Question About being bi-sexual!

[EroticElectric]

Hi there,

New to the forum. I've had some questions about being bisexual. I'm fairly well experienced with women, and have in this past year been fooling around with guys. I have no interested in anal sex (besides a guy playing with my ass or maybe rimming me if i get to know him well enough). I love receiving oral, but I have NO INTEREST in giving it. I'm really into cuddling and affection, lots of hugging and snuggling and making out. I know I like girls more, but a lot of my "gay side" just isn't really gay, its like sorta gay. I love when a cute/hot guy gives me a wonderful blow job. Got a huge cock and last forever, and i feel like gays appreciate my cock more than girls. Ok any insight would be appreciate!

Thanks for listening.

 

[EroticElectric]

Someone help me out here please!

 

[Mikijl Dragon]

Think you have to ask a question to get an answer.

 

[serpentwrap]

Seems to me you have got it all sorted out, dude. The same post in the personal column might get you some tangible "insights" that you might find rewarding.

 

[CandiCame]

Hi there,

New to the forum. I've had some questions about being bisexual. I'm fairly well experienced with women, and have in this past year been fooling around with guys. I have no interested in anal sex (besides a guy playing with my ass or maybe rimming me if i get to know him well enough). I love receiving oral, but I have NO INTEREST in giving it. I'm really into cuddling and affection, lots of hugging and snuggling and making out. I know I like girls more, but a lot of my "gay side" just isn't really gay, its like sorta gay. I love when a cute/hot guy gives me a wonderful blow job. Got a huge cock and last forever, and i feel like gays appreciate my cock more than girls. Ok any insight would be appreciate!

Thanks for listening.

heh- good luck.

 

[Stella_Omega]

"Bisexual" covers a lot of preferences. Google "Kinsey scale" for some insight on how many ways a person can be bisexual.

As far as not wanting to suck a guy or take it up the ass-- you are still legitimately bisexual. You can tell people you're a top, the do-er. Since you like to cuddle and make out, I doubt that many men are going to be upset by that. Most of the guys who show up here are interested in cock and nothing else, certainly not cuddling, so congratulations on that!

 

[CandiCame]

"Bisexual" covers a lot of preferences. Google "Kinsey scale" for some insight on how many ways a person can be bisexual.

As far as not wanting to suck a guy or take it up the ass-- you are still legitimately bisexual. You can tell people you're a top, the do-er. Since you like to cuddle and make out, I doubt that many men are going to be upset by that. Most of the guys who show up here are interested in cock and nothing else, certainly not cuddling, so congratulations on that!

You know- I didn't even see that in his post until I went back and re-read it after this comment. I suddenly feel like a bad person.

 

[EroticElectric]

I guess its weird. Cocks turn me on but im not interested in having them enter my body. I love cuddling with vgl men and they like playing with my cock. I see a couple guys every once in awhile and its never gone beyond me getting oral, and total body contact, lots of hugging, cuddling. Thats what i like. Why do the gays like cock so much? their is a lot more than just a penis to a guy.

 

[Safe_Bet]

I guess its weird. Cocks turn me on but im not interested in having them enter my body. I love cuddling with vgl men and they like playing with my cock. I see a couple guys every once in awhile and its never gone beyond me getting oral, and total body contact, lots of hugging, cuddling. Thats what i like. Why do the gays like cock so much? their is a lot more than just a penis to a guy.

Actually, it is much more of a "I Like Dicks, But Not Men" fetishists and Bi "I Want To See His Dick In My Wife" Bi men thing to feel that way, IMO.

Most gay men I know have no problem with the cuddling and kissing part because they love men, not just their cocks.

 

[EroticElectric]

in some ways i'd consider myself to be both heterosexual and homosexual, because im attracted to primary characteristics of both genders, face, body, genitals last, even though they do produce a sense of lust. I ended up getting a lot of emails on a dating website, but i turn down almost all of them, because they seem to just be after cock.

 

[Stella_Omega]

in some ways i'd consider myself to be both heterosexual and homosexual, because im attracted to primary characteristics of both genders, face, body, genitals last, even though they do produce a sense of lust. I ended up getting a lot of emails on a dating website, but i turn down almost all of them, because they seem to just be after cock.

