I Don't Want to Watch You Jerk Off

[Littletoo]

Please, no more "Do you want to watch me masturbate on cam" pm's.

(Not that there is anything wrong with it.)

When I was (age censored) I was a member of the "420" club and we'd go out after school to this place by the alley. The winos used it at night, an there was one grizzly old homeless guy who used to come up to us and expose himself and jerk off. We just burst out laughing, which I guess wasn't the right response, but he kept at it, poor guy. So anyway, I went through that phase in (censored) grade, and I don't really want to go back to it as a grownup. But, thanks, anyway.

I might be interested in what you are THINKING about when you are jerking off, whether it's on cam on not. The BRAIN is the most important sex organ, in humans anyway, and I'm WAY more interested in the mental erotica than in watching the plumbing work, but then, that's just me.

Love,

Jamie

 

[coffeelover5]

The mental imagery is indeed the fuel that runs the erotic machinations, I agree.

So many different thoughts run through my head during those times of self pleasuring.

 

[Marci_M]

I totally agree, I get so sick of PM's like that, and I don't care if you have a huge cock either. I'm very small so really big cocks hurt me.

 

[vidiman]

the minds eye

Hey Marci

Would you fancy something a bit more creative - where we can use words and the minds eye to get the creative juics and others! runing.

I work in video produciton an have a very vivid minds eye - which helps I find when visualising!

enjoy - G

 

[Luvitharder]

I sooo agree- why is it that every guy wants a pic. I send a nice face pic and in return I get a cock. Thanks but no thanks. I'll tell you when I want one. Seen one seen em all. Big or small it's what you do with it that counts anyway. Engage my mind! That's what gets me going. You'll be far more appreciative in the end... Trust me.

 

[missallen]

I agree with Marci and luvit harder, just wish men would read BEFORE they send a pm, save alot of time. lol

 

[Siren_Smiles]

I completely agree!

I was talking with a friend when that football guy caught a bunch of flak for sending pics of his penis to a reporter and he was AMAZED when I said most women don't really want to see that. Tell her what you can do with it, how it will make her feel and she may be impressed. Whip it out and wag it at her, she'll think you're creepy.

 

[rlwildcat76]

Have pity on us!

We men are very visual. That's why the porn industry is thriving. It's hard for us to understand that women are different.

 

[Princecharmingx]

Ladies, I apologize for the rest of my gender, they're fuckwits of the worst kind. But mind you, if YOU all get the urge for an audience I will indeed be right in line with the rest of my kind.

 

[Verinka]

I couldn't agree more with the women here. Although I've been very fond of the penis of someone I care about or am attracted to, to be attracted or even interested in the penis of someone by itself is almost impossible to imagine for me. I suppose one out of 100 penises might have something about it worth looking at, but I can't imagine why in general. For most women, I think, penises are things that are 'cheap' in a way....you can get one any weekend at any age if you so desire. All men have them and they are 'insistent' more than anything, meaning we've all been on the receiving end of unwanted men's attraction many, many times, starting at about censored years old. I'm interested in a man's penis ONLY when I'm interested in him otherwise and attracted otherwise and then, unless it's faulty in some way, it's lovely because it's HIS. And the double standard that shows what's really going on: men expose themselves and they're arrested; women expose themselves and they get paid for it. (not always, I know, but it's somewhat true). The sexiest pictures of men to me are the ones where the penis is just hinted at by a bulge or low jeans. Full on from a stranger? I don't think so. About as appealing as toenails.

 

[vidiman]

I couldn't agree more with the women here. Although I've been very fond of the penis of someone I care about or am attracted to, to be attracted or even interested in the penis of someone by itself is almost impossible to imagine for me. I suppose one out of 100 penises might have something about it worth looking at, but I can't imagine why in general. For most women, I think, penises are things that are 'cheap' in a way....you can get one any weekend at any age if you so desire. All men have them and they are 'insistent' more than anything, meaning we've all been on the receiving end of unwanted men's attraction many, many times, starting at about censored years old. I'm interested in a man's penis ONLY when I'm interested in him otherwise and attracted otherwise and then, unless it's faulty in some way, it's lovely because it's HIS. And the double standard that shows what's really going on: men expose themselves and they're arrested; women expose themselves and they get paid for it. (not always, I know, but it's somewhat true). The sexiest pictures of men to me are the ones where the penis is just hinted at by a bulge or low jeans. Full on from a stranger? I don't think so. About as appealing as toenails.

Ahhhh Toenails............................

 

[Spenser41]

Ladies, I agree. The thing is, guys a turned on by visuals. Always have, always will. That is the way we are wired. But woman are turned on with words and mental images. Men like Playboy and women like erotica. Just the way it is. I have never understood why guys do that. Frankly, there is no way I would just do that. Like the woman who said she sends a face pic and gets a cock pic. That is just dumb. Guys, learn what pleases a woman. Like she said, it is what you say, how you stimulate her with your words and when she wants to see it, she will let you know.
Ladies, not ALL men whip it out and say want to watch me? Only the immature ones.
Sorry for the ones who pm you for that stuff.

