subs only no masters please

[babygrl11]

hi, im hanna and im a sumbissive. i have a wonderful Master. i was wondering if there were any subs on here with masters that could give me some tips because i havent been with my master for very long. i as subs only because if i talk to other masters then im going to be in trouble with Master.

 

[CutieMouse]

A) Once you start a thread, you have no control over who responds to it. Since you can't control who responds to your thread/request, it would seem rather silly for him to punish you for something completely out of your control, wouldn't it?

B) Submissives without Dominants/Masters are often good resources of information, also.

C) Given that BDSM based relationships are just that - relationships - it's difficult to offer up "tips" without knowing what sort of information you're looking for. For example, I am submissive in my relationship, but never use titles [Sir, Master, etc], my relationship rarely (if ever) involve things like ropes, or typical BDSM implements, and never involve punishment. If those things are opposite of how your relationship works, my perspective may not be very beneficial (although the opposite is equally true). Make sense?

 

[LittleVixen69]

hi, im hanna and im a sumbissive. i have a wonderful Master. i was wondering if there were any subs on here with masters that could give me some tips because i havent been with my master for very long. i as subs only because if i talk to other masters then im going to be in trouble with Master.

Hi Babygrl


I am pretty new at this too but I do like to talk to other subs ...
contact me any time we can talk and compare notes. lol



Vixen

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

I'm posting because a) I'm not supposed to, and b) it's going get you in trouble.

So my tip is, never tell half the posting population not to post in a thread.

 

[CutieMouse]

I'm posting because a) I'm not supposed to, and b) it's going get you in trouble.

So my tip is, never tell half the posting population not to post in a thread.

*snort*

 

[Kajira Callista]

I'm posting because a) I'm not supposed to, and b) it's going get you in trouble.

So my tip is, never tell half the posting population not to post in a thread.

You need spanked

 

[Stella_Omega]

I, on the other hand am going to be incredibly nice by not posting here and getting this kid into trouble with her Master.

If I was going to though, I would recommend that she pick up a couple of books from this list; http://astore.amazon.com/wwwpowerexcha-20/180-9031773-4899444?node=8&page=2

 

[Kajira Callista]

I, on the other hand am going to be incredibly nice by not posting here and getting this kid into trouble with her Master.

If I was going to though, I would recommend that she pick up a couple of books from this list; http://astore.amazon.com/wwwpowerexcha-20/180-9031773-4899444?node=8&page=2

ooopppssss you forgot to use your invsible ink

 

[CutieMouse]

I, on the other hand am going to be incredibly nice by not posting here and getting this kid into trouble with her Master.

If I was going to though, I would recommend that she pick up a couple of books from this list; http://astore.amazon.com/wwwpowerexcha-20/180-9031773-4899444?node=8&page=2

I'll piggyback on that, and comment that I'm a huge believer that if submissives are reading educational type books about BDSM, they do it from *both* dominant and submissive perspectives. So in my world it's just as important to read things like The Loving Dominant and The New Topping Book, as it is Slavecraft and Partners in Power.

 

[Stella_Omega]

ooopppssss you forgot to use your invsible ink

The bottle dried up.

 

[Lilac_Sky]

I have a Mistress, but no Master .... not sure if I was included in the "allowed to post" group or the "not allowed to post" group.

As CM said, it is hard to offer tips since the topic is so broad. I love talking with new subs, so if you have any specific questions, I'd be happy to help.

 

[IrisAlthea]

I'm posting because a) I'm not supposed to, and b) it's going get you in trouble.

So my tip is, never tell half the posting population not to post in a thread.

Oh look, it seems like I'm in good company under the smarty pants-label. I wonder if smarty pants are allowed to post?

hi, im hanna and im a sumbissive. i have a wonderful Master. i was wondering if there were any subs on here with masters that could give me some tips because i havent been with my master for very long. i as subs only because if i talk to other masters then im going to be in trouble with Master.

Getting in trouble because of what other people do wouldn't feel very wonderful to me.
Anyway, I think you will find lots of ideas and thoughts about most things under the sun if you read here for a while but if you do, you will have to accept getting the input of lots of people with other interesting perspectives than just sub with master or master.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I do not approve of rules like "never talk to another Master." It smacks of things like: relationship abuse, bad sportsmanship, irresponsibility, self esteem issues. It makes me want to march right up to the sub and talk her EAR off.

There are two main reasons BDSM practicioners have come together as a community; one is the fun of sharing our favorite tips for fun in bed, and the other is to protect ourselves from predatory hucksters and abusers who think that calling themselves "Masters" or "Dom/mes" will excuse their destructive behaviors.

