Slut as a lifestyle.

[blunt_trauma]

the part that makes me wonder about this is the frequent variations on the theme of, 'well all other women do it! ...sorta.'

people who are genuinely, 100%, totally, completely happy that what they're doing is great don't do the 'well everyone else does it!' thing.

 

[Fabala]

the part that makes me wonder about this is the frequent variations on the theme of, 'well all other women do it! ...sorta.'

people who are genuinely, 100%, totally, completely happy that what they're doing is great don't do the 'well everyone else does it!' thing.

Or the I'm ever so much more enlightened and in touch with myself and my needs than all of you thing.

 

[bill-pix-trade]

some say I should be ashamed, yet, I am not. It's empowering to embrace my inner slut.

Being single truly helps.

I have - at the moment - several on the line - chicks included.

Only on Lit could I do this.

2 sugar daddies, (one is on his way out cause he's grumpy!) One that satisfies my slutty BDSM needs, One that wants to rescue me, a lovely chick who's too damn young for me but keeps hitting on me, one that is purely vanilla, but wants to be the BOYFRIEND (not)...

If only I could bottle this, I'd be a rich woman.

Nothing wrong with this at all.

 

[Shagly]

No money in the stock market? No 401k?

Naaaaa......

I buy precious metals.

 

[Shagly]

I always wondered what made the "Happy hooker" happy.

 

[Fabala]

This is an example of an escort service. Glad we cleared this up.

Schematics.

 

[redheadedtxn]

First of all this is just MY opinion.......

Everyone can do what they want with their life...and what they need to do to get by....

I really had nothing to fault her about until this:

"And sometimes I entertain out of town execs for a bonus. Sex isn't always included in that situation, but I take them out, show them a good time."

I am not going to judge...it is what it is...but by my definition this is going beyond sugar daddies and is escorting/prostituting yourself.

If it works for you fine....I just know I couldn't wake up with a clean conscious every morning.

Again...just my take.

I'm a little surprised by some of the responses.
Who am I hurting? None of these dudes are married, after all.

Everyone is single, doing as they choose.

A victimless crime, I think.

I don't get the horror of it all.

 

[Fabala]

I'm a little surprised by some of the responses.
Who am I hurting? None of these dudes are married, after all.

Everyone is single, doing as they choose.

A victimless crime, I think.

I don't get the horror of it all.

Why do you keep projecting horror and outrage?

People are quite calmly and lucidly responding to your assertions. No one has come remotely close to horror.

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

I'm a little surprised by some of the responses.
Who am I hurting? None of these dudes are married, after all.

Everyone is single, doing as they choose.

A victimless crime, I think.

I don't get the horror of it all.

I maybe headed to Huston in a couple months. How much for your time and some butt sex? I'll need about 2 hours. Do you charge extra if I pee on you or is all donations inclusive?

Please respond with the appropriate amount of 's so we can confuse law enforcement.

 

[redheadedtxn]

I maybe headed to Huston in a couple months. How much for your time and some butt sex? I'll need about 2 hours. Do you charge extra if I pee on you or is all donations inclusive?

Please respond with the appropriate amount of 's so we can confuse law enforcement.

LOLs Nah, I don't fuck friends.

Even interweb ones. Against my rules.

 

[richard_daily]

sufisaint-

On having a Master-

Is'nt the dynamic different for someone in a Dominant and submissive relationship?

What each of them brings to the table has equal value. She hungers to be dominated. He hungers to dominate.
They are able to achieve perfect communication, and both of their desires and wants are- awakened and excited/ quenched and satisfied.

As to the exchange of money or gifts for a sexual experience, or an ongoing sexual relationship-

What is not being addressed is that they are sharing a sexual experiences, together.

Is'nt it possible, that the person getting paid to be there, might be enjoying a sexual experience and achieving sexual satisfaction?

Is it possible that the client brings equal sexual value to the table,
and has value to her, as a witness to her sexuality and sexual being?

And the dynamic of being paid to interact sexually on that level, might be a draw in itself,
That it is a unique situation, to be enjoyed for being that particular situation?

