The Men who Crave Cock but aren't attracted to Men Club!

[Dan629655]

Not sure where the urge came from in the beginning, but since I tried it and it felt so natural, I love it and want it more all the time. I think part of it is just that a cock feels good in a mouth, and part of it is that I get off knowing that I'm helping another man get off.

 

[StacyCD39]

It's the idea of giving so selflessly that also is a huge turn-on for me. I wish I could meet a guy who was into t-girls/crossdressers.

 

[420allday]

It's the idea of giving so selflessly that also is a huge turn-on for me. I wish I could meet a guy who was into t-girls/crossdressers.

Hello? Hello? right here, sweetie!

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[smoothpetrous69]

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[liteman7]

I have to ask what was with her cock? too small? not there?

 

[smoothpetrous69]

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[Cabeza]

I think part of it is that our first sexual experiences are playing with cocks (our own). I think that identification of hard cock with sex never goes away, but some of us recognize / accept it, some don't.

 

[Hermes13uk]

I never have.

I can honestly say, however, that the drive to do it comes from first and foremost, me loving men, especially, the penis. Personally, I believe that it's a sexy, magnificent work of art.

But as far as actually sucking it goes, I think for me, it's the idea of taking the most sensitive part of a man, the vehicle who's purpose is to transmit and conceive his children into the part of my body who's purpose is to provide sustenance, is wonderfully erotic, and a truly beautiful expression of love.

If, and when I do finally find a man, I know that he'll have a very difficult time convincing me to show him how much I love him in other ways than just making love to him with my mouth!

Hey, I see your posts quite a lot (because we must visit the same threads) and I was wondering if you actually have sucked a cock before, or is it just fantasy?

I'm just like the OP, I'm not attracted to men at all and I could never kiss or fuck one, but I really want to suck a cock. The strange part is that I couldn't suck a cock as myself, because in my head it's a man sucking a man, which is weird, but if I looked like a woman i'd do it all day long. I'm strange.

 

[lmDante]

I really think this urge to suck cock is something natural. I always feltthe will to suck my own cock. That is where it comes from. The feeling of having some cock in the mouth is amazing.

When i was a kid i tried many times to suck my own dick but only could lick the head. It was very froustrating.

Actually i have sucked only one dick my whole life (my boyfriend's)

as a man i think all the time about sucking other guys, but i would not do this without his approval.

I feel i'm gonna have to convice him to find some guy we could suck together or something like that. But i fear that i could get addicted to it.

:/

 

[hubbywant2share]

When I was 9 a teen in the neighborhood made me suck his cock. After that I spent alot of time trying to suck my own. Now from time to time I see a beautiful cock online that makes my mouth water......and I don't find men attractive at all

 

[Stella_Omega]

When I was 9 a teen in the neighborhood made me suck his cock. After that I spent alot of time trying to suck my own. Now from time to time I see a beautiful cock online that makes my mouth water......and I don't find men attractive at all

What else do you compartmentalise?

 

[Que]

What else do you compartmentalise?

Astute observation....I was once (with my then supportive wife) a pretty active member of a CD and family support community. It never made sense to me as a mostly straight CD (which believe me made me wonder a lot about compartmentalization myself) the CD's who would report they were "Bi only when dressed."

On the other hand I was distressingly asexual when dressed, so, ~shrug~ to each his/her/hur defense mechanisms.

 

[Stella_Omega]

... ~shrug~ to each his/her/hur defense mechanisms.

What would society do without them!

 

[Bicur_IA]

When I was 9 a teen in the neighborhood made me suck his cock. After that I spent alot of time trying to suck my own. Now from time to time I see a beautiful cock online that makes my mouth water......and I don't find men attractive at all

I had a similar experience when I was about 13. Sucked another boy my age a few times that summer, then didn't even think about again until I was about 40. Not attracted to men at all, but feeling a thick hard cock cumming in my mouth feels sooo good.

