Girlfriends sister breastfeeding infront of me

[Arogo]

This has happened twice now, and usually around friends and her family. Each time I had to fight the urge to look, even though I never did. It's hard to act casual when she does it.
Fairly strange experience for me.

 

[mobleedzblue]

It's normal to look. I can only imagine if that happened to me. I'd find it nearly impossible not to look!!

 

[HeyAll]

Normal for the woman? Seems like it, since a lot of women really don't mind breast feeding in front of others since it's such a natural thing and they aren't up tight about it.

And frankly, and glad women like that aren't since I love looking.

 

[RjThoughts]

Is it normal to want to stare? Sure. The better question is: Is it rude to stare? Absolutely!

Would you like it if someone stared at your girlfriend's chest, when she was wearing a blouse, a sweater? Eyes are up not at her chest. Don't stare.

 

[iwantyoufuckme]

its normal for you to want to look, I know i would. Its natural.

 

[Stella_Omega]

She isn't showing you her tits. She's feeding her child.

If you are polite, and remember to look at the baby as well as at the boobies, you will be rewarded with more chances to watch her breastfeed-- and even other nursing women, too. If you can't control yourself and you stare like a drooling, letching idiot then she'll kick you right out of the loop.

 

[LindsayRae]

She isn't showing you her tits. She's feeding her child.

If you are polite, and remember to look at the baby as well as at the boobies, you will be rewarded with more chances to watch her breastfeed-- and even other nursing women, too. If you can't control yourself and you stare like a drooling, letching idiot then she'll kick you right out of the loop.

Exactly.

 

[RjThoughts]

She isn't showing you her tits. She's feeding her child.

If you are polite, and remember to look at the baby as well as at the boobies, you will be rewarded with more chances to watch her breastfeed-- and even other nursing women, too. If you can't control yourself and you stare like a drooling, letching idiot then she'll kick you right out of the loop.

What she said!

 

[Arogo]

Oh, I know! I'm not mad about it, and didn't even look once. But ones brain should have an off switch to say "no, booby bad...no".

 

[LindsayRae]

But ones brain should have an off switch to say "no, booby bad...no".

Or the individual should have self control.

 

[Arogo]

Or the individual should have self control.

Yeah, they should. I have it, but your mind still thinks about it.

 

[MasterandSir]

She isn't showing you her tits. She's feeding her child.

If you are polite, and remember to look at the baby as well as at the boobies, you will be rewarded with more chances to watch her breastfeed-- and even other nursing women, too. If you can't control yourself and you stare like a drooling, letching idiot then she'll kick you right out of the loop.

When you're right you're right remember to ask questions about how the baby latches and how the process works. She may just bring you in closer to demonstrate.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Yeah, they should. I have it, but your mind still thinks about it.

There's nothing wrong with thinking about it.

There is a whole lot of stupid involved with acting on what you're thinking.

It isn't rocket science. Just behave yourself.

 

[johnnyfm78]

When my wife's friend down the street was breastfeeding, she would whip those puppies out with very little warning. I always tried to look elsewhere in the room because I desperately wanted to see her breasts, and knew that I wouldn't be able to stop myself from staring directly at whatever part of them happened to be exposed. I think our friend was a little offended and she even said as much, but I explained that while I don't mind her breast feeding while we're there, I don't want to make things awkward should her nipple make a surprise guest appearance. I still think she thought I was weird for averting my eyes a little, but it kinda felt like the right thing to do.

 

[SweetErika]

When my wife's friend down the street was breastfeeding, she would whip those puppies out with very little warning. I always tried to look elsewhere in the room because I desperately wanted to see her breasts, and knew that I wouldn't be able to stop myself from staring directly at whatever part of them happened to be exposed. I think our friend was a little offended and she even said as much, but I explained that while I don't mind her breast feeding while we're there, I don't want to make things awkward should her nipple make a surprise guest appearance. I still think she thought I was weird for averting my eyes a little, but it kinda felt like the right thing to do.

