Am I a sex addict? Please Help

[shatterproof]

Hi,
I am fairly new to literotica and enjoying it quite a bit. I'm a little concerned however, that it has become just one more symptom of a problem I think I may have. Namely sex addiction. I dont know if I indeed am a sex addict but certainly always seemed to have had a problem in this area.
Just cant seem to get enough sex ever. Masturbation will do as a fairly poor substitute but, it is sex that really crave.
It is constantly on my mind along with scenarios and past experiences. Even walking down the street. If a nice girls walks past, I find myself wondering why we cant introduce ourselves and discuss what we are into, in the bedroom and then just go off somewhere and do it. (Terrible I know)
It's not like full sex is not available almost whenever. It just seems never to be enough. Obviously there are many other things that may also be symptoms but, it would take an age to write them down all at once.

It is very difficult to understate this problem - It consumes the entire day almost and is very difficult to get anything done or, stick at something to the finish.

Am I just a dirty bugger who needs to just get a grip (sorry no pun intended) or do I have a boa-fide problem and is help available?
Is there anyone else out there who has similar dificulties? Or are we all self confessed addicts? If that really is the case, then perhaps visiting this site might not be the best thing to do right now. Would be appreciative of any helpful suggestions/opinions. Thank you for reading.

 

[Littletoo]

Hi,
Am I just a dirty bugger who needs to just get a grip (sorry no pun intended) or do I have a boa-fide problem and is help available?
Is there anyone else out there who has similar dificulties? Or are we all self confessed addicts? If that really is the case, then perhaps visiting this site might not be the best thing to do right now. Would be appreciative of any helpful suggestions/opinions. Thank you for reading.

I knew I was a sex addict when I woke up with penis breath and couldn't remember where I had been. I was covered in cum, lying in the back seat of a Toyota at these apartments I don't live at. What kind of guy goes off and leaves a half-naked, unconscious, cum-covered girl in his car? Probably another sex-addict. So right then I decided to Clean Up My Act, and I DID, until I met these guys at the gas station.

It was hot, and I was in my shorty-shorts and bikini top, and I went over to get some gum and a slurpee and the guys were there with this big boat. I was like, "Cool boat! (slurrp sluurp)" and they were like, "Hey, cutie-pie! Wanna go to the lake? We got beers and some pot!" So I was like, "Alright." So it's not what you think, it wasn't a cluster-fuck, it was more like serial encounters, and they were NICE guys, they gave me a chance to swallow, and I had gum to chew on the way home so I didn't get penis breath. So you see, that was like, "normal" sex, don't you think?

So anyway, if all you are doing is THINKING about it 24/7, that just means you are a guy, it's perfectly normal for guys. When us GIRLS start doing it, we know we're pretty messed up, but my shrink said I had the best excuses she'd ever heard.

Love,

Jamie

 

[fisherman62051]

No such thing as sex addiction.... it's something we have hot-wired into ourselves... Mother Nature's gift... We all need it... we all want it... It's natural...

 

[shatterproof]

Oh Jamie that's fab, thanks. I'm so glad I'm not a twisted fuck.
Why is it so boring just fucking one person all the time? They say it's good to face a challenge head on and being monogamously challenged is no exception. Have you any idea how much time and stamina it takes to keep a variety of girls satisfied all at the same time. I take great pride in my success though and enjoy myself immensely.
Today after pulling my cock out of Jaqui's arse, goin home for a quick shower, I was fifteen minutes later plunging it into Gemma's mouth. Her head bobs up and down on my pork sword eagerly and i tell her to stop. She just carries on regardless and I think she hasn't heard, so I say it again louder this time. The blessed angel just continues with even greater gusto. I don't have to be told a third time. I allow myself to climax and empty my gisum right down her throat. Oh what joy!
Tonight I have to go to Lesley's place and pummell her pussy until it contaracts in vaginal orgasm. She wont allow me to pull it out until I pee into her love canal.
Life is good

 

[shatterproof]

Oh Jamie that's fab, thanks. I'm so glad I'm not a twisted fuck.

