A Dom in search of his sub...
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switchbitch
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goodluck on your quest
in_oral_office
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Excellent pastime
nisha_in61
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A bump from India
softsweetsexyme
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bump 
Good luck!
Good luck!iamsamantha
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A bump to one of the truly good guys and Doms in Lit. Good luck.
Sam
Sam
barelytrained
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awww, the I will bump it for you too! Truly good guys and Doms are hard to find. Good Luck!
boredVAwife
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What does your sub look like? Maybe I can help you look? I once put a pepperoni sub in my desk and forgot about for a week or so. ewwww 
dreamykitten2
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Bump!
Ladies he is a good guy! He was there when I needed someone to listen!
Steele I wish u to find her. The one who is right for you! I wish you a swift search!
Dreamykitten2:
Ladies he is a good guy! He was there when I needed someone to listen!
Steele I wish u to find her. The one who is right for you! I wish you a swift search!
Dreamykitten2:barelytrained
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Bump for a really great Dom
Wow...all the love
I want to thank everyone for all the love! I took some time off, had a death in the family and some significant health problems with another member. So although it would have been great to have an established sub during this time, it certainly wasn't the time to be looking. But I am back!
It appears to me that all the terrific subbies that I've met are hooked up with deserving Doms, but I appreciate the support!! The new subbies generally make the mistake of posting for a Master and get the Trolls in great numbers. They end up not being able to see the forest for the trees.
So, I'm officially out looking.....hope to find you little one...
Steel
I want to thank everyone for all the love! I took some time off, had a death in the family and some significant health problems with another member. So although it would have been great to have an established sub during this time, it certainly wasn't the time to be looking. But I am back!
It appears to me that all the terrific subbies that I've met are hooked up with deserving Doms, but I appreciate the support!! The new subbies generally make the mistake of posting for a Master and get the Trolls in great numbers. They end up not being able to see the forest for the trees.
So, I'm officially out looking.....hope to find you little one...
Steel
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Good luck in your search.
I know where you are coming from with this. I had an online 10 year relationship with a wonderful man. Why online? Due to our location and individual circumstances, it was the way it had to be. He helped me realise what I was sexually, and to be excited by feelings of submission was perfectly okay. I learnt so much from him, and we supported one another through some tough off line life happenings. We had an amazing bond and he came to know my mind better than anyone. It's never going to be as rewarding as offline, but it worked for us in our own way. It came to an end 18 months ago when he died from cancer. I still miss him, but he'd tell me to move on and not be 'soft' lol. Then he'd say, "gis us a kiss, hon."
All the best, and do what is right for you.
J
I know where you are coming from with this. I had an online 10 year relationship with a wonderful man. Why online? Due to our location and individual circumstances, it was the way it had to be. He helped me realise what I was sexually, and to be excited by feelings of submission was perfectly okay. I learnt so much from him, and we supported one another through some tough off line life happenings. We had an amazing bond and he came to know my mind better than anyone. It's never going to be as rewarding as offline, but it worked for us in our own way. It came to an end 18 months ago when he died from cancer. I still miss him, but he'd tell me to move on and not be 'soft' lol. Then he'd say, "gis us a kiss, hon."
All the best, and do what is right for you.
J
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Jewdles,
Thank you for the wishes and for sharing your story. I know how hard that must have been to lose your Master. I'm sure having you was a comfort to him.
I believe in the uniqueness of the on-line form of this lifestyle although I admit it is different than real life. But you get to know the mind and heart of your sub (and for the sub, the Dom). It has a place when r/l isn't possible.
All my best!
Steel
Thank you for the wishes and for sharing your story. I know how hard that must have been to lose your Master. I'm sure having you was a comfort to him.
I believe in the uniqueness of the on-line form of this lifestyle although I admit it is different than real life. But you get to know the mind and heart of your sub (and for the sub, the Dom). It has a place when r/l isn't possible.
All my best!
Steel
Hi Steel,
It was very hard indeed. But he'd been sick for a while, and while most of the time chose to fight to live and not dwell on the possibility of dying, I did get the chance to tell him in a conversation how much he'd meant to me. I also wrote a farewell email, and that was devastating. It was hard wanting to curl up next to him, stroke his head and just be there for him, but that was not possible. We lived across the world from one another.
You're right that you do get to know someone so well via this medium. The only way to communicate is to write, or talk, thereby learning about one another constantly. It upsets me when I sometimes see people writing that it's not a real relationship, and placing no value on it. Relationships come in all forms, and while not the ideal, online can create an extremely strong bond between two people. Marc was my heart and my soul. I didn't need to see him to feel his love and support.
We were two people both caught in unhappy marriages, but had both made the choice to stay there for various reasons. We set the ground rules down from Day 1, so being together permanently was never discussed. My marriage did break up, not because of Marc, and at that time he took a step back to give me the freedom to find someone in my life. We then became platonic (with a bit of flirting thrown in) friends. He was a special man indeed.
The one thing I would stress to those finding some happiness in an online relationship, is once secure in what you have, make sure one confidante has the email address of your online partner in case of accident, or as in my case, death. That was so hard just knowing the day he stopped writing he was about to die. That truly broke my heart.
Thank you for the chance to express my love for one of the most special men I've ever known.
J
It was very hard indeed. But he'd been sick for a while, and while most of the time chose to fight to live and not dwell on the possibility of dying, I did get the chance to tell him in a conversation how much he'd meant to me. I also wrote a farewell email, and that was devastating. It was hard wanting to curl up next to him, stroke his head and just be there for him, but that was not possible. We lived across the world from one another.
You're right that you do get to know someone so well via this medium. The only way to communicate is to write, or talk, thereby learning about one another constantly. It upsets me when I sometimes see people writing that it's not a real relationship, and placing no value on it. Relationships come in all forms, and while not the ideal, online can create an extremely strong bond between two people. Marc was my heart and my soul. I didn't need to see him to feel his love and support.
We were two people both caught in unhappy marriages, but had both made the choice to stay there for various reasons. We set the ground rules down from Day 1, so being together permanently was never discussed. My marriage did break up, not because of Marc, and at that time he took a step back to give me the freedom to find someone in my life. We then became platonic (with a bit of flirting thrown in) friends. He was a special man indeed.
The one thing I would stress to those finding some happiness in an online relationship, is once secure in what you have, make sure one confidante has the email address of your online partner in case of accident, or as in my case, death. That was so hard just knowing the day he stopped writing he was about to die. That truly broke my heart.
Thank you for the chance to express my love for one of the most special men I've ever known.
J
iamsamantha
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Bump for Steel...come-on subbies...grab a good Dom while he's still looking!
Sam
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