They're not only ignorant, they're stupid too

nakdsub

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For as long as I have been submitting stories here I have said over and over again, in the comment section of each story, I will delete comments that attack me personally, yet they continue.

I just deleted a personal attack that had to take 5 minutes to write. I saw it as soon as it hit so it wasn't up as long as it took to write.

At some point you'd think the trolls would catch on wouldn't you?
 
Deleting is the easiest method for dealing with negative comments

I do not take attacks on me or negative comments personally. Sometimes, if the comment is negative but constructive, I will choose to respond to it by presenting my perspective. However in most cases all I do is delete the comment and forget about it.
 
Set up your comments board so that anonymous types can't contribute. That'll cut down on a lot of trolls.
 
I have a different approach. I know many don't agree with this, but it has worked for me.

I leave the comments right where they are.

Why do trolls do this? To get to you. By deleting it they have gotten to you. They will now keep going.

If you leave it there, you show you don't care. Not only that, but what is fun is when other posters call them out and defend you.

This is just my take, but I have yet to be trolled repeatedly and I think it is because they know I do not care.

Also as a reader, when I see someone who has 40 comments and everyone of them is glowing I know they delete negative remarks and it annoys me. Makes me think "heaven forbid someone not love my free story"

In about 18 months of posting I have only removed 2 comments. One because it was a blatant advertisement for another authors series (probably by the author himself) and one that accused Literotica of being racist because they let me use the word "Nigger" I got rid of that out of respect for the people who run the site.

All in all it is apparent deleting them is not working for you. Try it my way, what do you have to lose?
 
I don't care about negative comments

I leave most of them up, it's just when they attack me personally or another person who has commented, that I delete them.
 
Feel free to delete them for any reason you wish--and you don't have a responsibiity to justify yourself to anyone.
 
As the most prolific writer on the site, ergo the most bashed writer, many of my most negative comments stopped immediately when I told my mother to stop reading my stories.

"Ma! How could you leave such awful comments on all my stories?"

"Your stories suck."

"Then, stop reading my stories," I said. "If you must read dirty stories, I mean, erotic literature, go read the stories from another writer."

"Okay," she said.

My apologies to you. I didn't know my mother was reading your stories.
 
Feel free to delete them for any reason you wish--and you don't have a responsibiity to justify yourself to anyone.

Read the post. They have been deleting them and they keep coming back. It wouldn't hurt to see what happens if you leave it be.

On another note. I think the OP mentioning time and again he will delete the comments in all his authors notes are spurring them on.
 
Feel free to delete them for any reason you wish--and you don't have a responsibiity to justify yourself to anyone.

The discussion is about the best approach to adverse or personal comments - not a totalitarian sino-communist repression of free speech.

If you have nothing helful to add, why not keep quiet?
 
The discussion is about the best approach to adverse or personal comments - not a totalitarian sino-communist repression of free speech.

If you have nothing helful to add, why not keep quiet?

You're right, I have nothing "helful" to add.

Wouldn't telling me to shut up be a "totalitarian sino-communist repression of free speech"? :D

I'm so confused on what you're trying to get across in your post. :eek:
 
Seriously, Lloyd, your stupid and ironic stepping on your own stated principle aside, where have you been the 350 times it's been pointed out on the forum that this website is a private business? Freedom of speech doesn't come into play here as a right. Beyond that, one's privilege to speak (or post, here) does not supersede another's privilege not to listen (or read, here). The website has given the privilege to erase here, not the privilege to write comments on stories in the story file with indelible ink. Work on figuring that one out, hot shot.

Methinks you need to set that thinking cap of yours on a little more snugly.
 
Isn't it ironic...

That a post about personal attacks winds up being a thread filled with personal attacks.
 
Seriously, Lloyd, your stupid and ironic stepping on your own stated principle aside, where have you been the 350 times it's been pointed out on the forum that this website is a private business? Freedom of speech doesn't come into play here as a right. Beyond that, one's privilege to speak (or post, here) does not supersede another's privilege not to listen (or read, here). The website has given the privilege to erase here, not the privilege to write comments on stories in the story file with indelible ink. Work on figuring that one out, hot shot.

Methinks you need to set that thinking cap of yours on a little more snugly.

My first comment may have been intemperate because I felt you spoilt the thread with an irrelevant and unhelpful remark.

You conflate ownership with policy to seriously misrepresent the clearly stated principles and rules of the owners. Not only are several threads unmodified, attempts to limit freedoms on the AH have been resisted and Scouries has been backed to post his junior high idiocies on SF.

Going through the threads, commenting in green indelible ink in capitals is more than allowed by the owners. The legal restrictions are pretty light as well.

Free speech is promulgated to the extent that the Celebs cat and near-the-knuckle incest are allowed. In fact, the site has sometimes gone public to support its belief in 'free speech'. Of course, the 'fire,fire' in the theater arguments still hold good.

As I understood, the thread was a philosophical discussion on how to react to ad hominem attacks. For a writer and self-moderator this is quite a heavy responsibility and I felt you were trying to score a cheap point by your insouciant remark.

In giving the right to erase, the site has implicitly suggested a writer follows 'corporate' guidelines by saying that the author should 'self-moderate'. They don't say 'self-censor'.

That was my point.
 
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The OP is clearly an explanation of what that author will delete. I think my post was directly on point. You just wanted to backbite--and to choke off my posting here, which makes your point laughable.
 
For as long as I have been submitting stories here I have said over and over again, in the comment section of each story, I will delete comments that attack me personally, yet they continue.

I just deleted a personal attack that had to take 5 minutes to write. I saw it as soon as it hit so it wasn't up as long as it took to write.

