Upskirt.

...according to her facebook profile, which I've seen because she recently friended me out of nowhere, she did.

Sounds like she wants more of the fun.

I once met a masochist who said it was hard to find guys to be mean enough for her taste.
 
The only real guidelines for her was that that side of her had to be kept secret. So no black eyes or fat lips or blood on the face, essentially. Could I slap her full strength--like, hard enough to knock a grown man down? Yes, yes I could. Could I choke her to the scary point? Yes. Could I force my cock down her throat, and slap her over and over if she tried to resist? Yes. Bring my hand down with literally all my strength to sting/abuse her pussy? Yup. Chase her, knock her down, spread her legs and fuck her ass and hold her there by squeezing her tits between my fingers and my palm (recall that I'm a musician, my hands aren't exactly weak) and biting full force on the skin on the back of her neck to keep her pulled back toward me, yes. (She had long hair, so that could be hidden.) Bite her nipples or elsewhere on her tits until they seemed about to literally pop off in my mouth, with my fingers down her throat so she couldn't protest, yes. Bite her pussy. Shove stuff into her. Duct tape her. Demean her. Step on her naked ass with my shoe to hold her down, lift her head up by her hair and slap the fuck out of her face over and over. You get the idea.

There was more, but I'll leave it there. Suffice to say that I had to ratchet it up each time, or it wasn't interesting for her, and that I did indeed do said ratcheting.
has that experience impacted on subsequent experiences?
 
has that experience impacted on subsequent experiences?
That's a complicated question. I married "clean." I knew if I kept choosing women for the monkey sex, I was never going to find one sane enough to stay married to or have kids with. I was cleaning up my act for other reasons at the time anyway, and I knew I was going to want to settle down and have kids at some point soon.

Along came this beautiful, natural woman with "grown-up" priorities and her shit together and a brain, all wrapped up the body of of a sex goddess. But she also had a complicated sexual history that meant 1) pretty conservative sex, but also 2) that I would never (and will never) be approaching her body with anything even remotely suggestive of violence. I decided very early on that if the otherwise right woman came along and the sex wasn't the crazy stuff I'd been used to, I'd be OK with that, and that turned out to be the case.

It's taken a lot of years for her to feel really comfortable with her body as a sexual object. The good news is, with her at 40 and me at 45, after closing in on 10 years of marriage, two kids, etc., we're doing more fucking than most teenagers in love do. We fuck all the time, and it's gotten damned good. But it will never incorporate violence, and I'm cool with that.

Did that answer your question?
 
That's a complicated question. I married "clean." I knew if I kept choosing women for the monkey sex, I was never going to find one sane enough to stay married to or have kids with. I was cleaning up my act for other reasons at the time anyway, and I knew I was going to want to settle down and have kids at some point soon.

Along came this beautiful, natural woman with "grown-up" priorities and her shit together and a brain, all wrapped up the body of of a sex goddess. But she also had a complicated sexual history that meant 1) pretty conservative sex, but also 2) that I would never (and will never) be approaching her body with anything even remotely suggestive of violence. I decided very early on that if the otherwise right woman came along and the sex wasn't the crazy stuff I'd been used to, I'd be OK with that, and that turned out to be the case.

It's taken a lot of years for her to feel really comfortable with her body as a sexual object. The good news is, with her at 40 and me at 45, after closing in on 10 years of marriage, two kids, etc., we're doing more fucking than most teenagers in love do. We fuck all the time, and it's gotten damned good. But it will never incorporate violence, and I'm cool with that.

Did that answer your question?

Kinda. It's just that a lot of people suggest that when you get into very kinky sex of any kind, it's quite difficult to go back to 'vanilla' sex. And I have to say I hate that term. Like most things, kink is a continuum but subject to cultural norms, but the kind of sex you were describing is pretty extreme.
 
