Loving and strict Daddy/Dom/Master seeks lifetime love and devotion

ArizonaDaddy

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Loving and Strict Daddy/Dom/Master Seeks Lifetime Love and Devotion

What am I looking for?

I can sum that up with three words: Devotion, Willingness, and Service. These are the prime qualities I seek in a girl; if she does not at least desire to cultivate these 3 traits, the rest is useless.

she must also be an intelligent, kind-hearted, self-aware, creative, obedient, attractive, classy, open-minded, expressive, and explorative soul. she must take good care of herself, seek personal expansion, and be interested in embarking on a journey of self-discovery.

Who am I?

I am a kind-hearted, self-aware, loving, and strict Daddy/Dom. I am also intelligent, artistic, open-minded, communicative, honest, trustworthy, knowledgeable, outgoing, and friendly.

I enjoy traveling, fine dining, anything outdoors, hiking, sight seeing and people watching, music and the arts, writing and reading, yoga, meditation, philosophy, spirituality, and exploring life in general.

I also love to learn, share, and connect with like-minded souls.

I am 36, Caucasian, 5’8”, 160#, long brown hair, brown eyes, very well endowed, and take good care of myself. I am a professional musician and live in Phoenix.

I have been in the lifestyle since I was a teenager. For the last 15 years, I have been married to the most amazing Woman I've ever met. I fall deeper in love with her every day. She is a Domme who has already found her slaveboy; however, I have not found my girl and I am still seeking her.

My girl would be owned by Me, but she would also be accepted and appreciated by My Wife as well. Not surprisingly, if a girl has a strong connection with Me, she will also connect with My Wife; My girl will also be considered part of Our family.

My D/s philosophy

I am only interested in a long term realtime relationship with a girl of striking beauty (in body, mind and soul). she will always be loved yet sternly disciplined when needed; she will be cherished yet used for My pleasure; she will be pushed but never harmed; and she will find tremendous freedom through the structure I give.

I believe that through the co-mingling of opposites, we can experience expanded states of consciousness. Pleasure through pain, strength of character through humility, and liberty through restrictions are all part of the fascinating realm of the mind.

Important details about Me

I am high maintenance and have many needs (not just sexually). I am very demanding and I want what I want, how I want it, when I want. she will be very well taken care of for her service to Me.

I seek ONE slave to be My #1... there may be other submissive girls around, but I desire ONE girl for a lifetime commitment. she would lack no need and she would travel with Me and have much fun. she has to understand that My business puts Me around celebrities and she MUST behave in the way I train her to behave in public.

she can be long distance at the moment but she must be willing to relocate and to travel. she will be trained to attend to all My needs and desires as well as how to behave in professional and family situations.

To clarify, yes, she will be My slave; but she WILL be loved, cherished, and very well taken care of. The outside world will see her as My wonderfully attentive and devoted personal assistant, but behind closed doors and in the company of those who know My personal side intimately, she will be My girl. she must be stimulated by the challenges i present to her; she must face them head-on with confidence and determination. a weak slave will never be accepted by Me.

If you feel that you may be who and what I seek, please feel free to contact Me. I invite you to ask questions, add comments, or simply say hi.

~May all your darkness be filled with Light~

A New Style of Personal Ad: An Exposition
 
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If I could up and go on tour with you I would totally apply for the postion. But I have a daughter who won't travel well under what I know to be your circumstances:(

Wish you luck in finding the lucky girl.
 
If every man was just like you, Sir.. I believe the women of this world would be well off. Sir, I may be humble and shy, but Your message has touched me. If You would be available to chat, I would like the chance. I am 25, white female, brown hair, blue eyes. I am currently in a marriage that is probably better off not being one. I am available anytime. Thank you for even taking the time to read this.

Shannara
 
Interesting...

I bet you get a lot of messages. I did an edit on my post because I thought it was a little much to say here. I find your quest interesting. Offering so much in return for complete devotion service and willingness. I find your relationship with your wife to be fascinating. Obviously (to me anyway) its unique, true and solid.
 
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Very interesting post - and very honest! That always deserves recognition in my opinion! So often people post unclear desires or wants (hell even I do) and it takes a while to figure out what the real essens is.

Yours is very clear and I hope you find what you look for (I am not it, though a small part of me finds it intriguing, but hey, I've got a life already, oh, and there is your whole requirement of beauty:) )

Good luck!
//A
 
Beauty is in the eye of the Beholder ;)

Thanks!

Your welcome - let me know if you need help going through applications - I have time on my hand and I am actually very curious as to how this search goes :)
 
What a great personal ad. Quite well written, full of disclosure accompanied by very detailed information on what you are seeking.

Having been a personal assistant to an entrepreneur with a diversified pro-folio of businesses I know the amount of effort it takes to keep a busy man organized and stress free. Though my job did not entail being intimate with my boss as he had way too many other women fawning about him and it was NOT in my job description when hired ~smirk~.

Wondering how long it will take for you to find your One Sir?
 
What a great personal ad. Quite well written, full of disclosure accompanied by very detailed information on what you are seeking.

Having been a personal assistant to an entrepreneur with a diversified pro-folio of businesses I know the amount of effort it takes to keep a busy man organized and stress free. Though my job did not entail being intimate with my boss as he had way too many other women fawning about him and it was NOT in my job description when hired ~smirk~.

Wondering how long it will take for you to find your One Sir?

Thank you. Yes, I tried to be clear and forthcoming.

If your boss knew you better, perhaps he would have put 'naughty assistant' in the job description! hehe

Wondering how long it will take? I'm wondering the same thing! ;)
 
Unfortunately I don't qualify, but excellent and well written post Sir. Hoping you find the one soon and give her the life most of us can only dream of. *hugs*
 
Unfortunately I don't qualify, but excellent and well written post Sir. Hoping you find the one soon and give her the life most of us can only dream of. *hugs*

Thank you very much! I did spend a good deal of attention to writing my profile.

I wish you the best with what you seek.

:)
 
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