Women--Please Enlighten Me

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Dear, Dear Women:

I’m looking for some blunt, blunt honesty here, about women’s (lesbian, straight, bi, Dom, sub, . . .) gut level reactions to male humiliation.

First, here is a brief bio. to give you a rough idea of where I’m coming from:

I’m 48 y/o male, and since I hit puberty around 13 or so, my fantasy (and on occasion actual) life has naturally revolved around me being sexually humiliated—by a woman, or by a man at a dominant woman’s request (and in practice, frequently by a man where the woman involved was solely a fantasy creation in my mind—for me, sucking a cock when ordered to by a woman is incredible—sucking a cock without a woman’s direction is just, well, boring.) Originally pretty tame, over the years my fantasies have of course expanded and intensified: e.g. cuckoldry, forced cock and pussy worship, verbal humiliation, crème pies, incest, mom-dom, mom-in-law-dom, sissification, some pain . . . I’m sure you get the general idea. But, the humiliation stemming from some type of emasculation of me has always been the one constant. And just for the record: I’m not complaining; I don’t have the slightest idea where this proclivity of mine came from, and am / always have been at ease with it, and willing and able to enjoy it. We are who we are indeed.


Now I have always assumed that 99.9% of women would be disgusted and repulsed by a man who harbored such desires, let alone one who actually requested her to help bring them to life (and trust me, cuckold / humiliation fetishists learn early that these desires can and usually do provoke intense hostility and intolerance in an awful lot of folks—so, not surprisingly, we are a naturally secretive lot.) And, I have also assumed that women who actually did get involved in such, were either doing it for love—not lust (a bit like pinching your nose when taking cough syrup), or else were doing it for money. I’m not knocking either motive—to each her own. But since discovering the forums here at Literotica, I’ve begun to re-think some of my assumptions, and that perhaps the numbers of women who would (or at least could) genuinely get turned on by such male-humiliation themes (or actual scenes) might be higher than I’ve been thinking.

So ladies, please, please educate me. Is your instinctive reaction to this theme one of disgust? Confusion? Arousal? Contempt? Curiosity? Indifference . . . ?

Archer
(or occasionally: ‘Missy’)
 
Indifference and boredom.

I personally get no physical or intellectual excitement from humiliating a man, and tend to be more submissive myself in my relationships. But i do know there are women who find it stimulating.
 
It's a turn off. There's nothing remotely arousing for me to see a man behaving in that manner. I prefer men who are 100% masculine, sexually dominant, and aggressive but not to the point of humiliating a woman.
 
I'm a perv and to a certain extent, it turns me on. I think it could be fun to do some role play. Not too sure I'd be comfortable with the humiliation part of it but ordering you to suck that hard cock waiting for you gets me hot. Maybe I'd tie your hands behind your back to make you really work for it.
 
Hello

I'm a perv and to a certain extent, it turns me on. I think it could be fun to do some role play. Not too sure I'd be comfortable with the humiliation part of it but ordering you to suck that hard cock waiting for you gets me hot. Maybe I'd tie your hands behind your back to make you really work for it.

Thanks for the reply...

I kinda wish I'd set this up as a poll, just to get a better feel for the ratios. Anyhow, just going on memory, I think you are only the third woman to think it might actually turn them on. On the other extreme was disgust, though only one I think. Most of the rest coming in somewhere between turn-off, to boring. About what I would have expected actually. Unfortunately for us male cuck / humiliation kinksters, there seem to be about 5000 men of us for every 1 woman who is. That's OK though--I've got a DVD player!

Shawn
 
I'm a perv and to a certain extent, it turns me on. I think it could be fun to do some role play. Not too sure I'd be comfortable with the humiliation part of it but ordering you to suck that hard cock waiting for you gets me hot. Maybe I'd tie your hands behind your back to make you really work for it.

Oh, and by the way, I forgot to mention: That "ordering you to suck that hard cock" part that you mentioned? That is the humiliation. Mmmmmmmmmmmm...
 
I'm a perv and to a certain extent, it turns me on. I think it could be fun to do some role play. Not too sure I'd be comfortable with the humiliation part of it but ordering you to suck that hard cock waiting for you gets me hot. Maybe I'd tie your hands behind your back to make you really work for it.

I kinda feel the same way ... not to keen on the humiliation.. but the cock sucking is very arousing to me.
 
I kinda feel the same way ... not to keen on the humiliation.. but the cock sucking is very arousing to me.

Well hell, then we're all in agreement! My place, six P.M. Friday. I'll bring the chips. And oh yeah, one of you ladies be sure and bring along a Cock :)
 
Oh, and by the way, I forgot to mention: That "ordering you to suck that hard cock" part that you mentioned? That is the humiliation. Mmmmmmmmmmmm...
Well in that case, yum! I would quite enjoy having you perform for me :devil:
Well hell, then we're all in agreement! My place, six P.M. Friday. I'll bring the chips. And oh yeah, one of you ladies be sure and bring along a Cock :)
I think we should bring more than one ;)
 
It's a turn off. There's nothing remotely arousing for me to see a man behaving in that manner. I prefer men who are 100% masculine, sexually dominant, and aggressive but not to the point of humiliating a woman.

I agree with this:rose:
 
Oh, OK Then

Well in that case, yum! I would quite enjoy having you perform for me :devil:

I think we should bring more than one ;)


Well, I would hate to be rude, so, if you insist . . . I'm sure those old knee pads must still be around here somewhere!
 
Hello

I agree with this:rose:

Thanks for the input Sereneone~

By the way, after reading your bio. description on your profile, I couldn't help but wonder--do you write any stories for Literotica? Your passion really seems to translate well into words for you. Not something just anyone can do~!

Take care,
Shawn
 
Thanks for the input Sereneone~

By the way, after reading your bio. description on your profile, I couldn't help but wonder--do you write any stories for Literotica? Your passion really seems to translate well into words for you. Not something just anyone can do~!

Take care,
Shawn

Hello Shawn,

I have written a couple that are on Lit and a few that are elsewhere...nothing spectacular and all first drafts. :)

Btw, welcome to Lit:rose:
 
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