Slut as a lifestyle.

[Sinny]

Back in August I was involved with a couple of men who I spent time with and they would give me money for the time, and yes there was sex. Yes, that is being a prostitute or "whore" as is the obviously preferred term. There was shock, judgment, disgust, and horror by The Lit Church Members. Hell, I wasn't trying to get anyone else to do what I was doing.

In all my sinfulness, I labeled the thread "Slut as a Lifestyle" rather than "Whore" and several took offense at my poor choice of words.

I have since ended the situations, and also broke things off with TMWFM, and am now seeing a guy who was a dear friend and it's become (surprisingly) more. It was good for the time for what it was, and I never did anything I didn't want to do.

That sounds just about right for this crowd. Lit Church. Heh.

So you really did kick TMWFY to the curb? I'm shocked. And I asked a few days ago in a thread, but I didn't go back to check your response, but is the new guy the same guy who used to bring you Dr. Pepper? He was a semi occasional fuck buddy? And I swear I am so behind for taking December off from my porn fix. I will be caught up soon. Probably.

 

[redheadedtxn]

That sounds just about right for this crowd. Lit Church. Heh.

So you really did kick TMWFY to the curb? I'm shocked. And I asked a few days ago in a thread, but I didn't go back to check your response, but is the new guy the same guy who used to bring you Dr. Pepper? He was a semi occasional fuck buddy? And I swear I am so behind for taking December off from my porn fix. I will be caught up soon. Probably.

yeah, I had to for various reasons. Didn't want to, but sometimes it's for the best.

No. This is the poker buddy that I fucked a few times, then decided I can't fuck him anymore because the last time we'd fucked...we snuggled. That was several months back (maybe last summer?) Well now we're pretty hot and heavy now that he's the only one in the picture.

 

[Sinny]

yeah, I had to for various reasons. Didn't want to, but sometimes it's for the best.

No. This is the poker buddy that I fucked a few times, then decided I can't fuck him anymore because the last time we'd fucked...we snuggled. That was several months back (maybe last summer?) Well now we're pretty hot and heavy now that he's the only one in the picture.

Oh, yeah. I remember that guy. I remember thinking that he sounded awesome. Good for you for giving it a shot. It's seriously easy to remain single after a divorce, it's very brave to jump into the game again.

 

[redheadedtxn]

Oh, yeah. I remember that guy. I remember thinking that he sounded awesome. Good for you for giving it a shot. It's seriously easy to remain single after a divorce, it's very brave to jump into the game again.

yeah, there's a whole range of emotions I'm dealing with over this. Mainly, I think we need to not rush anything. It's damned scary letting myself be vulnerable like this. But, after the situation ended with tmwfm, and it hurt anyway, I figured, what the hell do I have to lose?

 

[Sinny]

yeah, there's a whole range of emotions I'm dealing with over this. Mainly, I think we need to not rush anything. It's damned scary letting myself be vulnerable like this. But, after the situation ended with tmwfm, and it hurt anyway, I figured, what the hell do I have to lose?

You don't have anything to lose if you keep the stakes reasonable. Once you begin elevating your expectations unreasonably, you'll know you have too much of your head in the game.

FWIW, here's something I think I've learned about dating (until something else comes unhinged and I'm back off the rails again). I think the key to successful dating is detachment in the "get to know me" stage. I learned that from the impulsive men, the ones who wanted me to become this breathless devotee within days of meeting, who were the absolute *worst* for me. It's as if they wanted me to get sucked under their current, and once I was there, they wanted to flood off and suck someone else under. Well, I've had enough of that. Slow, steady men are the only men for me from this stage forward. I play on my terms, I play slow, and anyone who doesn't stick around for that certainly isn't worth my dating time. No more impulsive fuckwads.

 

[redheadedtxn]

You don't have anything to lose if you keep the stakes reasonable. Once you begin elevating your expectations unreasonably, you'll know you have too much of your head in the game.

FWIW, here's something I think I've learned about dating (until something else comes unhinged and I'm back off the rails again). I think the key to successful dating is detachment in the "get to know me" stage. I learned that from the impulsive men, the ones who wanted me to become this breathless devotee within days of meeting, who were the absolute *worst* for me. It's as if they wanted me to get sucked under their current, and once I was there, they wanted to flood off and suck someone else under. Well, I've had enough of that. Slow, steady men are the only men for me from this stage forward. I play on my terms, I play slow, and anyone who doesn't stick around for that certainly isn't worth my dating time. No more impulsive fuckwads.

Clingy types freak me out. I've known this guy for years. We already know one another pretty well. We'll see what happens.

 

[Sinny]

Clingy types freak me out. I've known this guy for years. We already know one another pretty well. We'll see what happens.

