Stella_Omega
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I went to the regular second-friday event last week. It's a Domme lead play party, and one of the groups holds a demo before the party gets underway. We've recently decided to do more classes-- hands-on lab type things-- instead of demos, and this one was bondage 101. Personally, I always felt I might be at bondage 102 level because i don't have the patience for shibari and all-- for me it's all about getting someone in position for the fun and games.
I was so pleased to find the woman who was officiating had the same philosophy! (google "Nikki Nefarious") She demonstrated some very basic wraps and ties, that can be used pretty much anywhere on the body, on one or two parts, and she talked about practicing them till you're proficient so that you can look your bottom in the eyes while your hands are busy with the rope.
yeah baby...
Soon enough, the room was full of chattering pairs and trios and hanks of new white rope dripping out of people's hands. Like a perverted Girl Scout troop. I love that kind of energy!
Eventually, she said she wanted to "tie it all together" so yours truly volunteered to be the bottom/model. She used one piece of rope to make a wrap around each of my thighs. Then she had me sit down on the floor, with my knees pulled up against my chest. She brought the loose ends from my right thigh up my chest, over my shoulder, and across my back, and tied it off to the left wrap, and then repeated the maneuver going the other way. I had the most comfortable back brace I could have imagined, and wow did I suddenly feel all my muscles relax!
She sad; "I watch TV like this, myself."
Then she took another length, wrapped my wrists together, and pulled them up and back over my head. Simple! And fast!
And then I got about ten minutes of roughhousing where she showed how many positions she could put me into.
I would have took notes but I was enjoying the way the world was swinging around me...
Afterwards, I asked her if she knew of a way to tie a rope harness for a strapon dildo, since I now have a "Share" insertable, and my leather harness won't work with it. Sure enough, she did, and was totally happy to show me.
A lot of fun, packed into a short evening.
I was so pleased to find the woman who was officiating had the same philosophy! (google "Nikki Nefarious") She demonstrated some very basic wraps and ties, that can be used pretty much anywhere on the body, on one or two parts, and she talked about practicing them till you're proficient so that you can look your bottom in the eyes while your hands are busy with the rope.
yeah baby...
Soon enough, the room was full of chattering pairs and trios and hanks of new white rope dripping out of people's hands. Like a perverted Girl Scout troop. I love that kind of energy!
Eventually, she said she wanted to "tie it all together" so yours truly volunteered to be the bottom/model. She used one piece of rope to make a wrap around each of my thighs. Then she had me sit down on the floor, with my knees pulled up against my chest. She brought the loose ends from my right thigh up my chest, over my shoulder, and across my back, and tied it off to the left wrap, and then repeated the maneuver going the other way. I had the most comfortable back brace I could have imagined, and wow did I suddenly feel all my muscles relax!
She sad; "I watch TV like this, myself."

Then she took another length, wrapped my wrists together, and pulled them up and back over my head. Simple! And fast!
And then I got about ten minutes of roughhousing where she showed how many positions she could put me into.

Afterwards, I asked her if she knew of a way to tie a rope harness for a strapon dildo, since I now have a "Share" insertable, and my leather harness won't work with it. Sure enough, she did, and was totally happy to show me.
A lot of fun, packed into a short evening.