but for me I don't understand why it is so attractive. Also, it was brought to my attention that not all women carry this quality, it isn't something that is universal.

Men:
So, my questions are as follows:

Do you search for a sense of innocence in a women?
Do you find it sexy?
If you do find it sexy,why do you think that it is?
Are you one to try and foster that innocence or to take it away?

Women:
Do you think you have this innocent feature?
Have you been told that you do?
Do you play this innocence up, or do you hide it?

Please answer the poll!


Thanks, L

I have been told I have this quality. I'm not exactly sure what it is about me and I don't "do" anything to play it up or down. I do know I'm not as innocent as some think

 

[RunningJib]

No, don't need it

I have a question about women and the look of innocence.

I have been told that some women have a look of innocence, at first I thought it had to do with height, weight, age, but it was explained to me recently that it has to do with a look in the eyes.

This innocence according to someone I know is a very sexy and attractive quality in a woman, but for me I don't understand why it is so attractive. Also, it was brought to my attention that not all women carry this quality, it isn't something that is universal.

Men:
So, my questions are as follows:

Do you search for a sense of innocence in a women?
Do you find it sexy?
If you do find it sexy,why do you think that it is?
Are you one to try and foster that innocence or to take it away?

Women:
Do you think you have this innocent feature?
Have you been told that you do?
Do you play this innocence up, or do you hide it?

Please answer the poll!


Thanks, L

I'd prefer maturity with a straight-ahead, we're going to have a great time attitude. No games, no nonsense. Tell me what you want, I'll give you what you need

 

[HeyAll]

I voted indifferent.

And the reason I voted that way is because I find both innocent women & 'sexy women' to be equally appealing.

They both have qualities that are very erotic.

For women that are naturally outgoing and sex, it's obvious what their appeal is...

But for women who are innocent, the appeal is that the sex is that much more taboo...

And it only works if it's natural. A sexy woman acting innocent looks ridiculous, and a shy innocent woman trying to act sexy also looks ridiculous.

 

[Interested_Girl]

I'd prefer maturity with a straight-ahead, we're going to have a great time attitude. No games, no nonsense. Tell me what you want, I'll give you what you need

This thread isn't really about the "personality" but rather a physicality. Do innocent people in their 30's come off as sexy to an outgoing personality? No. Probably not.

I voted indifferent.

And the reason I voted that way is because I find both innocent women & 'sexy women' to be equally appealing.

They both have qualities that are very erotic.

For women that are naturally outgoing and sex, it's obvious what their appeal is...

But for women who are innocent, the appeal is that the sex is that much more taboo...

And it only works if it's natural. A sexy woman acting innocent looks ridiculous, and a shy innocent woman trying to act sexy also looks ridiculous.

I think that is a really good insight. I think that people trying to act anything out can come off as relatively unattractive, especially when they are trying to do it to impress someone else. Sans role playing of course.

That being said, do you agree that there is a look in the face that exerts a sense of innocence?

 

[RAddams]

I think innocent looking women are hot and I also think evil looking women are hot so I guess I am indifferent. Maybe it just depends on the mood I'm in.

 

[Scentofawoman]

I tend to get told I look a lot younger then I am. I can play up the innocent look with wide vacant eyes and a good giggle. My husband says I'm dangerous sometimes. I did have a friend who play it to the hilt to get dates and notes to lectures.
Sometimes it's just arsenal in a girls bag of tricks. ; )

 

[milehighmandude]

I think innocence is attractive at times...most of the time but sometimes I look for experience tho. I guess it depends on my mood and how much time I'm willing to devote.

 

[RunningJib]

I disagree

This thread isn't really about the "personality" but rather a physicality. Do innocent people in their 30's come off as sexy to an outgoing personality? No. Probably not.

I have met young ladies that we direct, honest and walked-the-walk. I have also met, more mature women that played games and didn't have a clue to what they wanted.

All innocent aside, its their attitude that I'm after

 

[bronzeage]

There is nothing sexy about innocence. It's too easily confused with ignorance.

 

[SactoRN]

There is nothing sexy about innocence. It's too easily confused with ignorance.

I'm a little offended by this comment. A woman "playing" games or acting innocent to get what she wants is kinda shitty, but just because a woman may seem innocent does not indicate ignorance. Wow.

 

[Boundlife]

Where does actual inexperience and shyness fit into this?

 

[HeyAll]

That being said, do you agree that there is a look in the face that exerts a sense of innocence?

Yeah, if you look at an actress like Emily Browning, she has that innocent look, which is the polar opposite of let's say a supermodel, but she's equally as attractive.

 

[blackfire87]

I'm told I have this a lot, and I'm not sure why. When I talked to a new friend and we ended up talking about sex I was told I looked like the "quiet church going type who wears long skirts and faints at the mear mention of a dirty word" I said "How the fuck did you get that from how I act every day?" xD. Seriously though, I know there are some women who play up an innocent factor and it bugs me. I act like myself all the time and I don't hide anything, but I still get surprised looks and words when I go into detail because of how they say I look.

 

[Little Bird]

Where does actual inexperience and shyness fit into this?

The real question is, what "this" actually is.

