bbw & cunnilingus

[myorangelily]

I'm a big gal with a tummy (I wear a size 26 jeans & 26 or 28 top). Hubby is also big with an equal sized tummy. I want more oral sex & he is full of excuses. His latest excuse is that he can't get to my clit because of my stomach. I say his head is too big! Poor guy...his tongue gets tired. Of course he enjoys his BJs.

I've considered getting a wedge shaped pillow to elevate myself...wondering if anyone has used or tried this? Did it help? I think he is not really into giving oral (maybe the taste...I'm not really sure as he won't say). I do shower before I ask for it.

Any other suggestions or ideas? Thanks.

 

[jmarx20102012]

HAs he tried eating you out while you are on hands and knees? Always did the trick for me regardless of the gals size. Personally its my favorite position to munch.

 

[Sassymama]

I'm a big gal with a tummy (I wear a size 26 jeans & 26 or 28 top). Hubby is also big with an equal sized tummy. I want more oral sex & he is full of excuses. His latest excuse is that he can't get to my clit because of my stomach. I say his head is too big! Personally I think he is not interested & a bit lazy. Poor guy...his tongue gets tired. Of course he enjoys his BJs.

I've considered getting a wedge shaped pillow to elevate myself...wondering if anyone has used or tried this? Did it help? I think he is not really into giving oral (maybe the taste...I'm not really sure as he won't say). I do shower before I ask for it.

Any other suggestions or ideas? Thanks.

Is this something as far as his making excuses, or has he always made excuses?

 

[sethp]

Some guys just don't like to do it. a Pic would help! LOL but otherwise...It's just an excuse. I'd be happy to help you out! mmmmm

 

[myorangelily]

Is this something as far as his making excuses, or has he always made excuses?

He's never been into it a lot but I can't get an answer as to why. If its a smell or taste thing then I can get over it. I'm not ready to give up yet. Guess we'll be having another chat this week.

 

[Sassymama]

He's never been into it a lot but I can't get an answer as to why. If its a smell or taste thing then I can get over it. I'm not ready to give up yet. Guess we'll be having another chat this week.

There is an easy way to rule out the smell or taste, by simply tasting yourself. You will know by the taste and the texture. Of course, every woman tastes different and men's taste preference differs from man to man, but you will get a general idea if you taste good or not.

Have you always been a plus size woman, even when dating him? Sometimes if a woman puts on weight after the marriage/children a man can loose interest because of it, this is why I ask. If you've been the same weight since you were dating, and he would go down on you then, then it can't be a weight issue.

If he was never really into it from the beginning, then he probably won't be into now and you can't expect him to magically change. There are some men who just don't like it, just as there are some women who don't give head.

 

[dohbuoy]

My ex is of a similar size, and I am a fat dude myself. A pillow or 2 to raise you up to better angle does help, but really wasn't too difficult to find a comfortable position. I often did have trouble wiht a tiring tongue, but since I enjoy giving more than receiving oral, it became less tiring after much practice

 

[NiceLady39]

guys, if your tongue is tired, start to suck the clit gently into your mouth using your lips. trade off. flicking the clit and then sucking it....

also if you want her to cum faster while licking/sucking, get a nice dildo (about the size of your cock)and fuck her with it while you lick.

of course...once a wet finger is inserted in my bottom, i cum almost instantly

 

[ChinaBandit]

guys, if your tongue is tired, start to suck the clit gently into your mouth using your lips. trade off. flicking the clit and then sucking it....

also if you want her to cum faster while licking/sucking, get a nice dildo (about the size of your cock)and fuck her with it while you lick.

of course...once a wet finger is inserted in my bottom, i cum almost instantly

Please tell us more. The above was great!

 

[TexasWife25]

I'm a big gal with a tummy (I wear a size 26 jeans & 26 or 28 top). Hubby is also big with an equal sized tummy. I want more oral sex & he is full of excuses. His latest excuse is that he can't get to my clit because of my stomach. I say his head is too big! Personally I think he is not interested & a bit lazy. Poor guy...his tongue gets tired. Of course he enjoys his BJs.

I've considered getting a wedge shaped pillow to elevate myself...wondering if anyone has used or tried this? Did it help? I think he is not really into giving oral (maybe the taste...I'm not really sure as he won't say). I do shower before I ask for it.

Any other suggestions or ideas? Thanks.

