Lingerie: Dress up for you or your partner?

[MrsSeven]

When you wear lingerie do you dress up for your partner or do you dress up because you like to, it makes you feel sexy..etc?

When your partner wears lingerie is it on your behalf or does she do it just for herself?

My husband likes it, but he is a "simple guy" and figures it will be coming off soon anyway. So, I dress up a little for him but mostly for me, it makes me feel sexy and allows me to take on a new "persona" since I am naturally a little shy in day-to-day life.

 

[inwinetheres]

my most recent partner wore it for herself, loved it... but i find lingerie an extremly huge turn on, so she began doing it for me as well, knowing she was feeling sexy, knowing that i was aware of what she had on and aroused by it, made it something for "us' not just one or the other...

lingerie.... yum.

 

[badliver_mustbepunished]

bit of a lingerie junkie

i have alot. originally i started wearing it cause it does make me feel sexier. feels like it flatters the parts of me i like the best i know my ex was a huge fan of it .. tho he was just as happy when i didnt wear anything at all. sad but i'll admit, single right now and i still wear the stuff to bed .. strictly for me

 

[djyak]

I love wearing lingerie, and have a large lingerie dresser; from the normal stuff to things we use in role playing. Yes, it no doubt makes me feel sexy, but most of all, it drives him nuts when I wear it. It's not that seeing me naked isn't a big turn on, but if you ever look at the photos on here, it's the ones that are tastefully done with the right outfits that get the most attention, it's most pleasing to the eye, and of course, our minds just love it!

Tifani

 

[Celesialslave91111]

I wear lingerie for both of us.
Not that it makes me feel sexy, But because i like to see his reactons to it. I enjoy it when he enjoys it. It turns me on more when i see him smile at what i'm wearing than when i put it on.

 

[loliver603]

The women I've been with wore lingerie strictly for me. I've been told its a hassle and annoying to put on.

I find it to be an insane turn on but it was so rare that I saw it. I tried talking to the women I was with about how much it turns me on and how its a game changer for me, but it always seems to fall on deaf ears. And trust me, its not like I was just randomly asking for it without stepping my game up by being sweet and doing things like the occasional candle lit dinner. The women always seem to think sex was a good enough reward.

 

[englishgent73]

I love discovering that a woman has nice lingerie on underneath when I undress - the more complicated the better as it prolongs the tease.

I also get off on watching a woman putting on her lingerie. It's ritualistic in some way - preparing for pleasure

 

[cmky]

For me. Totally.
Unless I'm just running down the street to Target or something, if I'm in a dress, I'm wearing lingerie. Unless I'm wearing nothing at all underneath...but that's an entirely different thread I suppose.
But yeah, for me. Oh, and I gotta + the old school nylons & garter. Gawds do I feel sexy in those.

 

[Darlaship]

Nothing old school like garters....but dressing turns me on more than him

 

[LindsayRae]

I love my thigh high stockings and garter belt!!

 

[3rdparty]

I'm a guy and I love wearing nylons

 

[icibill]

Giving oral

My favorite fetish is giving a woman oral pleasure while I'm fully dressed. I find this very exciting for both of us. I love the scent and taste of a woman as she cums all over my face

 

[tryliz]

When I wear a dress or a skirt I always wear nice lingerie.It makes me feel good and sexy and it always turns guys on

 

[PhilGarlic]

whats wrong

whats wrong with those big old period knickers? you know, the ones that have stretched a little, grown in size, maybe the start of a hole appearing but you can't throw them away

Honestly, when she dresses in her lingerie she looks fab, I know what might be available later on in the evening and sitting across a table knowing what is under her dress keeps me 'wanting' all night.

 

[londoner2]

When you wear lingerie do you dress up for your partner or do you dress up because you like to, it makes you feel sexy..etc?

When your partner wears lingerie is it on your behalf or does she do it just for herself?

My husband likes it, but he is a "simple guy" and figures it will be coming off soon anyway. So, I dress up a little for him but mostly for me, it makes me feel sexy and allows me to take on a new "persona" since I am naturally a little shy in day-to-day life.

We're probably all "simple guys" deep down...

 

[badliver_mustbepunished]

Notes*** throw out period panties, looks. Nope, dont own any. Well a few briefs but a girl needs variety.

Simple men are not a bad thing..but it's a treat sometimes to tease and have him unwrap the package (with his teeth)

 

[djyak]

When I wear a dress or a skirt I always wear nice lingerie.It makes me feel good and sexy and it always turns guys on

That's pretty well said right there, because if the woman feels confident, sexy, and daring, it shows. Anybody can see it and feed off of that!

Tifani