At some point you'd think the trolls would catch on wouldn't you?

sr, as always, when you are caught out on an idiocy you love to scream 'foul ball' as you aren't up to addressing the issue.

nakdsub hasn't defined what 'personal attacks' are. sr, unless you know what the point is, you can't possibly proclaim you have the slightest idea what you are talking about. You took an inchoate remark and pretended you understood. Shame on you.

There is a serious issue here and you are just the beer-swiller on the bleachers, destroying-as normal-an interesting thread.
 
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Leave them.

Leave the negative comments. I just recieved my first, and it's staying. It shows itself for what it is.

They can be constructive, if constructed well, reguardless of the attacks. Not to mention, the extremely harsh anonymous ones are there because the person fears retribution. Small minds, with small wills, pretending to be tough.

The same goes for overly hateful and baseless comments from users. It's no big deal. Surely your intention is not to please everyone, and some people are never pleased.

Besides, personal attacks cannot hurt you if they aren't true, 'sticks and stones' and all of that. Just laugh at the unbridled anger they must fight. It's depricating to themselves, whether they know it or not.
 
sr, as always, when you are caught out on an idiocy you love to scream 'foul ball' as you aren't up to addressing the issue.

nakdsub hasn't defined what 'personal attacks' are. sr, unless you know what the point is, you can't possibly proclaim you have the slightest idea what you are talking about. You took an inchoate remark and pretended you understood. Shame on you.

There is a serious issue here and you are just the beer-swiller on the bleachers, destroying-as normal-an interesting thread.

The OP is about deleting comments. That's what my post was about too. You are the one reading something else into it--but only as an attempt to cover up that you told me to shut up in support of free speech (can we all stop giggling about that now? :D)

Your posts are about attacking me. Nearly half of all of your posts are out-of-the-blue attacks on me (most of the other half are similar postings to Scouries). And if you can find one post on this forum where I have dropped in on your head out of the blue, cite it. You can't.

I don't remember ever seeing a positive response to a discussion by you on this forum. Just sneery attacks on someone. You certainly haven't contributed to even what you say the discussion is about in this thread. You've just attacked me.

Well, screw you, I'll post what I want to whatever thread I want--to the extent that the web owners give me that privilege. And I'll just laugh at you the next time you tell me to shut up because you support free speech.
 
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Leave the negative comments. I just recieved my first, and it's staying. It shows itself for what it is.

They can be constructive, if constructed well, reguardless of the attacks. Not to mention, the extremely harsh anonymous ones are there because the person fears retribution. Small minds, with small wills, pretending to be tough.

The same goes for overly hateful and baseless comments from users. It's no big deal. Surely your intention is not to please everyone, and some people are never pleased.

Besides, personal attacks cannot hurt you if they aren't true, 'sticks and stones' and all of that. Just laugh at the unbridled anger they must fight. It's depricating to themselves, whether they know it or not.

Thank you, it's about time some one else stepped in and said to not let them own you. Deleting the comments shows they have gotten to you pure and simple.
 
So much for your advice on just letting personal attacks stand and the troll will go away, Lovecraft. :D It certainly doesn't work with my personal troll named Lovecraft.
 
So much for your advice on just letting personal attacks stand and the troll will go away, Lovecraft. :D It certainly doesn't work with my personal troll named Lovecraft.

Because I am far more dedicated than the average troll my dear! I am the most tenacious person you will ever meet.

By the way speaking of you posting what you want where you want, it's quite tasteless to comment on your own stories.

Seriously, folks

This is a magnificent piece of work. What a ride to tie in a Japanese art form of bondage with art galleries and the Occupy Wall Street movement (giving an alternative, probably more-effective option for the latter) and to be able to get away with including gay male, lesbian, loving wives, inspirational art, and Christmas all in one well-delivered story--which this surely does.


Please Pilot, try not to be so obvious.
 
Got that envy thing eating at you again, dontcha, Swiftboater. ;)

Some really nice other comments on that story too. I'm happy that you're so obsesessed with me that you are following my stories too.

Sorry that I haven't written any to serve your other obsession here--fucking and torturing your sister.
 
Got that envy thing eating at you again, dontcha, Swiftboater. ;)

Some really nice other comments on that story too. I'm happy that you're so obsesessed with me that you are following my stories too.

Sorry that I haven't written any to serve your other obsession here--fucking and torturing your sister.

I don't read your work, don't do GM, I do find myself enjoying reading comments however, on a lot of people's stories.

I get some very nice ones as well. Not that you would know as you're way to wrapped up in your own world to ever look at other people's stuff.

Speaking of comments, that leads me to something, involving Your friend Dark (who was the one who got me obsessed with comments when he mentioned he likes haunting the feedback portal)

I find it deliciously hypocritical that you blasted Estragon for his "Disappointments" thread. Citing he has no right to publicly critique others work. From what I gather he critiqued you in a comment and you got ticked at him.

I notice you have no issue with Dark, who is equally unqualified to critique people's work, doing his holiday review thread. Could that be because he (I am so shocked!) gave you a favorable review?

Why of course it is! You are so pathetic Pilot.

AS for my Brother fucking his sister story, go check the comments, especially in the last two chapters of the finale. I guarantee you that they are like nothing you have ever seen before in an incest series.

A depth and scope that you couldn't dream of with your short attention span 4K yawners.

My last story (20k written in 2 days) picked up 900 votes, how many stories do you need to pick up that total? a dozen?

No matter, birdies are singing, and I am getting oh so closer to proving what most of us already no, you are a fraud.
 
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