Generally, I appreciate it greatly in people if they keep their private things "private", stay clear of excess, are polite and and mind their manners and modesty. Combined with a certain worldliness and a smart brain, I find it extremely attractive.. I see that as signs that a person is both attentive when it comes to others and also selective when it comes to commiting to a relationship. This does not have to stand in contrast to an active and enjoyable sexuality, and seems more meaningful to me that a straight forward enjoyment of easy to get pleasures.
I think that's the closest you get to Innocence as a virtue, instead of just meaning naivity.

 

[Interested_Girl]

I'm a little offended by this comment. A woman "playing" games or acting innocent to get what she wants is kinda shitty, but just because a woman may seem innocent does not indicate ignorance. Wow.

I agree, they don't coincide with each other at all. Innocence has nothing to do with ignorance! You go girl.

Where does actual inexperience and shyness fit into this?

That is a good question. I don't think inexperience and shyness equate to innocence and vice versa. From what I understand it is a look, not a personality, attitude or set of actions.

Yeah, if you look at an actress like Emily Browning, she has that innocent look, which is the polar opposite of let's say a supermodel, but she's equally as attractive.

Agreed! I feel this way about Zooey Deschanel as well.

I'm told I have this a lot, and I'm not sure why. When I talked to a new friend and we ended up talking about sex I was told I looked like the "quiet church going type who wears long skirts and faints at the mear mention of a dirty word" I said "How the fuck did you get that from how I act every day?" xD. Seriously though, I know there are some women who play up an innocent factor and it bugs me. I act like myself all the time and I don't hide anything, but I still get surprised looks and words when I go into detail because of how they say I look.

Yeah, this is something that people fail to do. They FAKE innocence and that is not attractive. You are just naturally innocent!

The real question is, what "this" actually is.

Generally, I appreciate it greatly in people if they keep their private things "private", stay clear of excess, are polite and and mind their manners and modesty. Combined with a certain worldliness and a smart brain, I find it extremely attractive.. I see that as signs that a person is both attentive when it comes to others and also selective when it comes to commiting to a relationship. This does not have to stand in contrast to an active and enjoyable sexuality, and seems more meaningful to me that a straight forward enjoyment of easy to get pleasures.
I think that's the closest you get to Innocence as a virtue, instead of just meaning naivity.

I think you have explained it very well. I think something that is very important to keep in mind is the "selectivity" of sharing certain pieces of information. Or as I like to say, keeping it classy. Not everyone needs to know your business and by keeping the good stuff under your hat for the most part is very sexy and appealing!

 

[Pleasesuckle]

Women:
Do you think you have this innocent feature? Not really, but I can be a chameleon for a certain amount of time.

Have you been told that you do? Not that I can remember.

Do you play this innocence up, or do you hide it? I don't play it up, it's not me....I can, however, keep my bawdy sense of humor and sensual nature to myself when I need to. Where I'm currently living, being uptight and conservative is the norm....so I've gotten good enough at hiding amongst people that would never think to "look in my eyes" and truly see. They tend to be almost asexual in nature so it's not always that difficult to "pull the wool".

 

[anal_xplorer]

Innocence doesnt last forever somehow one way or another she'll lose it.

 

[Interested_Girl]

Innocence doesnt last forever somehow one way or another she'll lose it.

I totally disagree, innocence if fostered can last.

 

[Boundlife]

When I meet a group of people, after hanging back a bit, I'll say more of what pops into my head...I have often had people try to take credit for corrupting me...which is silly...especially since I'm usually censoring myself

 

[amofiga]

I'm not sure "innocent" is the right word, but I like women who have that sort of "clean girl next door loon" but in private turn into cock sucking sluts. They are educated professional types who know how to be ladies in the circumstances that require it but how to be uninhibited when the circumstances allow it. I imagine the Ivanka Trump type that can hold her own in a business meeting but be a submissive slut in the bedroom. It's one of the reasons I dislike professional porn with women who sport visible tattoos, wear hooker cloths, have piercings, have garish hair color and hairdoos, wear "fuck me" pumps to bed, etc. I suppose I don't want to see a woman who is inexperienced and innocent, but one who comes across as the "soccer mom milf" or "girl next door" but has a secret side to her.

 

[Riles]

I like all sorts of games, but outside of the bedroom I have no desire to be perceived as anything but a strong, capable, genuine, gracious woman.

Thankfully, there are still many things I have yet to experience in life, and that lends to a naiveté that I suppose could be an attractive quality to certain partners. It can’t be unlike that of one’s child taking new experiences, and the enjoyment felt at bearing witness to the event. The appeal would lie in being the guiding hand and feeling the sense of newness, adventure and accomplishment vicariously.

 

[Marci_M]

Although I'm 27 now, I'm often mistaken for a teenager because I'm very small and thin. I don't mind at all, and I'm hoping that when I'm 40, people will still think I look young

 

[shesnotcheating]

I totally disagree, innocence if fostered can last.

I have to agree with IG here. Seven percent of unwed women in their 20's are virgins. Not a huge number, but certainly not a rarity. Of course, being a virgin doesn't insure one's innocence, but not being a virgin doesn't necessarily make one not innocent, either. Because so many on this site are so immersed in sex, there's always a huge bias in these kind of discussions on this site.