Bondage 101 class report

Stella_Omega

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I went to the regular second-friday event last week. It's a Domme lead play party, and one of the groups holds a demo before the party gets underway. We've recently decided to do more classes-- hands-on lab type things-- instead of demos, and this one was bondage 101. Personally, I always felt I might be at bondage 102 level because i don't have the patience for shibari and all-- for me it's all about getting someone in position for the fun and games.

I was so pleased to find the woman who was officiating had the same philosophy! (google "Nikki Nefarious") She demonstrated some very basic wraps and ties, that can be used pretty much anywhere on the body, on one or two parts, and she talked about practicing them till you're proficient so that you can look your bottom in the eyes while your hands are busy with the rope.

yeah baby...

Soon enough, the room was full of chattering pairs and trios and hanks of new white rope dripping out of people's hands. Like a perverted Girl Scout troop. I love that kind of energy!

Eventually, she said she wanted to "tie it all together" so yours truly volunteered to be the bottom/model. She used one piece of rope to make a wrap around each of my thighs. Then she had me sit down on the floor, with my knees pulled up against my chest. She brought the loose ends from my right thigh up my chest, over my shoulder, and across my back, and tied it off to the left wrap, and then repeated the maneuver going the other way. I had the most comfortable back brace I could have imagined, and wow did I suddenly feel all my muscles relax!

She sad; "I watch TV like this, myself." :D

Then she took another length, wrapped my wrists together, and pulled them up and back over my head. Simple! And fast!

And then I got about ten minutes of roughhousing where she showed how many positions she could put me into. :D I would have took notes but I was enjoying the way the world was swinging around me...

Afterwards, I asked her if she knew of a way to tie a rope harness for a strapon dildo, since I now have a "Share" insertable, and my leather harness won't work with it. Sure enough, she did, and was totally happy to show me.

A lot of fun, packed into a short evening. :)
 
Sweet, where was it.

Do you know the names of what she demonstrate.
 
Like a perverted Girl Scout troop.

eee he he he he he he. Sorry, that one line just made my night :p I'm glad my co-worker didn't ask me why I was giggling.

Sounded like you had a good time! The "back brace" sounds interesting, although I'd have to see it to figure out exactly what you were describing. visual learner and all that jazz :p
 
Ooooo that sounds right up my ally. I wish I could have gone (hint, hint)
... Or come? :cattail:

Not that i did-- I was completely clothed the whole time-- but the possibilities have been boiling in my mind since.

learning new things is my second favorite thing. Doing stuff with the new things I learned... that's more like number one!
 
I am envious, seriously :(
*goes off to check if there are any "happenings" in her area*
 
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I went to the regular second-friday event last week. It's a Domme lead play party, and one of the groups holds a demo before the party gets underway. We've recently decided to do more classes-- hands-on lab type things-- instead of demos, and this one was bondage 101. Personally, I always felt I might be at bondage 102 level because i don't have the patience for shibari and all-- for me it's all about getting someone in position for the fun and games.

I was so pleased to find the woman who was officiating had the same philosophy! (google "Nikki Nefarious") She demonstrated some very basic wraps and ties, that can be used pretty much anywhere on the body, on one or two parts, and she talked about practicing them till you're proficient so that you can look your bottom in the eyes while your hands are busy with the rope.

yeah baby...

Soon enough, the room was full of chattering pairs and trios and hanks of new white rope dripping out of people's hands. Like a perverted Girl Scout troop. I love that kind of energy!

Eventually, she said she wanted to "tie it all together" so yours truly volunteered to be the bottom/model. She used one piece of rope to make a wrap around each of my thighs. Then she had me sit down on the floor, with my knees pulled up against my chest. She brought the loose ends from my right thigh up my chest, over my shoulder, and across my back, and tied it off to the left wrap, and then repeated the maneuver going the other way. I had the most comfortable back brace I could have imagined, and wow did I suddenly feel all my muscles relax!

She sad; "I watch TV like this, myself." :D

Then she took another length, wrapped my wrists together, and pulled them up and back over my head. Simple! And fast!

And then I got about ten minutes of roughhousing where she showed how many positions she could put me into. :D I would have took notes but I was enjoying the way the world was swinging around me...

Afterwards, I asked her if she knew of a way to tie a rope harness for a strapon dildo, since I now have a "Share" insertable, and my leather harness won't work with it. Sure enough, she did, and was totally happy to show me.

A lot of fun, packed into a short evening. :)

I so agree with this, I mean I love the look of shibari and sometimes applying it can be a rather slow erotic dance but usually I just want to get to the fun stuff:devil:
reading this post reminded me just how much I love bondage workshops whether I am running them or attending them they are such a good excuse to play with ropes (one of my biggest fetishes whether I'm tying someone up or being tied up)and interesting body parts.;)
must remember to pack lots of ropes for my trip next week:D
thank you Stella
PS I don't suppose you have a photograph of that rope harness?
 
Sounds like it was incredibly fun!

As a side note...WHY are skilled female rope Tops so hard to find??? (Maybe it's just because I am stuck living in the ass-crack of the US...)
 
Sounds like it was incredibly fun!

As a side note...WHY are skilled female rope Tops so hard to find??? (Maybe it's just because I am stuck living in the ass-crack of the US...)

I think that must be the reason or perhaps I just live in an area where there are a lot!
 
Sounds like it was incredibly fun!

As a side note...WHY are skilled female rope Tops so hard to find??? (Maybe it's just because I am stuck living in the ass-crack of the US...)

What? You're my neighbor and I didn't know it? ;)
 
I so agree with this, I mean I love the look of shibari and sometimes applying it can be a rather slow erotic dance but usually I just want to get to the fun stuff:devil:
reading this post reminded me just how much I love bondage workshops whether I am running them or attending them they are such a good excuse to play with ropes (one of my biggest fetishes whether I'm tying someone up or being tied up)and interesting body parts.;)
must remember to pack lots of ropes for my trip next week:D
thank you Stella
PS I don't suppose you have a photograph of that rope harness?

I'll see if I can get a pic-- But basically, you do one wrap at the base of the dildo and pull the loose ends through your bight at the underside of the dildo.

Pull the loose ends between your legs and up your butt crack.

Run them over one hip to the front, wrap once around the dildo base again, crossing over the top this time. No fancy loops are needed. just the simple loop.

Continue the loose ends over the other hip to your back, and tie off at the base of your spine.

Tah dah! :)
 
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I'll see if I can get a pic-- But basically, you do one wrap at the base of the dildo and pull the loose ends through your bight at the underside of the dildo.

Pull the loose ends between your legs and up your butt crack.

Run them over one hip to the front, wrap once around the dildo base again, crossing over the top this time. No fancy loops are needed. just the simple loop.

Continue the loose ends over the other hip to your back, and tie off at the base of your spine.

Tah dah! :)

thank you Stella,
I just tried it and it worked really well:D:nana:
 
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