Maybe, someone can live their lives, sexually sharing with one person, that is the love of their lives.

That does not mean that it is a sexually and emotionally fulfilling situation for everyone on the planet.

Maybe, some people need to fulfill more aspects of themselves to be happy?

Very well said.

 

[redheadedtxn]

Why do you keep projecting horror and outrage?

People are quite calmly and lucidly responding to your assertions. No one has come remotely close to horror.

a couple people are obviously hurting from my side job. I meant no offense.

 

[richard_daily]

Naaaaa......

I buy precious metals.

Yeah, that's not gambling either...

 

[richard_daily]

LOLs Nah, I don't fuck friends.

Even interweb ones. Against my rules.

Booo!



Wait, a blowjob isn't fucking, right?

 

[redheadedtxn]

Booo!



Wait, a blowjob isn't fucking, right?

hahaha it's not

I have made exceptions to the rule, TMWFM (Master) i do work with.

Accidental, though.

I am surprised that some chicks are offended by my embracing my sexuality.

Really.

 

[Cade Is Here]

some say I should be ashamed, yet, I am not. It's empowering to embrace my inner slut.

Being single truly helps.

I have - at the moment - several on the line - chicks included.

Only on Lit could I do this.

2 sugar daddies, (one is on his way out cause he's grumpy!) One that satisfies my slutty BDSM needs, One that wants to rescue me, a lovely chick who's too damn young for me but keeps hitting on me, one that is purely vanilla, but wants to be the BOYFRIEND (not)...

If only I could bottle this, I'd be a rich woman.

Sluts can be fun

 

[redheadedtxn]

to those that are offended, who am I hurting here?

Seems to me no one.

Who is the victim?

 

[gotsnowgotslush]

A good date. A fun date. Amusing and entertaining.
He pays for the taxi fare, the limousine, the private jet.
He pays for the night's amusements and entertainments.
He pays for the fine dinner and drinks, brings a gift,
pays for the over night accommodations. Room service.

And thanks her for her time and effort to make it a pleasant date, with cash.

Uh-oh. The cash gift makes it a legal matter.

The big gotcha of the Patriarchy.

 

[Fabala]

hahaha it's not

I have made exceptions to the rule, TMWFM (Master) i do work with.

Accidental, though.

I am surprised that some chicks are offended by my embracing my sexuality.

Really.

Because no one was awed by your liberated and enlightened view of sexual empowerment?

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

to those that are offended, who am I hurting here?

Seems to me no one.

Who is the victim?

I am willing to be your victim

How many 's will it cost me for 2 hours of victimization?

 

[redheadedtxn]

I am willing to be your victim

How many 's will it cost me for 2 hours of victimization?

LOL don't fuck friends. Unless I want to ....

So, someone has gone from offended to "what's the problem?"

 

[richard_daily]

Because no one was awed by your liberated and enlightened view of sexual empowerment?

I can get that you feel that you've been there and done that...

But in your experiences, by your own admission, you didn't enjoy it, so ultimately, there's a huge difference.

I think that your statement that all women in the sex industry (which I don't think even applies to Red) are exploited is patently false.

I have known (and dated) women who were phone sex operators, dominatrixes, web cam girls, porn, and one or two who probably turned a few tricks in their time...

With maybe a couple exceptions, almost none of them were being exploited any more than any person who works for a living. In fact, most of them were probably exploited far less, as they were mostly their own bosses, except for the women that worked at professional dungeons.

From my vantage point, jobs in the sex industry offer a level of freedom that is generally not seen.

Now, here's my problem with the sex industry, and it's not really related to the sex industry at all... It's one of the only places where a woman's work is valued (i.e.; paid more) more greatly than a man's. However, I think that's more of a comment on society as a whole, rather than the sex industry.

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

LOL don't fuck friends. Unless I want to ....

So, someone has gone from offended to "what's the problem?"

It's because I'm short ain't it ?

Bitch

 

[Shagly]

Wave a Lonestar in front of a Redheadedtxn and see what happens.

 

[redheadedtxn]

It's because I'm short ain't it ?

Bitch

come sit on my lap and let me pat your head.