Question About Being Bi

[legend57]

I am not really sure what I am at the moment, would love to talk about it and see if I am indeed Bi...btw I am 23/m

 

[Stella_Omega]

Bisexual is when you have a physical and/or emotional attraction to members of both sexes.

It's that simple.

This attraction could be in varying degrees: Mostly for women, once in a while for men, or vice versa, or maybe just about the same amount of women and men. You might rarely experience physical attraction to anyone at all-- or you might be a raging horndog. You might hardly care about people's emotions, which can be problematic for everyone around you, or you might be a real faller-in-lover.

You might choose never to act on this attraction with same sex partners, either. Or it might be that you are realising that all of your past experiences really haven't made you happy, and you might find that same-sex is where it's at for you. or, you might swing back and forth between preferences, or you might always be open to either sex.

All of those things are parts of the huge spectrum of bisexuality.

 

[legend57]

Don't get me wrong I love girls, but there is just something about another penis...I dunno if that is weird or not

 

[Stella_Omega]

Don't get me wrong I love girls, but there is just something about another penis...I dunno if that is weird or not

Nope, it isn't weird. Lots of men and women share your feelings.

it can be hard to get used to the idea, of course. If you were raised religious, and have always heard that gayness is bad, it can be pretty rough figuring out that, in fact, it isn't. it's just the way you are.

 

[legend57]

yea...i have never done anything but always been thinking about what it would be like...a shemale would be best of both worlds to me

 

[Stella_Omega]

yea...i have never done anything but always been thinking about what it would be like...a shemale would be best of both worlds to me

Why, because boobs equal woman?

Dude, get over that. If you want dick, be honest with yourself. It's going to be attached to another man.

 

[Rosie_101]

Stella's absolutely right. Be honest with yourself and, if you currently have a spouse or partner, be honest with them too.

 

[CandiCame]

Why, because boobs equal woman?

Dude, get over that. If you want dick, be honest with yourself. It's going to be attached to another man.

I'm a bi/pan guy who just went through this, kinda same thing. The whole, "Am I gay or not?" thing. There's a whole spectrum of sexuality- this black and white thing they try to make us buy into in the south is as bullshit as the one-drop laws; it's not an all or nothing thing. You could totally be bi.

Though I do find it kinda odd that so many guys are all, "I wanna try the cock". I found out I was bi because I fell in love with a man and it kinda fucked with me. But everyone has different tastes. Takes all kinds and whatnot.

Good luck, man! It's gonna be cool watching someone else figure themselves out!