Crying

[little_lucie]

I know this might be kind of a strange question but does anyone else like crying or making someone else to cry during sex?

 

[Shimp]

I had Girl that always cried after sex..she said it was just a release and not sadness

 

[ChinaBandit]

I know this might be kind of a strange question but does anyone else like crying or making someone else to cry during sex?

No. You are twisted!

 

[little_lucie]

No. You are twisted!

I know it's weird but on a board where the first page of threads has tentacle sex, ball slapping, pussy spanking, rimming, lots of stuff about incest, and fisting, I really thought someone might be a bit understanding about me crying when I get fucked hard, even if you personally are turned off by it.

 

[danno99]

Does it feel good when you cry afterwards?

 

[little_lucie]

Does it feel good when you cry afterwards?

It does feel good to cry, but it's during, not afterwards. I have a small vagina and it usually hurts to have sex. The pain actually feels kinda hot to me, but it feels way better when I can cry instead of pretending it doesn't hurt, as I usually have to do so the guy doesn't freak out.

 

[fumbleinthedark]

It does feel good to cry, but it's during, not afterwards. I have a small vagina and it usually hurts to have sex. The pain actually feels kinda hot to me, but it feels way better when I can cry instead of pretending it doesn't hurt, as I usually have to do so the guy doesn't freak out.

I see crying as as much of a release of tension as any other and it can totally be a good thing. So long as you're enjoying it and *you* find it hot I don't see a problem. I've never experienced it with anyone personally but there are enough fetishes in the world to make this one slot in there without shedding too many tears (sorry! I'll leave...)

 

[GracefullyYours]

I know this might be kind of a strange question but does anyone else like crying or making someone else to cry during sex?

I've cried in the midst of really, really passionate (and sweet) sex with someone I loved....it's definitely not the norm though, and I've never set out to make a dude cry

 

[quimsical]

I know this might be kind of a strange question but does anyone else like crying or making someone else to cry during sex?

I've been with partners that cry upon orgasm. It's a beautiful thing, really. Just another aspect of release, and maybe just another sign that male and female orgasms must be different -- check out the debate Zeus had with Hera. Dude went blind because of that fracas: http://www.netplaces.com/classical-...a-a-marriage-made-in-heaven/a-lovers-spat.htm

I've only ever cried once during sex, but circumstances were a little special when that went down.

 

[TeaforMe]

I have cried on a few occasions when emotions were incredibly intense, but I am more apt to laugh in delightful glee when brought to a fabulous orgasm.

 

[creamofthecrawp]

i don't see the problem with a woman crying before during or after sex

if thats what she feels the need to do i say go ahead and let it out

 

[mothership]

There are people here who would like it. Sadistic. Same people, probably who like girls to gag and get watery eyed during deep throating. there are also, some, who during passionate sex don't mind their partner crying. Those are the two scenarios I can see it being appropriate or liked.

 

[filthywhore]

There are people here who would like it. Sadistic. Same people, probably who like girls to gag and get watery eyed during deep throating. there are also, some, who during passionate sex don't mind their partner crying. Those are the two scenarios I can see it being appropriate or liked.

I can attest to being one of those people who like it in a sadistic way. Either seeing another girl cry, like it hurts or she doesn't want it, or myself crying. It's a domination thing.

 

[raffi_sandoval]

I had Girl that always cried after sex..she said it was just a release and not sadness

same here.

 

[sombrablanca]

I'd love it. It'd turn me on even more after you told me its because it hurt, but you loved it.

 

[Interested_Girl]

I was with my ex and I had this orgasm which would not stop. I squirted so many times there was standing water on the bed. I had never EVER seen this or had this happen before. I came and I came and I came and I came for what seemed like forever but was probably only a few minutes, and I had to stop because I couldn't breathe and I was shaking so hard and I was a little freaked out. Out of nowhere, while still uncontrollably shaking I just started to cry. It took me almost an hour for my body to stop shaking. I tried walking and a fell down. It was really intense....then it happened again a few weeks later and I was just like....well.....I guess this is life.

 

[touchofgrey910]

I was with my ex and I had this orgasm which would not stop. I squirted so many times there was standing water on the bed. I had never EVER seen this or had this happen before. I came and I came and I came and I came for what seemed like forever but was probably only a few minutes, and I had to stop because I couldn't breathe and I was shaking so hard and I was a little freaked out. Out of nowhere, while still uncontrollably shaking I just started to cry. It took me almost an hour for my body to stop shaking. I tried walking and a fell down. It was really intense....then it happened again a few weeks later and I was just like....well.....I guess this is life.

Sign me up for that!

 

[WastelandVoice]

Actually causing someone pain wouldn't really turn me on- as rough and dominant as I like to be.... well, let me rephrase- causing pain that didn't feel good wouldn't turn me on.

I like to get rough so if there's some tears that happen as a result of gagging or whatnot then that absolutely gets me going but not necesserily full out bawling.

I wouldn't mind a girl crying during or after sex if it wasn't coming from a bad place which, from what you're saying, seems like it really doesn't. So long as you enjoy it, you're having a good time, and it's not a problem then I say there's no problem with it. Maybe even try to incorporate it into some roleplay if possible?

The bottom line here is what is safe, enjoyable, and healthy for you. If it's just something that kinda happens and it's not because you dont' feel safe or of it really seriously hurts, etc. then it's all good. But the bottomline has to be that you're okay with what's going on.

 

[Miles Long]

The bland technical term for what you're describing is dacryphilia. It's basically arousal from crying or making your partner cry during sex. Although we don't necessarily hear about it all the time I would imagine it's at least as common as a million other kinks/arousals that are well known. It's usually done through physical pain or verbal humiliation, or some combination of the two. It looks like you're getting into it from the physical pain side, and arousal related to pain is a very common kink.

Not every lover you have will be interested in making you cry, but I'm sure you'll find lots of lovers who will get just as into it as you do. If you present it along the lines of "your dick is just so big that it hurts my tiny little pussy and it hurts so much that it makes me cry and have a huge orgasm" then I think you'll probably find a LOT of guys who decide they're into it too.

But definitely tell the guy before you start crying. It would probably freak most guys out if you started sobbing out of nowhere.