Slut as a lifestyle.

[Lorilei]

It just seems to be sorta like splitting hairs...but yeah, I mean if it's really important to you, then yes. I was a "whore", and now, I'm just a "slut".

But the thing is, there is more to me than that. I'm a sales person, I'm a mother, I'm a friend, I'm a musician, I'm a sister, I'm creative and caring and try to be empathetic and treat others with kindness.

I think just tossing a label of "whore" or "slut" onto a woman diminishes all the other qualities she possesses. I, and all woman, are more than what we do with our vaginas.

Whew, that's a relief! Otherwise I'd be...nothing.

 

[redheadedtxn]

Whew, that's a relief! Otherwise I'd be...nothing.

LMAO!!! Omg ....

Happy 2012!

 

[SkAoUt]

I have no idea what to call someone who fdoesn't fuck fun or money? Do you?

Trapped.

Lots of women out there fuck for survival. Neither for fun or money but so as not to be slaughtered. Fear is a superb motivator.

 

[Lorilei]

LMAO!!! Omg ....

Happy 2012!

Happy 2012, Red!

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

but there is often the implicit understanding that after you have forked out for a date, you get laid in return. You just have to see all the men moaning about it when it doesn't go that way. Which is why I won't let a man buy me food. or at least only if I actually intend fucking him.

When I date a woman I pay because it is how I was raised and to me it is the gentlemanly thing to do. I expect nothing in return. I do not count pennies to tally up the sexual favors she owes me. I would hope sex is because of mutual attraction and not because she feels obliged.

I enjoy fine dining and good wine and champagne and when I ask a lady to dinner I make it special and I spare no expense. I do not do this to curry sexual favors. I do it because I am going to eat there anyway and I would rather share the experience with an interesting woman.

From your statement I take it you rarely dated a man with any quality.

 

[redheadedtxn]

Trapped.

Lots of women out there fuck for survival. Neither for fun or money but so as not to be slaughtered. Fear is a superb motivator.

Funny, first thing that came to my mind was "wife"


***only kidding*****

 

[pink]

Oh. Oh well. Slut, whore, prostitute, call-girl, grape soda, matters not to me.

I think in this medium, it really does matter what terms are used for clarity.

 

[zipman]

It just seems to be sorta like splitting hairs...but yeah, I mean if it's really important to you, then yes. I was a "whore", and now, I'm just a "slut".

But the thing is, there is more to me than that. I'm a sales person, I'm a mother, I'm a friend, I'm a musician, I'm a sister, I'm creative and caring and try to be empathetic and treat others with kindness.

I think just tossing a label of "whore" or "slut" onto a woman diminishes all the other qualities she possesses. I, and all woman, are more than what we do with our vaginas.

You called yourself a slut. Were you trying to diminish yourself? I think it's interesting how you went from bragging about not paying any bills from whoring to being the victim of being judged by what you do with your vagina despite the fact that I have repeatedly said I'm not judging you.

I was just trying to clarify what I consider the difference to be between a slut and a whore.

 

[redheadedtxn]

I think in this medium, it really does matter what terms are used for clarity.

I wish I could go back and change the name of the thread, but I can't.


I could start another thread, correcting the title.

Hm....

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

I will take a slut or whore over a bitch any day.

 

[redheadedtxn]

You called yourself a slut. Were you trying to diminish yourself? I think it's interesting how you went from bragging about not paying any bills from whoring to being the victim of being judged by what you do with your vagina despite the fact that I have repeatedly said I'm not judging you.

I was just trying to clarify what I consider the difference to be between a slut and a whore.

Good gravy.

You're right. I'm wrong.

Tell him what he's won, Johnny!

 

[redheadedtxn]

I will take a slut or whore over a bitch any day.

That is hugely interesting.

I get the impression that isn't the case with most of the dudes on Lit.

 

[zipman]

Good gravy.

You're right. I'm wrong.

Tell him what he's won, Johnny!

Yes, because that's all I care about.

It's not about having a conversation and trying to be understood.

FFS.

 

[garbage can]

That is hugely interesting.

I get the impression that isn't the case with most of the dudes on Lit.

*grin*....not necessarily, sluts and whores can be interesting, intelligent and graciously polite.......... Bitches are bitches..........

 

[redheadedtxn]

Yes, because that's all I care about.

It's not about having a conversation and trying to be understood.

FFS.

I don't understand what you're trying to accomplish with me, dude.

I can't change the thread title.

I never really took you as one of those people on here that just liked to try to twist people's words and fuss and nitpick.

 

[redheadedtxn]

*grin*....not necessarily, sluts and whores can be interesting, intelligent and graciously polite.......... Bitches are bitches..........

If someone called me a bitch, I'd feel way more insulted than if someone called me a slut or a whore.

 

[bronco_2006]

Wow really?

 

[redheadedtxn]

Wow really?

about my comment how I'd rather be called a slut or a whore than a bitch? Hell yes.

 

[zipman]

I don't understand what you're trying to accomplish with me, dude.

I can't change the thread title.

I never really took you as one of those people on here that just liked to try to twist people's words and fuss and nitpick.

Do you have any idea why they call this a discussion board?

How in the world do you think I twisted your words?

That's totally ridiculous.

 

[bronco_2006]

about my comment how I'd rather be called a slut or a whore than a bitch? Hell yes.

Oh no hell no lol, not at all I understand all that I don't understand why some people are so tied up in trying to prove their point, esp. on a site that is about sex and the title of the thread and which definition is proper, who gives a shit as long as the person who named is good with the name of the thread, or what she is refered to as, her choice and that is that.

 

[redheadedtxn]

Do you have any idea why they call this a discussion board?

How in the world do you think I twisted your words?

That's totally ridiculous.

Is there anything I could possibly say at this point that would give you satisfaction?

Oh no hell no lol, not at all I understand all that I don't understand why some people are so tied up in trying to prove their point, esp. on a site that is about sex and the title of the thread and which definition is proper, who gives a shit as long as the person who named is good with the name of the thread, or what she is refered to as, her choice and that is that.

Apparently because it's a discussion board. What some people call nitpicking, other people call discussing.

 

[zipman]

Is there anything I could possibly say at this point that would give you satisfaction?

Apparently because it's a discussion board. What some people call nitpicking, other people call discussing.

Yes, there is.

Just tell me how I twisted your words you poor persecuted woman. Then I'll leave without another word.

 

[bronco_2006]

Is there anything I could possibly say at this point that would give you satisfaction?



Apparently because it's a discussion board. What some people call nitpicking, other people call discussing.

hahaha yes I'm all for a good discussion however there are times when it just comes down to I have my opinion and you have yours and though they are not the same doesn't make either wrong, just different so lets move on and talk about other stuff, IDK sheez!

 

[redheadedtxn]

Yes, there is.

Just tell me how I twisted your words you poor persecuted woman. Then I'll leave without another word.

I don't like to fuss. You didn't twist my words. Your're right, I'm wrong.

hahaha yes I'm all for a good discussion however there are times when it just comes down to I have my opinion and you have yours and though they are not the same doesn't make either wrong, just different so lets move on and talk about other stuff, IDK sheez!

LOL Every time I come to Lit I find someone else who just likes to fuss. I suppose I should like, really evaluate and be overly cautious about every god damn word I post on here because The Attackers And Point Makers Just Love Material. But I won't. Cause I'm not going to change anyone. Not my job to, anyway.

 

[dirtygentleman]

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