+1. Big turnoff. Good luck.

 

[jomar]

Back in August I was involved with a couple of men who I spent time with and they would give me money for the time, and yes there was sex. Yes, that is being a prostitute or "whore" as is the obviously preferred term. There was shock, judgment, disgust, and horror by The Lit Church Members. Hell, I wasn't trying to get anyone else to do what I was doing.

In all my sinfulness, I labeled the thread "Slut as a Lifestyle" rather than "Whore" and several took offense at my poor choice of words.

...It was good for the time for what it was, and I never did anything I didn't want to do.

Maybe I need to reread, but my impression was that people weren't outraged, they just wanted you to call it what it was, not spin it, is all.

Anyway, hope things go well for you in your new relationship.

 

[Saint Peter]

I love to cling.

Like a cat.

 

[neci]

sluts. every last one of you.

 

[Sinny]

^^ Sluttiest McSlutterson of 'em all.

 

[redheadedtxn]

Maybe I need to reread, but my impression was that people weren't outraged, they just wanted you to call it what it was, not spin it, is all.

Anyway, hope things go well for you in your new relationship.

I wasn't trying to spin anything nor was I ashamed.

I am just in shock that so many people have their panties in a wad because I put "slut" in the thread title instead of "whore"

I mean come on, certainly there are bigger fish to fry...but then again, this is Lit. This place can be more judgmental than a fundamental baptist church.

 

[neci]

^^ Sluttiest McSlutterson of 'em all.

i posted a come back, but it didn't post.

i think the sluts ate it.

happy new year, pretty titties!

 

[dirtygentleman]

Is it just me or are the dog ones more clever than the cat ones?

I'm a big fan of Caturday. But that pic just seemed to convey what I was feeling about zipman's incessant blather.

I also think an agitated dog is probably not as bad to be around as an agitated cat. That said, I'd rather have a cat because they require less maintenance and attention yet are still fun to have around and have their ways of showing their appreciation without requiring constant affirmation.

 

[Sinny]

i posted a come back, but it didn't post.

i think the sluts ate it.

happy new year, pretty titties!

Gaping sluts. Things are always falling in, never to be found again. Bother.
I've been thinking lots about you. I could use your design help with prettying up my music room.

 

[Wife of Bath]

I love to cling.

Like a cat.

I laughed an inappropriate amount at this. Thanks for that.

 

[neci]

Gaping sluts. Things are always falling in, never to be found again. Bother.
I've been thinking lots about you. I could use your design help with prettying up my music room.

oooooohhhh.... i've been thinking of you as well. i have been blessed with an ice cream maker. the first batch of lemon sorbet came out wonderful. i heard a rumor that you know your ice cream.

 

[coastal-boy]

I wasn't trying to spin anything nor was I ashamed.

I am just in shock that so many people have their panties in a wad because I put "slut" in the thread title instead of "whore"

I mean come on, certainly there are bigger fish to fry...but then again, this is Lit. This place can be more judgmental than a fundamental baptist church.

Best $500 I spent that year

 

[werdsmith]

I mean come on, certainly there are bigger fish to fry...but then again, this is Lit. This place can be more judgmental than a fundamental baptist church.

It makes the dyslexic Confucius in me want to say "Uck Foo" for sure.

 

[Saint Peter]

I laughed an inappropriate amount at this. Thanks for that.

Meeeooooow!

 

[Sinny]

oooooohhhh.... i've been thinking of you as well. i have been blessed with an ice cream maker. the first batch of lemon sorbet came out wonderful. i heard a rumor that you know your ice cream.

Oh, yes. I'm the queen of custard. I have some tried and true tricks and tips. I think the best one is that you need to make ice cream with eggs. Ice cream without eggs is like a masturbating without an O.

 

[redheadedtxn]

Oh, yes. I'm the queen of custard. I have some tried and true tricks and tips. I think the best one is that you need to make ice cream with eggs. Ice cream without eggs is like a masturbating without an O.

ice cream made with eggs?

 

[neci]

Oh, yes. I'm the queen of custard. I have some tried and true tricks and tips. I think the best one is that you need to make ice cream with eggs. Ice cream without eggs is like a masturbating without an O.

*takes notes*

i had no idea they were that important. do i need to stick with the heavy cream as well? i will post my creamy results.

 

[Wife of Bath]

Meeeooooow!

And I just realized the awesomeness of myself posting in this thread with my username. Don't get any ideas folks. My bits are not for sale!

*backs away slowly*

 

[redheadedtxn]

And I just realized the awesomeness of myself posting in this thread with my username. Don't get any ideas folks. My bits are not for sale!

*backs away slowly*

OH no Missy! You are NOT a whore unless you get monies! You're a slut!