For me, when other people are uncomfortable seeing me breastfeed, I feel uncomfortable. When people treat it like the natural act that it is, don't make a point to stare OR look away (or, worse, make a quick exit from the area), give me a little bit of space but still don't mind carrying on a conversation or whatever, then I'm perfectly comfortable. My son has never liked being covered while he's nursing, so I have no choice but to expose my breasts. However, that doesn't bother me at all unless someone around me starts sending signals the view/act bothers them.

So, yeah, I'd be uncomfortable if you made it a point to avoid looking at me while I was nursing just in case you saw some boobage. You're the only one who made things awkward for yourself and your wife's friend by looking elsewhere then pointing out you were worried about seeing her nipple.

And, FYI, there shouldn't be any surprise involved if you catch a glimpse of a nipple while a woman's nursing. You wouldn't be surprised if you saw the nipple of a bottle or pacifier that a child was sucking on, would you?

 

[Biker_Type]

my sis-n-law is breastfeeding my nephew and she's just very comfortable about it. she just does it and makes no big deal about it. took a while but i am able to carry on a conversation with her while she's doing it. i did jokingly present her wit a set on 'tiitie beads' like the ones you see at biker rallies!

 

[Stella_Omega]

I breast fed for a total of five years. Three of those years, I breast fed with a Mohawk hairdo and a black leather bike jacket-- boots and leather pants too usually. Can we say "acting out" kids? I certainly was.

But I'll tell you-- nobody says NOTHING to a breast feeding punk rock biker chick.

 

[Arogo]

I breast fed for a total of five years. Three of those years, I breast fed with a Mohawk hairdo and a black leather bike jacket-- boots and leather pants too usually. Can we say "acting out" kids? I certainly was.

But I'll tell you-- nobody says NOTHING to a breast feeding punk rock biker chick.

Cool

 

[switchbitch]

I breast-fed for a total of 9 1/2 years, (which is why find it so easy to lactate at the drop of a hat) and as I already have extremely large breasts they were pretty out there for the world to see. I never minded anyone looking but even with boobs as big as mine are if I was in a situation where I wanted to be discreet it was easy enough to flip a baby blanket over my shoulder. So if a woman has her breast on display it means she is quite comfortable with you seeing her feed and there is no need to look away.Some women indeed enjoy it as it can make them feel that even though they are breast-feeding mummies they are still sexy.

 

[klippert]

I've waited too see who or whom might try too take this oh....out of proportion.... pssst..... little secret. Breast feeding.....NO BIG DEAL. Now, if you make a big deal about it (like here on lit) Then it becomes someone personal thingy-dingy.

someone wants too hang a kahn out for a baby....let her and you, hell, enjoy that big nip, if you see it. If they catch you...your a perv. freak..... so, in closing.... don't worry bout it..... it's natural......more natural than a Tranny

 

[Stella_Omega]

a kahn? never heard that before

 

[CandiCame]

She isn't showing you her tits. She's feeding her child.

If you are polite, and remember to look at the baby as well as at the boobies, you will be rewarded with more chances to watch her breastfeed-- and even other nursing women, too. If you can't control yourself and you stare like a drooling, letching idiot then she'll kick you right out of the loop.

Yeah- well said.

 

[albertaboy]

Oh, I know! I'm not mad about it, and didn't even look once. But ones brain should have an off switch to say "no, booby bad...no".

Unfortunately the brain doesn't work that way. It is a bit strange sometimes, some woman are discreet about it using a towel etc, others are a bit in your face about it.

 

[FarmerTan]

Some women indeed enjoy it as it can make them feel that even though they are breast-feeding mummies they are still sexy.

Never thought of it that way but that's a good point.

 

[vixtoria57]

behave the way you normally do when speaking with a chick: do you stare at her breasts? or eyes?

as a long time breastfeeder, i always felt i had to educate, especially men, how to handle being around someone, usually me, breastfeeding because it is so rare in western culture to see women breastfeeding openly

so i would just give someone a heads up, i was about to breastfeed and if they seemed uncomfortable I would let them know it was more than all right if they stayed or were curious, that i wouldnt begrudge them if they felt more comfortable leaving

this is only a taboo/fetish in mostly native english speaking countries...the rest of the world doesn't get why this is an issue at all