Slut as a lifestyle.

[FarkFan]

Only 3 more credits to go and it is not 10 years you hillbilly.

Now go outside and play on the railroad tracks.

Ok....so 3 more years...

Ill repeat...everyone here knows you are a joke....do you ever read the replies to your threads?

God forbid I ever need a nurse, I hope it's nowhere near your "hospital".

I wish you had a bit of wit or intelligence.....it would make it a bit more fun.

Just love watching you make a fool of yourself on here

 

[Shagly]

Ok....so 3 more years...

Ill repeat...everyone here knows you are a joke....do you ever read the replies to your threads?

God forbid I ever need a nurse, I hope it's nowhere near your "hospital".

I wish you had a bit of wit or intelligence.....it would make it a bit more fun.

Just love watching you make a fool of yourself on here

*He must be another SeanH Alt.*

 

[Phelia]

I appreciate the consideration. That pesky stock market is just killing us these days... They see their own shadow and it plunges like twenty bazillion points!

And it is unfortunate for your body that it's attached to your brain... It's going to have to get a proper lesson in not being a mooch.

One that's quite overdue. My body's not the best student, though, so it will have to be a very hands-on lesson.

 

[richard_daily]

One that's quite overdue. My body's not the best student, though, so it will have to be a very hands-on lesson.

It sounds like your body really needs to think about pulling itself up by it's bootstraps...

I could certainly help with that part.

I'd offer to teach you about trickle down economics, but everyone knows that stuff doesn't work.

 

[eyer]

stupidest post you've ever made. Really? would you subject your child to your personal life? chicks? dates? masturbating habits?

You're fucking nuts, dude.

Thanks for verifying.

I think that's fixin to become part of my sig, thanks dude.

I wouldn't do anything with another human being that I had to hide from my son...

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Let's boil it down to the bare basics...

Being happy at your job is preferable to not being happy at your job, right?


You can call it liberated, enjoyable, fun, preferable, however you want to coin it...

Doing something you love doesn't feel like work.

Doing something you hate sucks the life out of you, and makes your existence miserable.

Which would you prefer?

Would love to see an answer to this. Especially now that we've moved the accusatory goal posts from "you're definitely a prostitute if you get money for sex" to "you're not liberated or enlightened or holy or sanctified or beatified or whatever!"

That's why we know God ain't a woman, despite what all the tree loving Liberals will tell you.

If it weren't for trees, you wouldn't be alive, bub. They don't care about liberals or conservatives, but I'm sure you'd be dry humping one trying to reproduce with it if you were choking on your own carbon dioxide.

 

[Fabala]

Would love to see an answer to this. Especially now that we've moved the accusatory goal posts from "you're definitely a prostitute if you get money for sex" to "you're not liberated or enlightened or holy or sanctified or beatified or whatever!"

So, in your opinion, performing a service - provided one enjoys providing it - makes that person inherently more enlightened and liberated than someone who either is not in the service profession, or is and doesn't enjoy it?

 

[blunt_trauma]

Or the I'm ever so much more enlightened and in touch with myself and my needs than all of you thing.

oh everyone does that shit!
married couples do that shit to the resolutely single,
celibates to it to the slutty.
it's fucking annoying but proof of nothing beyond being irritatingly human.

...but the implication that we all play that game? wrong, insulting, eau de justification.

 

[Fabala]

oh everyone does that shit!
married couples do that shit to the resolutely single,
celibates to it to the slutty.
it's fucking annoying but proof of nothing beyond being irritatingly human.

...but the implication that we all play that game? wrong, insulting, eau de justification.

Well, I am irritated by most other humans.

 

[blunt_trauma]

Well, I am irritated by most other humans.

we noticed!

 

[Fabala]

we noticed!

Well good. At least that was clearly communicated when obviously so little else was.

 

[blunt_trauma]

Well good. At least that was clearly communicated when obviously so little else was.

hating humanity is what all the cool kids are doing

 

[Fabala]

hating humanity is what all the cool kids are doing

I don't hate humanity.

I'm irritated by people as a group.

I'm frequently flummoxed by the behaviors of other people.

But I'm also fascinated and intrigued by the weirdness.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

How is it an accusation to say that someone is a prostitute if they get paid for sex? That IS the definition.

That is one definition. However, it seems her personal identity doesn't jibe with the classic definition. And that's also valid. One could say she's having some damn sweet dates with men she knows and leave it at that.

So, in your opinion, performing a service - provided one enjoys providing it - makes that person inherently more enlightened and liberated than someone who either is not in the service profession, or is and doesn't enjoy it?