You're bisexual. You are not hetero,and you are not homosexual. In contrast to many men, you want more than a cock encounter. But that is something that a lot of men do-- even hetero men many of whom are looking for wham bam. That's why whores make so much money.

 

[EroticElectric]

Dunno, the labeling starts to seem silly after awhile. I think its just safe to say that people have sexual preferences, and it shouldn't be a character definer. Any ones insight would be appreciated. Or a joke.

 

[JaxRhapsody]

It's not a character definer. Theres a whole world out there a simple wiki search for bisexual, homosexual, pansexual, any of it will leave you reading for hours. I happen to be bisexual, yes I like the dick, yes I like to cuddle and kiss. THats why I'm writting a book. I have my reasons for why I like to take it up the ass. Sometimes it is a turnoff when it seems like someone wants a jon/hooker deal. If there's no intamacy, i can't do it. I used to, but it's hard for me to get turned on like that. But a nearly platonic relationship is boring too.

 

[Chrissi]

"Bisexual" covers a lot of preferences. Google "Kinsey scale" for some insight on how many ways a person can be bisexual.

As far as not wanting to suck a guy or take it up the ass-- you are still legitimately bisexual. You can tell people you're a top, the do-er. Since you like to cuddle and make out, I doubt that many men are going to be upset by that. Most of the guys who show up here are interested in cock and nothing else, certainly not cuddling, so congratulations on that!

Stella, while you are right about some of the guys here. I don't think that is a good representation of gay men in general. [EDIT, never mind, I see that you get that too...with the congrats.]

As to the OP, yeah the kissing and cuddling and holding hands is something I love to do, but I have to tell you, it always and hopefully has the promise of something more, later. I won't even consider dating a guy unless he likes to kiss and cuddle, that part of intimacy is really really important for me. The subtle touches, the quick looks, the smells, the terms of endearment, are all essential parts of any relationship and are what keeps a relationship fresh and exciting. That hint or flirt or promise of more....

I know a couple of men who don't like oral or anal. It is far more common than I think I would even like to admit. ;-) I for one, would have a problem continuing a relationship with such a guy, as I also feel that good sex, and the willingness to try anything twice for your partner(s) is also an important part of a relationship.

 

[Chrissi]

Actually, it is much more of a "I Like Dicks, But Not Men" fetishists and Bi "I Want To See His Dick In My Wife" Bi men thing to feel that way, IMO.

Most gay men I know have no problem with the cuddling and kissing part because they love men, not just their cocks.

Yes, exactly

 

[EroticElectric]

The way im attracted to guys physically and emotionally is VERY different than girls, their is both something unique about it. Just so happens I'm more responsive to women in many different sexual ways. If a guy would only see me if their would be sex, then hes not for me.

 

[EroticElectric]

Anyone else? Why do i like getting my cock sucked so much by guys and girls, but i have no interest in sucking another man's penis, but i love affection from men? Is this normal?

 

[Mikijl Dragon]

Anyone else? Why do i like getting my cock sucked so much by guys and girls, but i have no interest in sucking another man's penis, but i love affection from men? Is this normal?

1. Me, I am going to paint this the way I see it.
2. Because a blow job feels good whether it is from a man or woman, it appears you like being the center of attention. You take from the relationship, blowjobs, affection and perhaps more that I am not aware of.
3. Depends on the circles you are in. Not as normal here as I see a lot of selflessness here on this board.

I could be wrong but evaluate your actions in a relationship and see if you match. If not I am just noise on the internet of babble. Keep in mind being a taker is not that big of an issue if you find a giver that wants nothing more.

 

[Little Bird]

It might be that you are just still new to the idea of being intimate with men. For me, I started with only thinking of cuddling and maybe kissing and only gradually begane to think of more sexual things. Took some time before I actually considered actual sex with men.

 

[EroticElectric]

my dick is really big and some very cute gays really wanted to go down on me really badly, so i let a few guys go at it. I do like being sort of the subversive dominant, but i'm very affectionate appreciative...same way with girls. Intimate and coming at the same time is important with both genders i feel.