porn dilemna?

[wooger]

Do any bi people find when they watch porn they cannot decide who they would rather be?

I find when i am watching straight porn (gay porn doesnt do anything for me at all) that i cant make up my mind if I would rather be the guy or the girl lol

does anyone else get like this? or am I just weeeeeird.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I've been like that all my life-- and I've always figured I was weird.

except straight porn doesn't do a thing for me, gay porn does.

 

[infinity706]

I have that problem, but I have another one as well. I also want to dominate and submit. Of course, the kind of porn I like depends on the day. In the span of a couple months, I've covered just about the whole spectrum, though.

 

[Kurokami]

I have that problem, but I have another one as well. I also want to dominate and submit. Of course, the kind of porn I like depends on the day. In the span of a couple months, I've covered just about the whole spectrum, though.

Same here, exactly, although I've come to terms with the wildly schizophrenic nature of my libido. It really does just depend on mood though, and thankfully my wife is much the same way, so I've at least got someone who understands what that's like when every day brings some new and distinct thing, from me.

 

[twister947]

I've never "wanted to be" one of the players...I just watch, and get turned on. Interesting question.

 

[CandiCame]

I usually only watch SM porn, so whoever's subbing- gender's not really as important for me as the role...

 

[jackstud]

I usually only watch SM porn, so whoever's subbing- gender's not really as important for me as the role...

Thats a good subby

 

[HottieMama]

I don't imagine myself as one of the participants. I'm a MAJOR voyeur, and porn is a safe way for me to indulge those voyeuristic fantasies...

 

[sterculius]

My favorite porn always involves straight, deepthroat blowjobs, and I'm usually torn between between identifying as the guy being sucked or the cocksucker. More often, if it's an especially intense, sloppy, deepthroat blowjob, I'll fantasize that it's my mouth being fucked. I really like being a cocksucker!

 

[albertaboy]

I don't overthink it, sometimes I envisioin myself the pitcher and sometimes the catcher, mostly I just watch.

 

[Harber]

Considering one of my lesser-spotted fantasies is to be a female, I do sometimes get a kick out of associating in first-person with the woman (if it's m/f) - of being the female object of male desire, usually in a [slightly] submissive role.

But as I don't watch much porn, 9 times out of 10 I just watch the damn stuff and don't seek any projection of association.

 

[CandiCame]

My favorite porn always involves straight, deepthroat blowjobs, and I'm usually torn between between identifying as the guy being sucked or the cocksucker. More often, if it's an especially intense, sloppy, deepthroat blowjob, I'll fantasize that it's my mouth being fucked. I really like being a cocksucker!

I second this- is it weird I'd rather give head then be sucked off?

Thats a good subby

 

[Seamen]

Most (all?) of gay porn out there is pretty... um.. un-intellectual, I'd say. I being a certified bottom, generally imagine myself to be the woman, although if I'm watching an orgy, or lesbian porn (which I do a LOT) the issue then becomes choosing which woman I want to be. Tranny porn kind of is the easiest for me to watch, though

 

[kerryanna]

i always have this issue!!

or more specifically, when i watch straight porn, im never sure if i would rather experience what it was like to be doing whats being done, or experiencing it being done to me.. so i guess it goes hand in hand with wanting to submit and dominate at the same time.

 

[Missouribiguy]

Generally, when I watch straight porn, I think of myself as being both. I want to be the guy who fucking the hot chick, but I also wanna be the chick taking the big cock.

It's a pretty weird, but sexy, feeling.