New Rule

[masha223]

Hello to all, I'm new here.

I've been seeing someone for a while now, and we've moved to a D/s type relationship. Today he presented me with a new rule: every time we meet, I am to be on my knees sucking him within five minutes. I have no problem complying with this rule, but what about when we meet in public? Although I have a great sexual interest in exhibitionism, surely we can't go at it in the middle of Nordstrom. I am racking my brain to be prepared for things that will come up, but what are some places other than the car, the bathroom, a changing room, etc. that we could sneak off to?


Thank you in advance for your help. Hopefully someone has some past experience with this.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I'm afraid this question has as many answers as there are places for you to meet at.

Be aware that dressing rooms and bathrooms in public places may very well have security cameras to prevent shoplifting. Times have changed...

How about a forfeit for those occasions when you can't comply? You get buttfucked PLUS you still owe him the blowjob everytime you can't comply. This means that the next time you see him in private, you owe him TWO bjs, plus a buttfucking. Hope he has a short refractory period!

 

[Kajira Callista]

I'm afraid this question has as many answers as there are places for you to meet at.

Be aware that dressing rooms and bathrooms in public places may very well have security cameras to prevent shoplifting. Times have changed...

How about a forfeit for those occasions when you can't comply? You get buttfucked PLUS you still owe him the blowjob everytime you can't comply. This means that the next time you see him in private, you owe him TWO bjs, plus a buttfucking. Hope he has a short refractory period!

mmmmm private public places with cameras are a way hot thing

 

[HottieMama]

As someone who has spent a LOT of time working in retail, I would strongly caution you against restrooms and fitting rooms in stores. Most of them have security cameras at the entrance which record who is going in and out. (So you don't take merch. in the bathroom and so that men don't go in the ladies fitting room/or ladies rest room.) The cameras are constantly viewed by security and the execution of your rule could be ruined by security guards at best, or the police at worst.

You need to discuss an alternative with him for those times where you will be meeting in public.

 

[the captians wench]

I've had a few Domly types give instructions like this. At first I got panicy and racked my brain to figure out how I could comply. Then I decided to just ask, "well what if my mom is over when you pop up?". Most of the responces I've gotten have been "don't be daft" and gone on to the "when we are alone/in private", though I do like Stella's idea.

Anyway, I'd ask what he expects first off. He might not even be expecting you to crawl under the table at that fancy eatery, but then he might.

 

[CutieMouse]

Or he may have made the rule when thinking of the kinky hawtness, instead of the realities of what the hawtness really means. Ask for clarification re: public / family/friends present / etc. and reach an agreement (Stella's of otherwise).

And as another person who works in retail (in a lingerie shop no less)... don't use the dressing rooms. Doing so disrupts my ability to make money [taking a dressing room out of commission for paying clients], and places me in the uncomfortable position of having to both politely kick your asses out of the store and report you to security.

 

[Kajira Callista]

You guys are so unfun

 

[Stella_Omega]

mmmmm private public places with cameras are a way hot thing

I have a plot bunny waiting based on this... But it takes place after hours.

Or he may have made the rule when thinking of the kinky hawtness, instead of the realities of what the hawtness really means. Ask for clarification re: public / family/friends present / etc. and reach an agreement (Stella's or otherwise).

And as another person who works in retail (in a lingerie shop no less)... don't use the dressing rooms. Doing so disrupts my ability to make money [taking a dressing room out of commission for paying clients], and places me in the uncomfortable position of having to both politely kick your asses out of the store and report you to security.

IMO, it falls into the "hold my beer and watch this" category of men's good ideas

 

[eastern sun]

We've gotten around this kind of thing by joking with it.

So, for instance, we'll meet in a public place and I start moving to my knees in the midst of a crowd. It turns into a game of chicken to see who's going to back off first.

Or we'll substitute a gesture - like me licking my fingers - or him pointing to the floor.

You don't actually have to do the dirty to express your willingness to. Make it fun.

 

[the captians wench]

We've gotten around this kind of thing by joking with it.

So, for instance, we'll meet in a public place and I start moving to my knees in the midst of a crowd. It turns into a game of chicken to see who's going to back off first.

Or we'll substitute a gesture - like me licking my fingers - or him pointing to the floor.

You don't actually have to do the dirty to express your willingness to. Make it fun.

I've done this in some of my more cheeky moments.

He says "blow me"

I say "okay, drop your pants"

He motions to unbuckle his belt.

I bend my knees as if to kneel.