If by doing a particular action that is more or less common to everyone but one has created and enabled a success and joy in doing said action that eludes many others in doing the same — and through that success and joy, one personally feels happier, more freedom, more satisfaction, more positivity, more of something better in their life than that person has felt previously — how is that not existing in a state of liberation and enlightenment? Semantically speaking, isn't that what it's all about?

Gandhi didn't discover or create power through nonviolence. Neither did Buddha discover or create the process of soul tranquility through meditation. They were pretty damn good at doing what they were doing enough to become persons of influence, however. Nobody questions their "enlightenment," yet they were totally different people in the time before they got their enlightenments, much like Moses was adopted royalty before messing with them slaves. Hence them being "enlightened." From what I know about Red, she was stuck in an unhappy situation and dealing with being sexually unsatisfied for a bit of time before actively remaking her life into where it is right now. Smells like liberation to me.

You might be mistaking this feeling for the act of being smug. Now, that is annoying. Smug motherfuckers are irritating and maketh one wanna Sugar Smack the cereal out of their mouths. However, I'm not sure Red is saying in this thread that she's better than you and me and everyone else because she's getting ass the way she likes plus a bit of dinero to go with it. In fact, I'll say that she's not and she is just wanting to talk about the joy of sex and how she's made it fit in her life the way she wants, under her control. The whole money and pseudo-escorting and "providing a service" and all that other shit is just distractive fluff for talking points around the issue of her personal happiness for getting and giving the sex she wants and loves. Not too many people can honestly say the same, or even if they could, could share it openly in a forum.

If she's guilty of anything here, maybe it's in not being lucid enough or being able to get her message out in the best way that doesn't give off the perfume of bragging and boasting. This is not the first thread she's made about how she gets down, though. She's always been straight-up about her sex life and everyone here has the option of either talking about what you love and what's working or what you hate and what's shitty. I almost always see her speaking in matter-of-fact passion about the former, even when she's got some sour grapes to bust.

 

[butters]

come ON y'all....

Technically speaking, almost everything we do, we do for a payoff.

You think the woman you're dating is going to put out if you've not put out cash for dinner, drinks, gifts, etc? How about a housewife? She doesn't work, and a man provides all of her needs and money? (and no, not a talking about a woman with small children that she's raising full time - different story)

for some of us, it's not about the money. the argument you put forward here is a step away from the guys who use it as an excuse for raping a date having bought her a nice meal, wine, taken her somewhere but then was flummoxed as to why she refused to finish off the night by fucking him. in other words, you are equating almost all women as prostitutes. which is misguided of you.

as for the housewife - in most of those situations, the woman staying at home isn't sitting on her butt doing nothing all day. who does the laundry, the shopping, cooing, house-cleaning, gardening, decorating etc etc etc? the idea that the man 'keeps her' is outdated and, for a woman who considers herself modern and in control of her own life, frankly quite offensive - though i take your point that you don't intend for it to be so. a true partnership is a sharing of responsibilities as well as pleasures; sex should be a pleasure and nothing to do with cash at all in such as relationship.

Speaking only for myself....none of the above influences whether or not I "put out". Not even an iota.

exactly

i'm offended by this.
and i'm too fucking lazy to explain why.

the concept is offensive. i don't have the time to invest in being offended though.

hahaha it's not

I have made exceptions to the rule, TMWFM (Master) i do work with.

Accidental, though.

I am surprised that some chicks are offended by my embracing my sexuality.

Really.

i don't think we are. however, if you truly enjoy it as much as you say (and i'm not denying you do), why do you have to pretend you're with someone else to get off? or is that what the slutty part is? if that's what gets you off, and this is what you embrace, cool beans. however, just because you do doesn't mean this applies to others, or that money needs to be a part of any sexual equation for us. we are all different.

 

[blunt_trauma]

the lifestyle works for some but...
red, you sound like you're trying too hard.
the 'all women do it!' justifications, the assertion that you're just more in touch than we are, that anyone questioning this is 'offended'...

honestly, red, i think so much of what you do (and what you don't do) stems from past pain.

 

[December]

The way I see it, true happiness equates to contentment. When you're content, you don't need to tell the world you're content.


Are you happy, content? Truly?

Someone told me once when I wasn't sure about something, to change my perspective and look at it again. I'll ask you to do the same. Picture you ten years ago, did you think you would be doing what you are doing now? How about ten years from now? Do you see yourself content with your current extra curricular activities then?

I think sometimes we go through phases, where we think we're happy, we may even actually be happy at that time, but those phases are not lasting.

I think right now you are intoxicated by the level of freedom you have, as well as the positive sexual attention you're receiving. The financial benefits are a nice bonus. But as with any other drug, you get high, but you must come down at some point.

I think the BDSM thing is you, I believe you genuinely enjoy it. The sugar daddy/ escort thing? I believe it is just a phase for you.

