My girlfriend likes me to choke her....

[Ekserb]

We met online about a year ago and from the very beginning it was sexually intense. We opened up and told each other our fantasies and desires, and she confided a love of pain and rough sex. I mean really rough. It's come to the point where I have two personalities in the bedroom (or wherever we happen to be): Nice Phil and Dark Phil.

Nice Phil is the boyfriend and he's great. He takes her out to dinner and goes shopping with her and cuddles and has loving but vigorous sex.

Dark Phil is aggressive, abusive and demanding. He slaps her across the face and neck. He bites her. He holds her down and fucks her throat.

She likes Dark Phil more than Nice Phil, and that doesn't bother me one little bit. I like him, too.

I'm curious how many other couples have this kind of relationship?

 

[gunforhire]

xxxxx

 

[gunforhire]

Maybe the third side of your personality will be Doctor Phil and he can help you come to terms with yourself

 

[TexasWife25]

We met online about a year ago and from the very beginning it was sexually intense. We opened up and told each other our fantasies and desires, and she confided a love of pain and rough sex. I mean really rough. It's come to the point where I have two personalities in the bedroom (or wherever we happen to be): Nice Phil and Dark Phil.

Nice Phil is the boyfriend and he's great. He takes her out to dinner and goes shopping with her and cuddles and has loving but vigorous sex.

Dark Phil is aggressive, abusive and demanding. He slaps her across the face and neck. He bites her. He holds her down and fucks her throat.

She likes Dark Phil more than Nice Phil, and that doesn't bother me one little bit. I like him, too.

I'm curious how many other couples have this kind of relationship?

Maybe you should repost this in the BDSM forum
you might get better reception

 

[honeybeex0]

you sound like the perfect boyfriend.

 

[Ekserb]

you sound like the perfect boyfriend.

She seems to think so. Alas, I'm what they call "emotionally unavailable."

She says she's in love. Me: "Meh. Not so much."

 

[iDreamInNude]

Honestly... This is the relationship I want. There is something so fascinatingly lovely about being controlled. I want to be put in my place, to feel out of control.

Yet I have a very mild mannered, quiet boyfriend.... We're working on that though.

 

[puppetastrophe]

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