My hubby doesnt like it either
Im a big girl too (btw)
He is just not a fan of "bodily fluids"
lol
Nothing to do with taste or smell, he just
isnt a fan

Im afriad I have abandoned all hope
oh well, oral just is not in my future

 

[dohbuoy]

guys, if your tongue is tired, start to suck the clit gently into your mouth using your lips. trade off. flicking the clit and then sucking it....

Yes, I didn't specify how it became less tiring, but mixing it up was the key there.

also if you want her to cum faster while licking/sucking, get a nice dildo (about the size of your cock)and fuck her with it while you lick.

Good advice!

of course...once a wet finger is inserted in my bottom, i cum almost instantly

lol

 

[Cyalith]

I'm a big gal with a tummy (I wear a size 26 jeans & 26 or 28 top). Hubby is also big with an equal sized tummy. I want more oral sex & he is full of excuses. His latest excuse is that he can't get to my clit because of my stomach. I say his head is too big! Personally I think he is not interested & a bit lazy. Poor guy...his tongue gets tired. Of course he enjoys his BJs.

I've considered getting a wedge shaped pillow to elevate myself...wondering if anyone has used or tried this? Did it help? I think he is not really into giving oral (maybe the taste...I'm not really sure as he won't say). I do shower before I ask for it.

Any other suggestions or ideas? Thanks.

I'm pretty much the same size as you, and I have a low hanging belly and big thighs. My boyfriend is also a big guy, with a HUGE melon. Generally we don't have a major issue with him going down on me. Though sometimes to make things easier he will kneel on the floor while I'm on the bed. That also keeps his hands free to uhh.... arrange things more conveniently? Pillows help too but experimenting is really the best way we've found to figure out what works.

 

[heilosmithras]

honestly a woman's size has never stopped me from enjoying giving her oral. If it's something you enjoy you make it not just work, but work well.

some guys don't like it, I think they're idiots

 

[pplwatching]

I've considered getting a wedge shaped pillow to elevate myself...wondering if anyone has used or tried this? Did it help?

If "access" is a genuine problem and not just an excuse, then a wedge is ideal. I bought a "Liberator Wedge". I truly adore eating my wife, almost to the point of it being a fetish for me. Laying back on the wedge with her pelvis raised really exposes her in a way that I just love. The position opens her so beautifully, and gives me much more intimate access . *fans self*

A bit pricey, but absolutely worth it IMHO. It works much better than a bed pillow, because it doesn't crush under her like a regular pillow does. We tried firmer "regular" pillows first, but the ramp of the wedge is easy on her back.

An added bonus is much deeper penetration during intercourse. Worth every penny to me.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

Alright, there are a few facts to consider:

One, some guys just aren't into eating pussy. It doesn't matter if the woman is thin, heavy, old, young, hairy, shaved--whatever. She could be fresh as a daisy and taste like strawberries dipped in sugar, but they find the act disgusting and won't do it. They're just not into it.

Two, eating pussy takes patience and dedication. In most cases, two licks isn't going to get the job done. Five minutes may get her to the point where it starts to feel good and she's ready for more, but to do it right takes as long as it takes. It varies from woman to woman, and even from day to day with the same woman. If he can't keep his mind focused for more than 15 minutes, it isn't going to get done.

Three, every woman is different, and access to her juicy parts isn't always easy. A fluffy belly can get in the way. But that doesn't mean it's impossible to please her. What I have found works best is when the woman grabs onto the headboard and lowers her pussy onto my face. In this squatting position, everything opens up. The downside is that most women can only hold this position for so long before their knees start to ache. If she then kneels astride my head she can usually hold that position long enough to get her joy. The key is that she has to make sure the guy can breathe.

Ladies, you can help also even when you prefer to lay back and enjoy. My wife spreads her legs nice and wide and then uses her hands to open things up. No excuse for failing to find the clit when it's sitting right there all exposed.

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[stude_cruiser19]

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[PhilGarlic]

oral

I'm sure if a guy wants to give some oral he will find a way, and if he don't will find an excuse.
As for tiring tongues, yeah mine starts to give out after 20 mins or so, maybe I need to exercise it more!!

 

[deepstar7]

I have always found a way to get to the good stuff on any size lady. but then I thoroughly enjoy licking some hot wet pussy and ass.

 

[CollarMeRedhead]

My hubby doesnt like it either
Im a big girl too (btw)
He is just not a fan of "bodily fluids"
lol
Nothing to do with taste or smell, he just
isnt a fan

Im afriad I have abandoned all hope
oh well, oral just is not in my future

If you're in the area, oral could definitely be in your future!