 

[gregy70]

I'm not attracted to men but I get the urge to suck on a big fat cock. Then again I feel I couldn't live without orally servicing a woman.

 

[StacyCD39]

Hey, I see your posts quite a lot (because we must visit the same threads) and I was wondering if you actually have sucked a cock before, or is it just fantasy?

It's just a fantasy right now. Believe me, when I finally meet the man of my dreams and I get to suck him for the first time, it's probably going to be the most wonderful experience of my life...

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

She won't.

She'll have a dick and an asshole, just like you do. She will either be a transsexual-- meaning a WOMAN who has not been able to get the money together for the very expensive operations she needs to make her body look right-- or else she'll be a MAN who has silicone boobs and no womanly qualities otherwise.

And if silicone boobs make you believe you're with a woman... I've got a very pretty bridge to sell you.

Now why would an otherwise straight man want to suck a cock? Because sexual pleasure comes in hundreds of different flavors.
Very very few men are truly Gold Star Straight, and the sooner men start figuring that out the better off we will all be, especially those of us who get bashed for being gay.

And you know this how?

That is a fairly generalized statement that you cannot possibly support. I can honestly state I have never once had a sexual thought about another man and I am sure I am not that rare. I have nothing against anybodies sexual persuasion but such sweeping statements are a bit ridiculous.

 

[kreampye]

And you know this how?

That is a fairly generalized statement that you cannot possibly support. I can honestly state I have never once had a sexual thought about another man and I am sure I am not that rare. I have nothing against anybodies sexual persuasion but such sweeping statements are a bit ridiculous.

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You make a good point. I would go further as to classification. I've had occasional thoughts of murder. Does that make me some percent a murderer? Have I lost the right to call myself, truly, a "Gold Star" NON murdering person?

 

[cardiboy]

Hi, me too. I think with me it is cock envy. Any guy with a nice looking cock, that is bigger than mine (easy done) deserves to be sucked off

 

[cardiboy]

Hi, me too. I think with me it is cock envy. Any guy with a nice looking cock, that is bigger than mine (easy done) deserves to be sucked off

Oops, sorry, posted twice, bit eager !

 

[Tryit74]

Well, he doesnt have to be bigger than me, but do like the looks of a big one. I guess what looks good to someone is subjective , but I agree, all guys with a good looking cock do deserve to be sucked off.

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

What is the mystery?

You are bisexual. If you are having thoughts of men sexually you are most likely bisexual even if you have not acted on it.

Straight guys do not have sexual thoughts about other dudes. Nothing wrong with being Bi but it is not a mystery.

 

[Tryit74]

What is the mystery?

You are bisexual. If you are having thoughts of men sexually you are most likely bisexual even if you have not acted on it.

Straight guys do not have sexual thoughts about other dudes. Nothing wrong with being Bi but it is not a mystery.

Oh wow. Really? I'm so glad to learn that it's so cut and dried. I'm gradually starting to admit to myself that I am bi, but it's not really so simple. I think what alot of guys have trouble coming to terms with is the fact that there is absolutely no other attraction towards men, sexual or otherwise.

Anyhow, thanks a million for clearing that all up for us.

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

Oh wow. Really? I'm so glad to learn that it's so cut and dried. I'm gradually starting to admit to myself that I am bi, but it's not really so simple. I think what alot of guys have trouble coming to terms with is the fact that there is absolutely no other attraction towards men, sexual or otherwise.

Anyhow, thanks a million for clearing that all up for us.

Yes it really is that simple. I think what they have trouble coming to grips with is their bisexuality. It is really no different then straight woman who hate men but love the cock. Just because you want to make more a mystery of things than they are does not make it so.

Psychologically speaking you are either bi, gay or straight. There are no sub-categories.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Actually there are many subcategories.

Most people fit into the many variants of bisexuality. The genuinely monosexual (a new word y'all!) who are one hundred percent, Gold Star gay or straight are a teensy minority. "Bisexual" encompasses a huge swath of humanity.