Why is it so boring just fucking one person all the time? They say it's good to face a challenge head on and being monogamously challenged is no exception. Have you any idea how much time and stamina it takes to keep a variety of girls satisfied all at the same time. I take great pride in my success though and enjoy myself immensely.
Today after pulling my cock out of Jaqui's arse, goin home for a quick shower, I was fifteen minutes later plunging it into Gemma's mouth. Her head bobs up and down on my pork sword eagerly and i tell her to stop. She just carries on regardless and I think she hasn't heard, so I say it again louder this time. The blessed angel just continues with even greater gusto. I don't have to be told a third time. I allow myself to climax and empty my gisum right down her throat. Oh what joy!
Tonight I have to go to Lesley's place and pummell her pussy until it contaracts in vaginal orgasm. She wont allow me to pull it out until I pee into her love canal.
Life is good

 

[shatterproof]

"In Japan men come first and women come second" - Alotta Fagina
"Or sometimes not at all" - Austin Powers

 

[Littletoo]

Oh Jamie that's fab, thanks. I'm so glad I'm not a twisted fuck.

Why is it so boring just fucking one person all the time? They say it's good to face a challenge head on and being monogamously challenged is no exception. Have you any idea how much time and stamina it takes to keep a variety of girls satisfied all at the same time. I take great pride in my success though and enjoy myself immensely.
Today after pulling my cock out of Jaqui's arse, goin home for a quick shower, I was fifteen minutes later plunging it into Gemma's mouth. Her head bobs up and down on my pork sword eagerly and i tell her to stop. She just carries on regardless and I think she hasn't heard, so I say it again louder this time. The blessed angel just continues with even greater gusto. I don't have to be told a third time. I allow myself to climax and empty my gisum right down her throat. Oh what joy!
Tonight I have to go to Lesley's place and pummell her pussy until it contaracts in vaginal orgasm. She wont allow me to pull it out until I pee into her love canal.
Life is good

Wait! My bad. You ARE a sick fuck!

Love,

Jamie

(just kidding)

 

[shatterproof]

Awww Jamie,
Definitely your bad this time. No story with your reply boohoohoo.

I was trying to figure out why it is I like a variety of different pussy, And then I figured it out. Its because we all have our own special talents.
I remeber the first time Lesley gave me a blow job, she sucked it incredibly hard and it just kept getting bigger and bigger. I thought it wouldnt stop. So much so that my mouth was quite simply agag at how long my penis was getting. To date I still haven't seen my cock grow as large as when she sucks it.
And then there's Charlene, who is the thirstiest anal lover ever. Never asking for any lube, not even spit. "Just stick it in" she says. If I dont stick it in fast enough, she almost becomes violent. "I told you to get that fuckin coock in my arse now!" I'm sure that if I tried to make her wait she would actually start physically abusing me.
Its all just simply incredible and I can't get enough.

 

[LimoAndPizza]

I knew I was a sex addict when I woke up with penis breath and couldn't remember where I had been. I was covered in cum, lying in the back seat of a Toyota at these apartments I don't live at. What kind of guy goes off and leaves a half-naked, unconscious, cum-covered girl in his car? Probably another sex-addict. So right then I decided to Clean Up My Act, and I DID, until I met these guys at the gas station.

It was hot, and I was in my shorty-shorts and bikini top, and I went over to get some gum and a slurpee and the guys were there with this big boat. I was like, "Cool boat! (slurrp sluurp)" and they were like, "Hey, cutie-pie! Wanna go to the lake? We got beers and some pot!" So I was like, "Alright." So it's not what you think, it wasn't a cluster-fuck, it was more like serial encounters, and they were NICE guys, they gave me a chance to swallow, and I had gum to chew on the way home so I didn't get penis breath. So you see, that was like, "normal" sex, don't you think?

So anyway, if all you are doing is THINKING about it 24/7, that just means you are a guy, it's perfectly normal for guys. When us GIRLS start doing it, we know we're pretty messed up, but my shrink said I had the best excuses she'd ever heard.

Love,

Jamie

If the gum was SPEARmint flavored, you have a huge problem.

I'm labeling your reply as my post of the day. Congratulations!

 

[WastelandVoice]

I knew I was a sex addict when I woke up with penis breath and couldn't remember where I had been. I was covered in cum, lying in the back seat of a Toyota at these apartments I don't live at. What kind of guy goes off and leaves a half-naked, unconscious, cum-covered girl in his car? Probably another sex-addict. So right then I decided to Clean Up My Act, and I DID, until I met these guys at the gas station.

