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AngelicaPink said:
Thinking that there is someone so much sexier, prettier, much better at work etc. is, unfortunately, part of being a woman. It is a part of almost all of us.

It is what keeps some of us always innovating and keeping things fresh in relationships. It is most of what makes us try to win our man's heart everyday (at least until we marry lol)

Many of us (most of us, in my experience) are raised to think that we could do better, be better and, yes, find a better guy to deposit our hopes on.

Is it good? No. Will guys ever understand that? No, because you're different and were raised different. Does being aware of all this make any difference? Nah, not really.
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Yes ... Well said! :rose:
 
The power in learning about ones self is amazing and wonderful...........when one recognizes their own beauty and grace.........truly feels the sensual being they are.......no refection of size or body type........only to be freed though the simple gift of self love.....worthy of all of us.......then you will see that you are unique and precious....:heart:
 
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AngelicaPink said:
Thinking that there is someone so much sexier, prettier, much better at work etc. is, unfortunately, part of being a woman. It is a part of almost all of us.
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I think this affects all of us, whether we acknowledge it or not. Some of us you might not be able to tell from our online personalities, but it's probably them who it affects the most.

We are the women who are horribly shy, constantly feel inadequate, think that our men could do better, never put ourselves first, etc... The ways we've been raised and the people around us are always affecting us, whether we try to change or not -- there's always going to be that stupid, high pitched voice in the back of my head, "Should you really eat that, fatty?" "That guy? He's way too good for you, because you're not pretty enough!"

It's a horrible feeling to have, but I'm sure that I speak for more women in this thread than just myself (Maybe not, though!) that it is something we normally carry and deal with.
 
I guess the reality of the situation though is that guys aren't that much different when you get down to brass tacks. We also worry about whether we meet expectations and if others think there are better fish in the pond.

You hit the best point of all though. Does it make any difference? In the end, probably not. The best we can be is ourselves, and hope that people like and love us for who we are.

Then again... lol. :)

AngelicaPink said:
Thinking that there is someone so much sexier, prettier, much better at work etc. is, unfortunately, part of being a woman. It is a part of almost all of us.

It is what keeps some of us always innovating and keeping things fresh in relationships. It is most of what makes us try to win our man's heart everyday (at least until we marry lol)

Many of us (most of us, in my experience) are raised to think that we could do better, be better and, yes, find a better guy to deposit our hopes on.

Is it good? No. Will guys ever understand that? No, because you're different and were raised different. Does being aware of all this make any difference? Nah, not really.
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CollarMeRedhead said:
I think this affects all of us, whether we acknowledge it or not. Some of us you might not be able to tell from our online personalities, but it's probably them who it affects the most.

We are the women who are horribly shy, constantly feel inadequate, think that our men could do better, never put ourselves first, etc... The ways we've been raised and the people around us are always affecting us, whether we try to change or not -- there's always going to be that stupid, high pitched voice in the back of my head, "Should you really eat that, fatty?" "That guy? He's way too good for you, because you're not pretty enough!"

It's a horrible feeling to have, but I'm sure that I speak for more women in this thread than just myself (Maybe not, though!) that it is something we normally carry and deal with.
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Thank you CollarMeRedhead........your words are perfect........honest and brave. So many of us are wrapped up in the "perfect"..........defined by media......

I have always been attracted to the "chubby chicks"........I have always preferred their personality, their heart..........and yes their voluptuous bodies....but mostly it was the genuine nature of who they are.......and always the love they had and how they shared it..........I recognize who I am........and those choices for me are perfect.......
 
CollarMeRedhead said:
I think this affects all of us, whether we acknowledge it or not. Some of us you might not be able to tell from our online personalities, but it's probably them who it affects the most.

We are the women who are horribly shy, constantly feel inadequate, think that our men could do better, never put ourselves first, etc... The ways we've been raised and the people around us are always affecting us, whether we try to change or not -- there's always going to be that stupid, high pitched voice in the back of my head, "Should you really eat that, fatty?" "That guy? He's way too good for you, because you're not pretty enough!"

It's a horrible feeling to have, but I'm sure that I speak for more women in this thread than just myself (Maybe not, though!) that it is something we normally carry and deal with.
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Hell, I was raised to think that a woman putting herself first was the most selfish thing she could do and that selfish women always end up alone in the end (and even a child understands that ending up alone for the rest of your life is not so good).

I mean, haven't you all been raised to believe being selfish is bad?

And, yes, we are all a different person and we make up a persona when we're online. Even if only a little bit.
 
