Nickyknight
Virgin
- Joined
- Dec 26, 2011
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- 11
Hi,
We're looking for some advice on 3sums with my slave and I.
We have been seeing each for about 10 years. Our relationship is almost entirely sexual. Of course there's some vanilla, but think of it as a "D/S Friends with Benefits" relationship. That seems about right.
For several months, my slave has been very interested in a 3sum with another man, or even better, another Dominant man, which is what she really wants. She doesn't care for most male oriented porn, but the few sites she likes are always focused on gangbangs with dominant men. She loves them. Way more than I do I think. lol!
So we've been trying to make this happen. Needless to say, it is WAY more difficult than I though it would be.
The one guy we finally got onboard, ended up bringing a little too much drama to the situation before we ever got anything fun going.
She still wants to make this happen, and she keeps bringing it up. We share our fantasies and desires, and I always encourage her to express hers. This is the one she wants more than anything else, so we're gonna keep trying, but we definitely need some advice.
I have NOT posted on any of the "hook up" sites like alt or collarme, but I'm considering it. Unfortunately, after that, I have no idea how to meet someone that just wants to do this, no strings attached, and NO DRAMA.
So what's the best way to proceed?
Addtional info: I'm 47, she's 40, so we're not youngsters. We both have experience with D/S for many years, but never with more than one person at a time.
We're looking for some advice on 3sums with my slave and I.
We have been seeing each for about 10 years. Our relationship is almost entirely sexual. Of course there's some vanilla, but think of it as a "D/S Friends with Benefits" relationship. That seems about right.
For several months, my slave has been very interested in a 3sum with another man, or even better, another Dominant man, which is what she really wants. She doesn't care for most male oriented porn, but the few sites she likes are always focused on gangbangs with dominant men. She loves them. Way more than I do I think. lol!
So we've been trying to make this happen. Needless to say, it is WAY more difficult than I though it would be.
The one guy we finally got onboard, ended up bringing a little too much drama to the situation before we ever got anything fun going.
She still wants to make this happen, and she keeps bringing it up. We share our fantasies and desires, and I always encourage her to express hers. This is the one she wants more than anything else, so we're gonna keep trying, but we definitely need some advice.
I have NOT posted on any of the "hook up" sites like alt or collarme, but I'm considering it. Unfortunately, after that, I have no idea how to meet someone that just wants to do this, no strings attached, and NO DRAMA.
So what's the best way to proceed?
Addtional info: I'm 47, she's 40, so we're not youngsters. We both have experience with D/S for many years, but never with more than one person at a time.