It was hot, and I was in my shorty-shorts and bikini top, and I went over to get some gum and a slurpee and the guys were there with this big boat. I was like, "Cool boat! (slurrp sluurp)" and they were like, "Hey, cutie-pie! Wanna go to the lake? We got beers and some pot!" So I was like, "Alright." So it's not what you think, it wasn't a cluster-fuck, it was more like serial encounters, and they were NICE guys, they gave me a chance to swallow, and I had gum to chew on the way home so I didn't get penis breath. So you see, that was like, "normal" sex, don't you think?

So anyway, if all you are doing is THINKING about it 24/7, that just means you are a guy, it's perfectly normal for guys. When us GIRLS start doing it, we know we're pretty messed up, but my shrink said I had the best excuses she'd ever heard.

Love,

Jamie

Is it wrong that I got hard while reading that?

 

[amofiga]

Sex is a normal human desire and need, just like eating or breathing or drinking (water that is). Thinking about it all the time isn't a problem. Letting it screw up your job, your marriage, or other factors in your life is the way to determine if it's an "addiction" or not. There are people who love food and love experimenting with recipes and going to great restaurants. There are also people who love wine and whiskey and may even belong to a wine or whiskey club that has tastings or parties. No problem unless you eat so much or drink so much that it impacts your health or makes you miss work or screw up on the job.

So, in my opinion, enjoying sex, thinking about sex, having many partners or jerking off a lot doesn't make you a sex addict per se. Start missing work or destroying a marriage or similar relationship because you can't keep it in your pants, then maybe your a sex addict. Just my thoughts, but I know a lot of people who would disagree with me/

 

[silverwhisper]

an addiction is generally defined as a behavior that interferes with your ability to function normally. so if your desire for sex is making it difficult to do your job or otherwise interferes with day to day life, that's a problem.

if that isn't the case: you're just a pervy fellow. :>

ed

 

[StrayKat]

Glad to see you kids are having (online) fun

 

[johnnynice02]

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[Pervertedhub]

Sex is a normal human desire and need, just like eating or breathing or drinking (water that is). Thinking about it all the time isn't a problem. Letting it screw up your job, your marriage, or other factors in your life is the way to determine if it's an "addiction" or not. There are people who love food and love experimenting with recipes and going to great restaurants. There are also people who love wine and whiskey and may even belong to a wine or whiskey club that has tastings or parties. No problem unless you eat so much or drink so much that it impacts your health or makes you miss work or screw up on the job.

So, in my opinion, enjoying sex, thinking about sex, having many partners or jerking off a lot doesn't make you a sex addict per se. Start missing work or destroying a marriage or similar relationship because you can't keep it in your pants, then maybe your a sex addict. Just my thoughts, but I know a lot of people who would disagree with me/

Very well stated.

 

[goesallnight]

Sex is a normal human desire and need, just like eating or breathing or drinking (water that is). Thinking about it all the time isn't a problem. Letting it screw up your job, your marriage, or other factors in your life is the way to determine if it's an "addiction" or not. There are people who love food and love experimenting with recipes and going to great restaurants. There are also people who love wine and whiskey and may even belong to a wine or whiskey club that has tastings or parties. No problem unless you eat so much or drink so much that it impacts your health or makes you miss work or screw up on the job.

So, in my opinion, enjoying sex, thinking about sex, having many partners or jerking off a lot doesn't make you a sex addict per se. Start missing work or destroying a marriage or similar relationship because you can't keep it in your pants, then maybe your a sex addict. Just my thoughts, but I know a lot of people who would disagree with me/

+1, you can be addicted to nearly anything that gets you high, and sex, even sexual thoughts can get one high.

 

[Traveler78]

Am I just a dirty bugger who needs to just get a grip (sorry no pun intended) or do I have a boa-fide problem and is help available?

If it's starting to interfere with accomplishing goals you want to achieve or negatively impacts other areas of your life that are important to you then you should seek out help. Otherwise it's not a problem.

 

[JasonDaniel]

It certainly sounds like you are well on your way. With diligence and commitment to your goals, you can become a full-fledged sex addict in no time. Though I did notice that you listed a handicap on your profile: heterosexuality can be a difficult handicap for any sex addict to overcome; however, with time and counseling, I’m sure you will be lubing up the ol’ arse in no time. Learning to give a proper blow job should present a lesser problem, since Gemma sounds like a perfect teacher. I’m sure she can give you plenty of helpful pointers on dick sucking. Finding enough sex partners is a problem for any certified sex addict, but once your overcome your handicap, I’m sure you will be able to find an adequate number of partners to keep you well satisfied. Good luck on achieving your goals.