 

[subme01]

I'm a larger woman and I've never had a problem with a guy going down on me. I think it's an excuse, in which case he should be honest with you and say so.

Anyway, you say he's a large guy too, so if he can't get to your clit, then you certainly can't get to his cock...

 

[SWFL_Wordslinger]

I'm a big gal with a tummy (I wear a size 26 jeans & 26 or 28 top). Hubby is also big with an equal sized tummy. I want more oral sex & he is full of excuses. His latest excuse is that he can't get to my clit because of my stomach. I say his head is too big! Personally I think he is not interested & a bit lazy. Poor guy...his tongue gets tired. Of course he enjoys his BJs.

I've considered getting a wedge shaped pillow to elevate myself...wondering if anyone has used or tried this? Did it help? I think he is not really into giving oral (maybe the taste...I'm not really sure as he won't say). I do shower before I ask for it.

Any other suggestions or ideas? Thanks.

Sounds like he's just making excuses because he doesn't want to do it. My wife wears a 24, and I've got a good beer keg going on too, and have no problem getting to her clit, or anywhere for that matter, whether she is on her back, hands and knees or in 69. Yeah, on her back access is a little more difficult, bu mostly because her pussy isn't spread like it would be on her hands and knees.

Try a pillow under your ass/lower back, or on your hands and knees, or even try sitting on the edge of the couch (or bed) with your legs spread and your ass mostly hanging off. That gives plenty of easy access for the tongue.

And on that note....now I'm hungry

 

[BBW_T&A_Lover]

excuse excuse excuse and a bad one at that. if you lay on your back, he should have easy access to that sweet sweet poon.

 

[stevestrock]

eating pussy

Try 69 with him. As he gets excited by getting his cock sucked he may start to lick, especially if you get on top he really has no choice.

 

[amofiga]

I'm a big gal with a tummy (I wear a size 26 jeans & 26 or 28 top). Hubby is also big with an equal sized tummy. I want more oral sex & he is full of excuses. His latest excuse is that he can't get to my clit because of my stomach. I say his head is too big! Personally I think he is not interested & a bit lazy. Poor guy...his tongue gets tired. Of course he enjoys his BJs.

I've considered getting a wedge shaped pillow to elevate myself...wondering if anyone has used or tried this? Did it help? I think he is not really into giving oral (maybe the taste...I'm not really sure as he won't say). I do shower before I ask for it.

Any other suggestions or ideas? Thanks.

I don't know what advice to give. Some guys maybe just aren't as into it as others, i.e. me. It's something I've enjoyed with women I've been with and I can pretty much remember something about the scent and taste of all of them. One was like whipping cream, one was largely tobacco, another was quite sweet, one was virtually tasteless. The others range all over the place including the classic "seafood" but not unpleasant at all. There were some that were rather "strong" but I've personally never had a problem.

Assuming that you do bathe effectively, I can't believe that your husband would have a problem unless he's overly sensitive. As someone said, you might want to test yourself, but if you're still worried you could check with your GYN. If you had some sort of infection, it could be a problem, but then there would probably be other symptoms as well.

As for "tired tongue", tell him it's not all about the tongue. He has lips for nibbling and can use his whole head, face, and fingers as well. I like using both tongue and fingers together. He doesn't have to rely on "tongue muscles" alone.

Good luck.

 

[StrayKat]

I'm a big gal with a tummy (I wear a size 26 jeans & 26 or 28 top). Hubby is also big with an equal sized tummy. I want more oral sex & he is full of excuses. His latest excuse is that he can't get to my clit because of my stomach. I say his head is too big! Personally I think he is not interested & a bit lazy. Poor guy...his tongue gets tired. Of course he enjoys his BJs.

I've considered getting a wedge shaped pillow to elevate myself...wondering if anyone has used or tried this? Did it help? I think he is not really into giving oral (maybe the taste...I'm not really sure as he won't say). I do shower before I ask for it.

Any other suggestions or ideas? Thanks.

Of course its just excuse. If he wanted to do it he would certainly find a way no matter how big you might be.

I personally would get angry. Not because of the oral sex but because of the lame excuse making me self conscious about my body. And when I am angry at someone I cant have sex with them. So in my case he would not get his BJs anymore, or anything else.
But I would never say its his stomach