Etiquette question

[LucyH]

Do people consider it bad manners for a man to put his hands on a woman's head if she's giving him a blowjob?

If the answer is "sometimes" what makes the difference?

 

[vibes]

Do people consider it bad manners for a man to put his hands on a woman's head if she's giving him a blowjob?

If the answer is "sometimes" what makes the difference?

I didn't there was another way to do it

 

[LucyH]

I didn't there was another way to do it.

Well, his hands could be tied. But otherwise I thought it was the thing to do. But then someone told me it wasn't. And as an author of smut, I feel that I should know the range of opinions on this subject.

 

[DarkBee]

I didn't there was another way to do it

You accidentally the whole verb.

But on topic: I prefer not to touch the woman, just let her do her thing and enjoy. The lack of control and the incredible sensation make it worthwile.

 

[peebudy]

I think it depends on the woman and the circumstances. if this is the first time she's sucking you, especially if she's reluctant about it, probably best not to. But if it's someone you've got experience with, then by all means, grab that head and hump away at that face!

 

[TheOlderGuy]

In the absence of any mutually agreed upon set of rules that exclude it--tits are NEVER off limits. Ever

 

[rockhardwaiting]

depends what you are talking about... putting your hands on her head to caress her (yea I said it, sometimes need to go there)... or are you talking more like face fucking and jamming her head into your cock? HUGE difference I think the face fucking would be considered in poor taste to many women, although definitely not all.. need to know what kind of woman you are dealing with...

 

[aness]

depends what you are talking about... putting your hands on her head to caress her (yea I said it, sometimes need to go there)... or are you talking more like face fucking and jamming her head into your cock? HUGE difference I think the face fucking would be considered in poor taste to many women, although definitely not all.. need to know what kind of woman you are dealing with...

couldn't agree more...
i never like it when he hold my head and banging his cock into my mouth...it is a very bad manner...
it needs a hard work to keep it in...i have to open my mouth wide to make sure my teeth are not scrubbing his cock, not to mention the gagging when it is too deep...i'm not enjoying any of it...

caressing touch on my head / hair is good to have...i have control of my mouth, i can play with my tongue, i can suck or lick every inch of his cock....

but yet it is just 'good' to have...still it is better to have his hands on my breast

 

[klippert]

I have found

I have found, this is a personal preference. I've date girls that luv'd holding there heads...other felt like I was forcing them down.....which I had one of those....she wanted me too try and force her cock down her throat. I have to admit that was a little, not my speed

 

[nycbear]

Hands on Head while getting Head

I must admit I do enjoy running my fingers through the hair of the lovely lass who is blowing me, but I recognize there is a fine line between ecncouraging caresses and concern that you are preparing to jam your cock down the unsuspecting girl's throat!

 

[Redhill123]

Etiquette

This makes me chuckle imagining a scenario where she says something like "don't do that" and he responds "no this is the proper way" lol Also reminds me of an expression ..."let go of my ears, I know what I'm doing"

 

[Riles]

^ That was funny.


For my own tastes, I enjoy having his hands around my face and neck while I'm doing this. Him being able to smooth his thumb over my cheek as it hollows out with the suction of my mouth...or trace my lips and feel how stretched I am around him...or hold me back off of him but for the very first inch or so when all I want is the feel of him overflowing me....hot, hot, HOT!

 

[Ex Princess]

I must admit I do enjoy running my fingers through the hair of the lovely lass who is blowing me, but I recognize there is a fine line between ecncouraging caresses and concern that you are preparing to jam your cock down the unsuspecting girl's throat!

I always felt it was polite to at least pull my hair back for me, I mean, it really is the least he could do!

 

[Notsogentleman]

I always felt it was polite to at least pull my hair back for me, I mean, it really is the least he could do!

Sounds like a small price to pay. Especially if you swallow.

 

[Ex Princess]

Sounds like a small price to pay. Especially if you swallow.

Isn't it impolite not to swallow?

 

[Notsogentleman]

Isn't it impolite not to swallow?

No. It is perfectly acceptable to cumswap with the girl next to you.

 

[Ex Princess]

No. It is perfectly acceptable to cumswap with the girl next to you.

Oh, well that would be rude to not even offer if company is present.

 

[Notsogentleman]

Oh, well that would be rude to not even offer if company is present.

Somebody should be taking notes and compiling a sexiquette book.

 

[Marci_M]

It's ok with me as long as he's gentle, and I love to kiss him after he cums to share his yummy cream

 

[Stella_Omega]

Well, his hands could be tied. But otherwise I thought it was the thing to do. But then someone told me it wasn't. And as an author of smut, I feel that I should know the range of opinions on this subject.

I applaud your willingness to research

 

[DarkPleasures]

Do people consider it bad manners for a man to put his hands on a woman's head if she's giving him a blowjob?

If the answer is "sometimes" what makes the difference?

Speaking for myself, I love it when a man does this to me. Especially if he's curling his fingers into my hair and holding on tight!


~Renae

 

[ubupboston]

Yes a caressing touch is my ladies preference, she also enjoys direction and encouragement as to what feels great.

But I do like it when she grabs me by the head and drives my face into her pussy

But every once in a while, after dinner and some heavy drinking she'll ask for a good face fucking. But that's the only time!!

 

[Missingout]

It's ok with me as long as he's gentle, and I love to kiss him after he cums to share his yummy cream

...that and licking it off her face. Long cum makeout sessions are the hottest.

 

[INeedLove]

It's a trust issue for me. If I trust him to back off on the pushing, it's hot. Love it if he is stroking my hair tenderly. Otherwise, hands off please.

 

[Pleasesuckle]

Definitely a trust thing and if it's been agreed upon beforehand...the throat fucking. Then it's all systems are go!