Kinda. It's just that a lot of people suggest that when you get into very kinky sex of any kind, it's quite difficult to go back to 'vanilla' sex. And I have to say I hate that term. Like most things, kink is a continuum but subject to cultural norms, but the kind of sex you were describing is pretty extreme.
Yeah. To be clear, it was extreme for me too.

But I dug it.
 
I'm rephrasing to try and get a clearer answer.
All of the times and reasons I would occasionally like to beat my wife into silence are unrelated to sex.

But alas, I never do.

(No, it hasn't affected my marriage/sex life except in good ways. It was an amusement park ride, that's all. I was fucking other women at the time too, and didn't wish I was beating them.)
 
All of the times and reasons I would occasionally like to beat my wife into silence are unrelated to sex.

But alas, I never do.

(No, it hasn't affected my marriage/sex life except in good ways. It was an amusement park ride, that's all. I was fucking other women at the time too, and didn't wish I was beating them.)

thank you :)
 
"Impact" was always not a verb, and I dunno, since I made that one up on the spot.
I'm all for the 'living language' argument, but "impact" as a verb always sounds ugly to me. "Affect" already means the same thing, without the trendy retronyn/corporate doublespeak.
 
I'm all for the 'living language' argument, but "impact" as a verb always sounds ugly to me. "Affect" already means the same thing, without the trendy retronyn/corporate doublespeak.

Yeah, that's pretty much my take on it also. Plus, any chance to dunk Kibble's pony tails in the ink well is a good thing.
 
"Impact" was always not a verb, and I dunno, since I made that one up on the spot.

my dictionary begs to differ although I will concede I'm slipping into SocSci speak a bit.

I'm all for the 'living language' argument, but "impact" as a verb always sounds ugly to me. "Affect" already means the same thing, without the trendy retronyn/corporate doublespeak.

Affect does almost do the same thing but Impact is more forceful and it also creates an alternative so you aren't getting too repetitive.

Yeah, that's pretty much my take on it also. Plus, any chance to dunk Kibble's pony tails in the ink well is a good thing.

boys who tug my pony tail (singular, unless you mean pigtails) are clearly doing it just to provoke me into physical interation :)
 
my dictionary begs to differ although I will concede I'm slipping into SocSci speak a bit.



Affect does almost do the same thing but Impact is more forceful and it also creates an alternative so you aren't getting too repetitive.



boys who tug my pony tail (singular, unless you mean pigtails) are clearly doing it just to provoke me into physical interation :)

Your dictionary should beg to be recycled.

And at least some self-upskirt porn would be nice.
 
well it's been around as a verb since latin times, so I think I'll keep my current dictionary, thank you.

I don't have much upskirt porn on this machine so you'll have to make do with this...

https://flpics2.a.ssl.fastly.net/629/629688/0004ab41-aeda-8d90-2080-23cf50a17b3f_720.jpg

Not the way you used it.

impact (v.)
c.1600, "press closely into something," from L. impactus, pp. of impingere "to push into, dash against, thrust at" (see impinge). Originally sense preserved in impacted teeth (1876). Sense of "strike forcefully against something" first recorded 1916. Figurative sense of "have a forceful effect on" is from 1935. Related: Impacting.

Nice shot...is that you? The hair is blonde.
 
Not the way you used it.

impact (v.)
c.1600, "press closely into something," from L. impactus, pp. of impingere "to push into, dash against, thrust at" (see impinge). Originally sense preserved in impacted teeth (1876). Sense of "strike forcefully against something" first recorded 1916. Figurative sense of "have a forceful effect on" is from 1935. Related: Impacting.

Nice shot...is that you? The hair is blonde.

it's still a verb.

and yes, all the pics I post are of me unless I say otherwise. it's a wig :)
 
it's still a verb.

and yes, all the pics I post are of me unless I say otherwise. it's a wig :)

Stop squirming.

I like this shot. You have a nice way of appearing human as opposed to idealized in your pics.
 
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