My predicament...Need Advice

[gricino_heat]

Hey guys and gals of Lit,
Just seeking a bit of advice on a little problem I've got.

Recently my girlfriend and I (Yes i know this is the GBLT section but I'm just looking for advice from different points of view) have been experimenting and shes started to play with my ass, I'm really enjoying it and I've told her that.
The thing is, I want her to take things a bit further, I want her to try using toys or something similar on me.

How do I go about suggesting this without sort of freaking her out?
Do i just tell her up front, or do I slowly suggest things to get her to initiate it?

Any help would be fantastic!!
Thanks people
xox

 

[Bbb13]

Years ago I bought my wife a vibrator. We started just playing with it together . Then one time she hit my ass , I must of moaned, its now my vib and I hand it to her and she uses it on me. Only twice has it been pushed in, she is too afraid of hurting me. Wish she would het over it.

 

[gricino_heat]

Good idea! I've already bought her a vibrator, I'll get her to bring it over next time and hint at it
Thanks man

 

[Safe_Bet]

(Yes i know this is the GBLT section but w.e)

Yeah, thanks for not giving a SHIT about the people who frequent this forum as long as you get your hetero kink questioned addressed.

Now, why don't you drag your "what ever" over to the Fetish & Sexuality Forum and you'll prolly get an answer.

 

[CandiCame]

Years ago I bought my wife a vibrator. We started just playing with it together . Then one time she hit my ass , I must of moaned, its now my vib and I hand it to her and she uses it on me. Only twice has it been pushed in, she is too afraid of hurting me. Wish she would het over it.

That's actually what I was about to suggest- I wish, really wish that I had practiced with something like a vibe before I started in with anal- just make sure that you start small and work up, and use lots and lots of lube!

 

[Bbb13]

Oh I practice with it quite a bit . Lol

 

[SweetApple8]

Yeah, thanks for not giving a SHIT about the people who frequent this forum as long as you get your hetero kink questioned addressed.

Now, why don't you drag your "what ever" over to the Fetish & Sexuality Forum and you'll prolly get an answer.

Geez, somebody needs to get laid.

 

[Bbb13]

Lol. Me to tho .

 

[Stella_Omega]

Check out the "how to" forum-- this question gets asked a LOT.

 

[Safe_Bet]

Geez, somebody needs to get laid.

Geez, somebody needs to STFU!

 

[janeyruth]

Geez, somebody needs to get laid.

Fact is, she is getting laid. Quite regularly, actually. And isn't it instructive that her getting laid has had no effect whatsoever in terms of behavior modification. She's the same piss-and-vinegar, in-your-face whackjob she's always been. It's one of the great mysteries of nature, like the aurora borealis or the albino dung beetle...

 

[Safe_Bet]

Fact is, she is getting laid. Quite regularly, actually. And isn't it instructive that her getting laid has had no effect whatsoever in terms of behavior modification. She's the same piss-and-vinegar, in-your-face whackjob she's always been. It's one of the great mysteries of nature, like the aurora borealis or the albino dung beetle...

And Janeyruth just how the hell would you know if I'm getting laid or not? You've never met me, know no one that knows me and I haven't discussed it here.

Oh, wait... Is this just some more of your made up shit like you're really a lesbian (who just happens to like dick occasionally :: ) or is this like the lies you suggest that bi chicks tell lesbians about their real orientation?

Just in case you missed it, yeah I AM calling you a lying fake.

Now go fuck off, K?

 

[Bbb13]

I'm sorrubi tried to help. Lol

 

[Bbb13]

Sorry.

CNN spell check

 

[SweetApple8]

Geez, somebody needs to STFU!

Quite clear, from the two responses, not worth my time typing.

 

[Seamen]

I would just say that communication is the key in every relationship, be it of any sexual orientation. The best thing to do would be just to tell her that you like it and want to explore more in that direction. I mean, if she did poked around there all by herself in the first place, she can't be that much of a prude, now, can she?

 

[imready101]

Been there

Years ago I had a GF who would finger me as she sucked me, it got to where she would use 2 and sometimes 3 fingers, she would finger fuck me as I had the most intense orgasms ever. Since then I have craved a cock in my ass soo bad. I had 1 other woman finger me and I loved it even more. I hope to one day experience that pleasure.