Nothing is as intoxicating as freedom.


Just my thoughts, based on what I know of you, based on my reading over your replies, based on my observations of human nature and all it's marvels.

 

[December]

to those that are offended, who am I hurting here?

Seems to me no one.

Who is the victim?

I believe they are trying to tell you that you are the victim.

 

[December]

Many people take dim views on prostitution because there are many women who have been victimized. But in this circumstance this woman has entered into this situation willingly. Her view is "I was gonna fuck anyway so why not make some cash". There is nothing wrong with that. Honestly, I doubt anybody here is in a position to cast stones regarding morality.

The part in bold would have been true and probably taken a lot better had Red not added the bit about thinking of some other man while she was with the grumpy guy. Is that situation still a case of "I was gonna fuck anyway.." I don't know about anyone else but if I have to fantasize about someone else, the dude I am with at the time is most certainly not someone I was "gonna fuck anyway."

I think that is where the thread really took a turn, that and the bit about entertaining out of town execs for a profit.

I don't think anyone here has a problem with a slut. Everyone loves a good slut, right? I don't think anyone here has a problem with Red being a filthy little slut. I think there are two issues here.

1. People have differing views on prostitution, and many differing reasons why they have those views. No matter what, there will always be some who just will not get past the idea of a prostitute being worthless and dirty.

2. Due to Red's emotional posts in the past, and the bit in this thread where she said she has to think of someone else while she is with one of these men, people want to save her. People see her as a victim, and want to help her. The problem with trying to save someone, is that not everyone wants to be saved, or at least not right then.

 

[richard_daily]

the lifestyle works for some but...
red, you sound like you're trying too hard.
the 'all women do it!' justifications, the assertion that you're just more in touch than we are, that anyone questioning this is 'offended'...

honestly, red, i think so much of what you do (and what you don't do) stems from past pain.

When a man sluts it up and fucks a lot of people, barely anyone would ever chalk it up to "past pain", but if a woman does the same thing, she's branded as "emotional troubled".

I know plenty of slutty women who have had no measurable trauma in their lives.... They just really, really like to fuck.

From where I'm sitting (with them previously riding me), that's not a bad thing.

 

[Killswitch]

When a man sluts it up and fucks a lot of people, barely anyone would ever chalk it up to "past pain", but if a woman does the same thing, she's branded as "emotional troubled".

I know plenty of slutty women who have had no measurable trauma in their lives.... They just really, really like to fuck.

From where I'm sitting (with them previously riding me), that's not a bad thing.

Red doesn't "Fuck" on her "dates." I also highly doubt she "escorts exclusive businessmen on dates out to dinner etc"

I can stay out of this longer if you all wish.

 

[richard_daily]

Red doesn't "Fuck" on her "dates"

I can stay pout of this longer if you all wish.

You've been pouting your whole life... why stop now???

 

[Killswitch]

You've been pouting your whole life... why stop now???

I'm just saying if you're all going to talk about this then put it in context.

It speaks volumes to what December, Dolf and others are pointing towards.

 

[richard_daily]

I'm just saying if you're all going to talk about this then put it in context.

It speaks volumes to what December, Dolf and others are pointing towards.

What, that I'm a slut?

Thanks for noticing!

 

[Fabala]

When a man sluts it up and fucks a lot of people, barely anyone would ever chalk it up to "past pain", but if a woman does the same thing, she's branded as "emotional troubled".

Actually, if a guy was posting about how his promiscuity = enlightenment and empowerment, I would question his emotional health and why he felt the need to seek empowerment and enlightenment with his cock. And, yes, the money aspect plays in.

Here's the deal.

If a woman says "My god, it feels good to be single. I cannot believe that at one point in my life I really planned to be monogamous forever! Holy crap. So I am having as much sex as possible. Figuring out what I like. What I want. What I'm attracted to. I'm not settling on any one man, and that makes me feel kind of dirty and slutty, but hey! I like that too. This is a pretty cool way to learn about myself and my desires."

That's one thing.

If a woman says "So, this being single thing is awesome. I have multiple partners, some men, some women. The men pay me. Which gives me a sense of power over them, which is also pretty awesome. Yeah, sometimes when I'm with one of the men who pays me, I fantasize about the ones who don't, so I can get off and make sure I stroke his ego enough that he keeps paying me, but hey, it's all part of the deal, right? And MAN, I cannot believe no one else has figured this out! I am so glad that I'm so enlightened, and all those other women? The ones who only get the occasional dinner bought for them, or who stay home doing nothing all day while I'm living the life? They have just succumbed to the Puritanical views that are SO last year. After all, this is the tail end of 2011 and I'm a powerful and amazing woman and everyone who doesn't agree with that is just jealous!"

Well, that's another thing entirely.