Thanks for all of the kind words! What you say does not bother me at all. It is not a bad thing to want to talk to one person. It is not a bad thing to have an opinion. It is a bad thing to judge someone who you do not know.
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Thanks for all of the kind words! What you say does not bother me at all. It is not a bad thing to want to talk to one person. It is not a bad thing to have an opinion. It is a bad thing to judge someone who you do not know.
Thanks for the reply. It's sad that we do not have the patience to wait. We live in a world in which we want everything now. Sometimes it's worth the wait.
I think you just nailed it! This 'now' generation wants their immediate gratification a bit quicker... But it seems it's the rest of our lives being so hectic that has ruined our patience and proper pursuit.
I also agree with previous posters that this my not be a site to find a RL anything. But especially unlikely to find 'the one'.
Cheers mate.
toshiskitten
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Why is that sad? I talk to mutliple people on here and some I click with, some I don't. It's always good to keep your options open.
LibraStud
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I enjoy meeting and talking to whomever has the same interests as me. But everyone is coming from a different angle. Who knows what is going on in their lives. People come here to escape. Sometimes disappear for months, and then re-appear. I enjoy welcoming them back and continuing on. Like the last time I went to my barber. We just continue on like weeks have not passed - the conversation continues.
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Jake maybe “patience” is not what you are really looking for….
You’re looking for “loyalty and commitment”
I talk to a few people on lit and I am always open to meet new people and make new friends… I like having someone to talk to when I am free to chat….
I have had some specials relationships/friendships that have developed and some are just chat buddies….
BUT I never forget I belong to my Daddy…
I do hope you find the right person for you… that can give you what you want and need….
Everyone deserves that…
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I know you think I'm trying to antagonise you, and while you may see it as such the truth of the matter is that I'm actually trying to share some insight w/ you that might give you a fresher perspective on how to treat women - and hopefully it can be taken and applied.
Realise that women on Lit often talk w/ one another.
If you insult one woman by calling her a Bitch, insult another woman by calling her "cobweb pussy" b/c of her age
or tell yet another woman (that actually DID talk to you) that her pillowtalk w/ you sucked... well it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that pretty soon NO woman worth talking to will want to talk to you.
Learn the meaning of no
If you PM a woman and she declines your offer, don't keep hasseling her. Again goes back to my first point.
Your posts reflect ONLY on you
Most women tend to have a habit of reading posts that men make in determining if we wish to talk to that man. Some women have a mindset that if a guys is rude to even one woman they won't talk to that guy b/c it shows a lack of respect for women in general.
Lastly this is just a stand alone thought on your "fun w/ one" mindset.
If you were given a piece of paper that had the outlines of a peacock, and you wanted to colour it, but the box of crayons you bought were all the same colour - how soon would it be before you got frustrated and returned that box of crayons for a variety of different colours?
Just like variety is the spice of life...so is having more than one person to talk to.
Realise that women on Lit often talk w/ one another.
If you insult one woman by calling her a Bitch, insult another woman by calling her "cobweb pussy" b/c of her age
or tell yet another woman (that actually DID talk to you) that her pillowtalk w/ you sucked... well it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that pretty soon NO woman worth talking to will want to talk to you. Learn the meaning of no
If you PM a woman and she declines your offer, don't keep hasseling her. Again goes back to my first point.
Your posts reflect ONLY on you
Most women tend to have a habit of reading posts that men make in determining if we wish to talk to that man. Some women have a mindset that if a guys is rude to even one woman they won't talk to that guy b/c it shows a lack of respect for women in general.
Lastly this is just a stand alone thought on your "fun w/ one" mindset.
If you were given a piece of paper that had the outlines of a peacock, and you wanted to colour it, but the box of crayons you bought were all the same colour - how soon would it be before you got frustrated and returned that box of crayons for a variety of different colours?
Just like variety is the spice of life...so is having more than one person to talk to.
It is nice to find someone who actually seems to gets it.
'Now' generation is a very good word for it.
I am not actively looking to find a woman to marry.
Just have wanted to find one woman to have some fun with and get to know.
Which now I have found.
It is so nice to escape with one person.
It is all about finding someone with the same interests.
Well said.
I know you think I'm trying to antagonise you, and while you may see it as such the truth of the matter is that I'm actually trying to share some insight w/ you that might give you a fresher perspective on how to treat women - and hopefully it can be taken and applied.
Realise that women on Lit often talk w/ one another.
If you insult one woman by calling her a Bitch, insult another woman by calling her "cobweb pussy" b/c of her age
Learn the meaning of no
If you PM a woman and she declines your offer, don't keep hasseling her. Again goes back to my first point.
Your posts reflect ONLY on you
Most women tend to have a habit of reading posts that men make in determining if we wish to talk to that man. Some women have a mindset that if a guys is rude to even one woman they won't talk to that guy b/c it shows a lack of respect for women in general.
Lastly this is just a stand alone thought on your "fun w/ one" mindset.
If you were given a piece of paper that had the outlines of a peacock, and you wanted to colour it, but the box of crayons you bought were all the same colour - how soon would it be before you got frustrated and returned that box of crayons for a variety of different colours?
Just like variety is the spice of life...so is having more than one person to talk to.
I never pretended to be perfect.
And respect goes both ways.
Interesting that you compare crayons to a person.
How colorful.
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Yes it is very nice! Congratulations! I am glad you found someone and it seems fairly quickly. Kudos!!
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If you want to get to know just one person then why not try a dating site?
Filled with people looking to force something.
I am getting to know one person.
Thank you for the advice.
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I notice a weird thing from some
women I know off line.
They give me their phone number but never answer when
they know it's me. So why would
they give me their number in
the first place? It doesn't make sense.
I notice a weird thing from some
women I know off line.
They give me their phone number but never answer when
they know it's me. So why would
they give me their number in
the first place? It doesn't make sense.
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