 

[Noor]

A full nude shot might be interesting of a man, if a woman is already interested but penile shots are boring. It ain't the meat, its the motion.

Your chances with me improve if you can make me smile or laugh and go down dramatically with a cock shot.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Ladies, I agree. The thing is, guys a turned on by visuals. Always have, always will. That is the way we are wired. But woman are turned on with words and mental images. Men like Playboy and women like erotica. Just the way it is. I have never understood why guys do that. Frankly, there is no way I would just do that. Like the woman who said she sends a face pic and gets a cock pic. That is just dumb. Guys, learn what pleases a woman. Like she said, it is what you say, how you stimulate her with your words and when she wants to see it, she will let you know.
Ladies, not ALL men whip it out and say want to watch me? Only the immature ones.
Sorry for the ones who pm you for that stuff.

Indeed. I think a lot of men on this site have not been around long enough to get a feel for what the women here really want. From what I have seen over my many years here in one form or another, is that no matter what a man looks like, if he can seduce a woman's mind, then he can create something beautiful. Women here really get "shafted". Constantly harassed by bad pm's. It gets all of the men a bad wrap, unfortunately. At any rate, ladies, there are those of us who appreciate your presence and your honesty, and will do what we can to be erotic and not porn star wannabees.

 

[sammyIammy]

I couldn't agree more with the women here. Although I've been very fond of the penis of someone I care about or am attracted to, to be attracted or even interested in the penis of someone by itself is almost impossible to imagine for me. I suppose one out of 100 penises might have something about it worth looking at, but I can't imagine why in general. For most women, I think, penises are things that are 'cheap' in a way....you can get one any weekend at any age if you so desire. All men have them and they are 'insistent' more than anything, meaning we've all been on the receiving end of unwanted men's attraction many, many times, starting at about 11 years old. I'm interested in a man's penis ONLY when I'm interested in him otherwise and attracted otherwise and then, unless it's faulty in some way, it's lovely because it's HIS. And the double standard that shows what's really going on: men expose themselves and they're arrested; women expose themselves and they get paid for it. (not always, I know, but it's somewhat true). The sexiest pictures of men to me are the ones where the penis is just hinted at by a bulge or low jeans. Full on from a stranger? I don't think so. About as appealing as toenails.

Best explanation to this age-old question I've seen. Thank you

 

[Marci_M]

Why is it that men will willingly send you a pic of their most private area, but not one of their face? I get turned on first by a man's looks, then his personality. I love sex with a man, and I love playing with his cock, but pics of cocks alone don't do a thing for me.

I'm more about the man, not the genitals. Any size will do if I really like a man.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Why is it that men will willingly send you a pic of their most private area, but not one of their face? I get turned on first by a man's looks, then his personality. I love sex with a man, and I love playing with his cock, but pics of cocks alone don't do a thing for me.

I'm more about the man, not the genitals. Any size will do if I really like a man.

I'm actually more apt to send photos of my face than my cock. That's just how I've always operated.

 

[Xx_MissMe_Xx]

Nice post

 

[free_and_easy]

Nice profile picture,!

 

[Poet_In_Camo]

I have to wonder how many guys made it past the first post before clicking "back" to dig for some mindless piece of meat to flog the dolphin to...

Personally, I prefer amusing conversation, witty banter, mental stimulation with someone who can keep up with my excessive randomness over trying to use the size of my trouser mouse to make the ladies laugh.

To the women on this site, I have quite a bit of sympathy for ya'll and the undoubtedly never-ending pile of pathetically written PMs from guys who fancy themselves the next Peter North.

 

[CaliGuy60]

Why is it that men will willingly send you a pic of their most private area, but not one of their face? I get turned on first by a man's looks, then his personality. I love sex with a man, and I love playing with his cock, but pics of cocks alone don't do a thing for me.

I'm more about the man, not the genitals. Any size will do if I really like a man.

I feel the same way, the part most that I would like to see on a woman is her face. I have had women send me pictures of their breasts or pussy and it does nothing for me. But then, once you get to know someone and see what they look like and are interseted, then it can be very good. But not until that time.

 

[VulnerableSubmissive]

Seriously. You've seen 1 penis, seen em all IMO. Sorry guys, it ain't all about the dick for us. If anyone wants to make me cum while he's fully clothesed, I'll be much more excited.

 

[subbygirly]

Agreed. I see no appeal to it. And even if they insisted on jerking off on cam, I would rather just look at their face the entire time. It's way more interesting.

 

[SneakyOne85]

I prefer to stimulate womens' minds with words rather than a picture of my penis!

I can't even comprehend sending a picture of it to a women - it's not like you can do anything with a picture of it!

Excite and be excited!

 

[sdnt]

Ha...