I have the fortunate privilege of growing up in an Eastern European family mentality, where the size of the woman was never important, but the size of her soul was what we cared about. It would be wrong for the Szuba-Mackowiak-Szczepanek (SHOE-ba, MATCH-coe-vee-ack, SHTEH-panic) women to say, "Roger you CAN'T date her, she's FAT!" when they were in shape, in a ROUND shape themselves.

Over the last 40 years, the media has peppered young women with images of what THEY believe is the perfect form a woman should be. Look at the pictures of women from the 40s, 50s, and early 60s, she their shapes and sizes. It was then that if a woman didn't have well defined curves, she was not considered feminine or wanted by men. But, as the 60s drew to a close and Twiggy became a fashion sensation, media dictated that EVERY woman should begin to look like.

No hips, no breasts, under 100 lbs, statuesque heights of 5' 10" and above were what fashion designers demaned to model their clothes. It was in ALL the celebri-trash and fashion magazines from then on: How to lose that extra 20 lbs by next week, etc.
 
RjThoughts said:
I have the fortunate privilege of growing up in an Eastern European family mentality, where the size of the woman was never important, but the size of her soul was what we cared about. It would be wrong for the Szuba-Mackowiak-Szczepanek (SHOE-ba, MATCH-coe-vee-ack, SHTEH-panic) women to say, "Roger you CAN'T date her, she's FAT!" when they were in shape, in a ROUND shape themselves.

Over the last 40 years, the media has peppered young women with images of what THEY believe is the perfect form a woman should be. Look at the pictures of women from the 40s, 50s, and early 60s, she their shapes and sizes. It was then that if a woman didn't have well defined curves, she was not considered feminine or wanted by men. But, as the 60s drew to a close and Twiggy became a fashion sensation, media dictated that EVERY woman should begin to look like.

No hips, no breasts, under 100 lbs, statuesque heights of 5' 10" and above were what fashion designers demaned to model their clothes. It was in ALL the celebri-trash and fashion magazines from then on: How to lose that extra 20 lbs by next week, etc.
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Firstly, in the 1910's through the 1920's the boyish looks (flat chest, tall, skinny) was in in Europe. But, then again, we had a War that left most people with nothing to eat. But, moving on from my fashion-history geekiness which you just had the (mis)fortune to endure, you are right. The media puts pressure on everyone. I'm guilty of that too! I worked in the fashion industry and I wrote a lot of this one type of female body. When I thought I should make an editor's pick of plus size bathing suits for a change I was ignored time and time again until I stood up in the middle of a meeting and left because people wouldn't even hear me out.

I was actually stopped on the street once by a lady who told me I needed to stop putting on weight. She was born (I'm guessing) in the 30's so she was an adult when Twiggy came along and shouldn't have been influenced that much lol
 
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AngelicaPink said:
Firstly, in the 1910's through the 1920's the boyish looks (flat chest, tall, skinny) was in in Europe. But, then again, we had a War that left most people with nothing to eat. But, moving on from my fashion-history geekiness which you just had the (mis)fortune to endure, you are right. The media puts pressure on everyone. I'm guilty of that too! I worked in the fashion industry and I wrote a lot of this one type of female body. When I thought I should make an editor's pick of plus size bathing suits for a change I was ignored time and time again until I stood up in the middle of a meeting and left because people wouldn't even hear me out.

I was actually stopped on the street once by a lady who told me I needed to stop putting on weight. She was born (I'm guessing) in the 30's so she was an adult when Twiggy came along and shouldn't have been influenced that much lol
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I have seen older women stop younger ones in malls and try to chastise them on their appearances, telling them they are TOO fat, telling them that they won't attract men being so fat.

I just shake my head and move on. Sometimes, people are DUMB.
 
And BINGO! Exactly where I expected the conversation to go!

Look at what people lose out on when they base all their opinions on the package and not the gift.

Sometimes people are dumb! Going to be my new bumper sticker! Thanks RJ! :D

RjThoughts said:
I just shake my head and move on. Sometimes, people are DUMB.
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I'm in agreement Pink. I'm speechless and now I have to go to the "Are you masturbating now" thread. ;)
 
i'm not saying this with those stupid "it's because they like to eat" comments in my mind, but BBWs do give the best blowjobs. i don't know what it is. i've been given some great ones. and just watching videos you can tell they are doing it right.
 
Older_BBW_Lover said:
i'm not saying this with those stupid "it's because they like to eat" comments in my mind, but BBWs do give the best blowjobs. i don't know what it is. i've been given some great ones. and just watching videos you can tell they are doing it right.
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we're eager to please.
 
klippert said:
I did a little sneak in for my thread, BBW 2.0, I thought this thread went Freud....:D
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Psst Freud was a fucked up little wanker;)

Yay a new klippert avatar to figure out (that looks like the corner of a garage door...)
 
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