Dialing down in age

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How many people have dialed down in age in second marriages or relationships?

Is this just a male thing?

Everyone, (that is "guys" that I know) including myself, has gone for a much younger woman the second/third/whatever time around. In some cases, really (20 years or more) dialing down in age.

Curious as to what people think about this.
 
How many people have dialed down in age in second marriages or relationships?

Is this just a male thing?

Everyone, (that is "guys" that I know) including myself, has gone for a much younger woman the second/third/whatever time around. In some cases, really (20 years or more) dialing down in age.

Curious as to what people think about this.

only in my mind.
 
Its a guy thing I think
The idea of a younger man is unappealing to me
also, Im 25, so younger would almost be illegal.
 
My guy is about 10 years older than I am. The woman he lived with before me was about 5 years older than him. So, I guess it's true in his case.

"Dialing down" sounds a little insulting though! :eek: Like lowering one's standards or slumming it or something.
 
It's funny though, because many women are dialing up. I have.. I prefer older guys. More experience, understanding. Etc. something rarely offered to you in the selection of the male gender in college.
 
My guy is about 10 years older than I am. The woman he lived with before me was about 5 years older than him. So, I guess it's true in his case.

"Dialing down" sounds a little insulting though! :eek: Like lowering one's standards or slumming it or something.

Yeah, I see your point about wording.

The irony is that guys in my situation see it as a definite "upgrade."

I am vain and shallow enough to admit to having insisted on the complete "trophy" round two.

Please don't hate me for it.
 
It's funny though, because many women are dialing up. I have.. I prefer older guys. More experience, understanding. Etc. something rarely offered to you in the selection of the male gender in college.

This is true.

Yeah, I see your point about wording.

The irony is that guys in my situation see it as a definite "upgrade."

I am vain and shallow enough to admit to having insisted on the complete "trophy" round two.

Please don't hate me for it.

I was joking, I'm not really insulted by it. The term "dialing down" just made me laugh a bit.

I'm not sure if younger always equals trophy, though. Maybe just different? I'm almost the polar opposite of my guy's previous ltr- she was very blonde and tanned and had big tits and was extremely accomplished in her career.

Um, now that I think about it, I guess he really did dial down after all, lol.
 
I like the people I'm in relationships with to be older then me. I wanna be the one who's allowed to make mistakes and whatnot- the less dominate personality; and I've noticed that age has a lot to do with that. I wanna be the one that's 'taken care of'.

Having said that, every girl I've dated has been within a year of my age. The only guy I've dated was allmost a decade older then me- and the age thing makes a difference. I really didn't think it would. But yeah, I think I'd go older either way- it just isn't a real priority. There are a lot of things that are more important to me then age.
 
I found the evident energy, and appearance of youth, to be an attraction.

It is mental as well as physical.

My wife is also a lot less cynical. Unfortunately, age seems to increase cynicism. It was refreshing to break away from that trap. She also remains eager to try new things, including dramatic cultural and environmental changes.

Some friends claim it was just my mid-life crisis but that can't be true as my feelings toward everything about her don't fade. Also, how can a mid-life crisis last 10 years?
 
I found the evident energy, and appearance of youth, to be an attraction.

It is mental as well as physical.

My wife is also a lot less cynical. Unfortunately, age seems to increase cynicism. It was refreshing to break away from that trap. She also remains eager to try new things, including dramatic cultural and environmental changes.

Some friends claim it was just my mid-life crisis but that can't be true as my feelings toward everything about her don't fade. Also, how can a mid-life crisis last 10 years?

I think the youth plays a major part of it.. Almost like acting it out as if you were young again. Or the same age. I would like to consider myself intelligent, and like to think that I can hold my own in a conversation with a man, many years older than me. There's been many times I've forgotten my own age and lost myself in the mere feeling of having someone who I can actually hold an intellectual conversation with. Rather than the mere "What's up?" I get on a day to day basis.
 
It is quite the cliche for men in thier 40's to take up with a much younger model and good for them if it works. Sometimes it looks like a desperate last grab at youth and life, but why not - if that makes you happy.

As for me, my experience has always been partners around my own age. I like getting the same references to jokes and comments, although find that I have fetishised older sexual partners in the past, much the same way men do younger women I guess.

My experience is not that women become more cynical, but I have noticed some women at work who become very serious in thier 30's and 40's. They lose the sense of fun. But usually this is because they have had to work, bring up kids, do the house, take responsibiity for relationships, often care for older parents. All those things generally don't make a woman feel sexy, and being with a man who is, at best, unsympathetic, can leave women feeling disillusioned with thier lot. With men in general.

I was lucky, I spent my 20's and 30's with a woman so I avoided all of that and enjoyed the most fantastic partnership. Neither of us got bitter - just had good times.
 
my ex wife was 6 years younger than me, the next relationship she was 23 years younger, the next one was 7 years older. from all that i found out that although women close to my age or older we may understand or like a lot of the same things but they tend to act mentally like they have one foot in the grave and live and want really boring lives. those who are way too young, it may be fun, but the generation gap is just too much. i think i like them younger, but only up to a point.
and today is my birthday, any hot ladies wanna send me nudes of themselves or vids, feel free to do so.
 
It is quite the cliche for men in thier 40's to take up with a much younger model and good for them if it works. Sometimes it looks like a desperate last grab at youth and life, but why not - if that makes you happy.

As for me, my experience has always been partners around my own age. I like getting the same references to jokes and comments, although find that I have fetishised older sexual partners in the past, much the same way men do younger women I guess.

My experience is not that women become more cynical, but I have noticed some women at work who become very serious in thier 30's and 40's. They lose the sense of fun. But usually this is because they have had to work, bring up kids, do the house, take responsibiity for relationships, often care for older parents. All those things generally don't make a woman feel sexy, and being with a man who is, at best, unsympathetic, can leave women feeling disillusioned with thier lot. With men in general.

I was lucky, I spent my 20's and 30's with a woman so I avoided all of that and enjoyed the most fantastic partnership. Neither of us got bitter - just had good times.

Yep... I prefer a partner plus or minus 5 years from my age. I'm very energetic so I usually attract younger guys and I've tried dating guys 10 years younger but it's just too much for me.

I wouldn't rule it out completely, just like I wouldn't rule out a guy who was 10 years older, as long as he can keep up with me :p
 
I dialed it up 19 years...

I find older women who have their shit figured out far more attractive than the younger teen/ twenty something's that haven't got a clue what they want out of life.
 
I'm still working on marriage number 1, and Mr. Riles is almost 10 years older than I am. Our ages only factored into the selection process because we were looking for partners to be in baby-making/raising mode -- I've dated men beyond that age gap, and ones closer to my age, and each time it was always a matter of compatability in personality, ambitions and lifestyle.
 
How many people have dialed down in age in second marriages or relationships?

Is this just a male thing?

Everyone, (that is "guys" that I know) including myself, has gone for a much younger woman the second/third/whatever time around. In some cases, really (20 years or more) dialing down in age.

Curious as to what people think about this.

I'm gonna choose to not dial any number. Or even answer the phone.
 
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