We laugh and he turns away and we carry on about our shopping. Great fun, and still legal.

 

[Primalex]

And as another person who works in retail (in a lingerie shop no less)... don't use the dressing rooms. Doing so disrupts my ability to make money [taking a dressing room out of commission for paying clients], and places me in the uncomfortable position of having to both politely kick your asses out of the store and report you to security.

Humrph...
There goes my dream of CM joining my wife and me in the dressing room.

 

[GrimsPet]

First, I work retail and have worked in several establishments of various kinds and sex in the bathroom or dressing room would get you in a heck of a lot of hot water. Several long years ago now when I worked at Michaels, one of the other girls who worked there came rushing into the stockroom all into a twitter, "You won't believe this!" I turned around, "What?" "The assistant Manager just caught a guy and girl in the bathroom, she was sitting on the sink and they were making out.." I think my jaw hit the floor. My understanding was they were kicked out of the store.

Second, Master has never really come up with anything that I must do every time I see him. This is probably for the best, though I know if I were there and he came home from work, I would expect myself to kneel at his feet. I know it is something he would want. He doesn't have to command it of me, he's got it already. What follows after the kneeling I guess would depend on his mood and how hungry he was (All innuendo and shades of meaning totally meant...).

What I think you need to do is sit down with your Master and ask him what the exceptions are, and if he expects such things in public or not, that way you know what to expect. If he does want it in public then you need to negotiate how to take care of that without landing yourselves in the Hoosegow for indecent exposure. I'm sure your Master doesn't want to be in a cell with an inmate named Bubba who wants him to drop the bar of soap...

 

[bambikiller]

Simple:
Ask for direction in exactly what he means by this.
I being a pirvate person and not want to exspose myself or anyone who I was in a relationship with to posibly being exsposed to the pubic.
I would have given you more information.

I.E. when I come over to your place and you are not with a family member.
Or when you come over to my place and no one else is over.
But I'd state that you were to be naked too.
But what ever.
Ask him to clearify his statement.

If you were wondering about my statement about your place and a non family member is there, well then I'd say you could have asked them to leave and if not then you need to be punished.

 

[Etoile]

BTW, if you doubted the stories of dressing room cameras, maybe the news media will convince you:
http://www.wtsp.com/news/article/20...expose-privacy-problem-in-Macys-fitting-rooms

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

BTW, if you doubted the stories of dressing room cameras, maybe the news media will convince you:
http://www.wtsp.com/news/article/20...expose-privacy-problem-in-Macys-fitting-rooms

The story isn't about cameras, but rather being able to see through the slats in the door cause they're reversed.

Which means ANYONE can look in and see you naked. YAY!

 

[chaoticDeviance]

I just don't think I am submissive when I read stuff like this, cuz basically....If someone told me this I'd prolly reply, "And I want to own a private island in the Bahamas'."

You are definitely a better submissive than I!

 

[BiBunny]

I just don't think I am submissive when I read stuff like this, cuz basically....If someone told me this I'd prolly reply, "And I want to own a private island in the Bahamas'."

You are definitely a better submissive than I!

God, I feel the same way.

"Shit in one hand and want in the other one, motherfucker, and see which one fills up faster."

I just do not have the patience with stupidity to let the submissive side out anymore.

 

[chaoticDeviance]

God, I feel the same way.

"Shit in one hand and want in the other one, motherfucker, and see which one fills up faster."

I just do not have the patience with stupidity to let the submissive side out anymore.

lololol! Agree@!!

 

[DVS]

God, I feel the same way.

"Shit in one hand and want in the other one, motherfucker, and see which one fills up faster."

I just do not have the patience with stupidity to let the submissive side out anymore.

While I see some relationships can be like this, I'm not that way. I can see this being some man's dream of power over his woman but to me, it seems like a bit much. It has overtones of some online suedo dom of gor, "You will never make eye contact. You will always walk 3 paces behind me. You will never wear slacks or panties and you will always keep your legs apart, for my easy access". All this, after the first meeting.

I'd rather bring the topic up without any warning. Then, does she get on her knees without thinking, or does she hesitate? If there's no hesitation, now that's dominant power, baby! Either that, or she's a slut and just likes to suck cock any time she gets the chance.

 

[chaoticDeviance]

It has overtones of some online suedo dom of gor, "You will never make eye contact. You will always walk 3 paces behind me. You will never wear slacks or panties and you will always keep your legs apart, for my easy access". All this, after the first meeting.

I have to agree with this and loved it also. LoL!