I belong to a sub rescue society. And I am not kidding. I have met subs both male and female who have allowed themselves to be harmed, physically and emotionally, by people who really didn't know what they were doing.

I do not mean to imply that hanna's new Master is anything less than wonderful. But a wonderful master might want to think very carefully about his commands to his sub-- why and wherefore he's giving them.

 

[midwestyankee]

Not a master and definitely not a submissive, but I have a tip for you regardless, babygrl11: develop your ability to think for yourself. It will serve you well whether you are in a relationship or not. I do not mean to suggest that, by posting this request for help, you are not thinking for yourself. This is my one-sixe-fits-all tip for all adults.

 

[Bandit58]

if i talk to other masters then im going to be in trouble with Master.

This always raises red flags with me If your Master is secure in his role and your relationship then he shouldn't mind if you talk to other Doms as well as subs - after all, if you tell him who you're talking to anyway then he shouldn't have a problem should he.....??

When we first started out Sir had no problem with me talking/chatting to anyone. Every relationship is different and it's interesting to get other perspectives on different aspects of living in a D/s relationship. Besides, He was secure enough in our relationship to know that I wasn't going to be spirited away by any old Dom Dick or Harry that came along....

 

[marieR19]

Wanna take bets on if the OP will post again, or left because we didn't respond correctly?

To the OP: if you are serious and real, RUN. Or at least have a long, serious talk with your "Master". You can't control what people online do or don't do, and getting "in trouble" for that smacks of "MUST CONTROL EVERYTHING EVER", which is not "Master"-like but abusive.

Also, subs don't have to have "masters" to be able to give you good advice. With your short post you seem to convey a LOT of stereotypes and, frankly, discrimination. I don't have a "master" at the moment but apparently I'm a lot more experienced then you, and could probably answer questions just as well as subs with masters.

 

[kiwi_submissive]

Sorry, I only give tips for good service.

Also You say only subs are allowed to reply but what about bottoms, slaves, little girls and various other pyl's?

 

[pellso27]

fuck me please

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

*snort*

For a surfaced sub, any snort in a storm.

Look lively! Captain at the helm!

You need spanked

I need spank.

The bottle dried up.

How could you tella, Stella?

Oh look, it seems like I'm in good company under the smarty pants-label. I wonder if smarty pants are allowed to post?

Every time a smarty pants posts, an angel sub gets punished.

Sorry, I only give tips for good service.

Also You say only subs are allowed to reply but what about bottoms, slaves, little girls and various other pyl's?

The OP's PYL, and testing her, are we?

 

[the captians wench]

I need spank.

So sorry dear. I've been so wrapped up in my own little world I haven't taken you behind the barn in ages!

Forgive my neglect, and accept my swats as a token of my sincerest remorse.

 

[IrisAlthea]

For a surfaced sub, any snort in a storm.

Look lively! Captain at the helm!



I need spank.



How could you tella, Stella?



Every time a smarty pants posts, an angel sub gets punished.



The OP's PYL, and testing her, are we?

So sorry dear. I've been so wrapped up in my own little world I haven't taken you behind the barn in ages!

Forgive my neglect, and accept my swats as a token of my sincerest remorse.

Oh dear, the poor angel subs are going to hate this thread.

 

[leashedlaura]

Hi

I have been in this lifestyle for over 10 years now as a slave/sub. My Husband is my Master...but I have been trained by 2 other Masters when I started out as a slave.....Would be happy to chat with you and share notes and info.

laura

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

So sorry dear. I've been so wrapped up in my own little world I haven't taken you behind the barn in ages!

Forgive my neglect, and accept my swats as a token of my sincerest remorse.

Okay. That hurts.

Damn you, woman.

And you on vacation now, too.

Oh dear, the poor angel subs are going to hate this thread.

I feel as if this thread is moving away from its original intent. Somehow.

I wish the OP would come back, and speak about what she wants, and respond to the pertinent posts (none written by me, pertinence not being a strong suit).

Come back, OP, and we will tell your PYL that everyone has been subbiefied.

 

[the captians wench]

Okay. That hurts.

Damn you, woman.

And you on vacation now, too.


.

And completed recouped thanks to three days in the hospital.

I'll have a whole new wardrobe of corsets/waist cinchers to wear next time a trip is due.

 

[babygrl11]

ok guys im hanna and dince im so new at bring a sib, i dont really know how to please my Master so if u could give me ideas on how to please Him then i'd appreciate it