Goddess & Bequ's BBW Boudoir

[drtshare]

We were just discussing it. I think we have a disconnect on definitions. Maybe you can help on this one Fred. I think Raja feels "control" is pleasing the other person...putting my needs before his. While I see control as, for lack of a better definition, lack of free will. What is your take on this?

it is both but its in fact trust the other to know how much free will to control of the other to share and grown the limits. So it is trust... when she need to you take control she is giving you control and need for you to trust yourself and push her to her limits... you will know when you are to far.. reason for safe word... and trust you will know when she needs to use it

 

[GoddessHathor]

it is both but its in fact trust the other to know how much free will to control of the other to share and grown the limits. So it is trust... when she need to you take control she is giving you control and need for you to trust yourself and push her to her limits... you will know when you are to far.. reason for safe word... and trust you will know when she needs to use it

Agreed...it all has to start with trust. And we just discussed that. He said that as bad as it sounds, he has to learn to trust me more. To KNOW that I would never do anything to intentionally hurt him. We also discussed the typical male stereotypes of a man being subservient to a woman. It all factors in. But, and this part worries me a bit. He said, "While you are teaching me to loose control, I'll be learning how to TAKE control." LMAO

 

[drtshare]

Agreed...it all has to start with trust. And we just discussed that. He said that as bad as it sounds, he has to learn to trust me more. To KNOW that I would never do anything to intentionally hurt him. We also discussed the typical male stereotypes of a man being subservient to a woman. It all factors in. But, and this part worries me a bit. He said, "While you are teaching me to loose control, I'll be learning how to TAKE control." LMAO

LOL just remember its the trust going both ways

so enjoy

hugs

fred

 

[GoddessHathor]

Yup - something we are BOTH going to have to work on. But not tonight apparently. Someone worked all day/night and he's getting in the shower before we head to bed. So I'll be signing off soon myself. Appreciate all your thoughts Fred! You are a wise evil man.

 

[GoddessHathor]

Good morning all my pervs and pervettes!

Hope you are all staying cool, wet and hard.

 

[TageRyche]

Good morning all my pervs and pervettes!

Hope you are all staying cool, wet and hard.

Stayed cool, but wet and hard was not in the cards...guess I should've come here and ogled your pics.

 

[GoddessHathor]

Stayed cool, but wet and hard was not in the cards...guess I should've come here and ogled your pics.

LOL Well...I'm glad you stayed cool anyway. We weren't so lucky. We ended up wet....but not in the good way. Think we both tossed and turned all night because of the heat. I hate summer.

 

[TheGreatRaja]

and now she be teasing me! Running around all sexy and naked as she preps for work. I keep telling her I can make her late for work is she wants *eg*

 

[goatchick1]

hi goddess and raja...rific.....i am off now for 3 days..yahooooo! i hope y'all are okay, we're all hangin in there, this heat and humidity is pretty oppressive tho. talk to y'all later i hope...gc

 

[GoddessHathor]

Whew! Glad to be home in what meager A/C we have and out of that pressure cooker called the outdoors! YIKES! Our area is under a heat advisory until tomorrow at midnight. Have I mentioned how much I HATE summer. ICK!!!!

Anyway, hope you all had a great start to the week!

GC - Sorry to hear you are cooking like us (hey - we all knew you were hot..but keep the radiant heat out of Illinois...kay...thx! LOL), but glad to hear you have 3 days off...WHOO HOOO!!!!

 

[drtshare]

Whew! Glad to be home in what meager A/C we have and out of that pressure cooker called the outdoors! YIKES! Our area is under a heat advisory until tomorrow at midnight. Have I mentioned how much I HATE summer. ICK!!!!

Anyway, hope you all had a great start to the week!

GC - Sorry to hear you are cooking like us (hey - we all knew you were hot..but keep the radiant heat out of Illinois...kay...thx! LOL), but glad to hear you have 3 days off...WHOO HOOO!!!!

yes its hot 109 heat index sunday and 101 now . hope you stay cool being naked helps...

fred

 

[GoddessHathor]

yes its hot 109 heat index sunday and 101 now . hope you stay cool being naked helps...

fred

Our heat index was supposed to get to 115 today..not sure if it ever made it there, but it sure felt like it! And yes, dear Fred...I am...well...mostly naked. Have to keep at least a top on because we have very large windows and live on the busiest intersection in town....While you guys might appreciate the view, I don't think others would. LOL

 

[drtshare]

Our heat index was supposed to get to 115 today..not sure if it ever made it there, but it sure felt like it! And yes, dear Fred...I am...well...mostly naked. Have to keep at least a top on because we have very large windows and live on the busiest intersection in town....While you guys might appreciate the view, I don't think others would. LOL

love the view with or without top on...WOW

fred

 

[GoddessHathor]

love the view with or without top on...WOW

fred

Thank you...but like Raja...you are biased.

 

[drtshare]

Thank you...but like Raja...you are biased.

hey no I'm ..^&% wait yes I'm.... &*^%$$ honry too. love to see all of you

fred

 

[GoddessHathor]

hey no I'm ..^&% wait yes I'm.... &*^%$$ honry too. love to see all of you

fred

LOL You can always make me smile Fred!

 

[goatchick1]

Whew! Glad to be home in what meager A/C we have and out of that pressure cooker called the outdoors! YIKES! Our area is under a heat advisory until tomorrow at midnight. Have I mentioned how much I HATE summer. ICK!!!!

Anyway, hope you all had a great start to the week!

GC - Sorry to hear you are cooking like us (hey - we all knew you were hot..but keep the radiant heat out of Illinois...kay...thx! LOL), but glad to hear you have 3 days off...WHOO HOOO!!!!

hi goddess....we have been in the 100's for about 5 weeks now...its been devastating. we might have a shower movin in now tho, at least clouds and thunder, still 93 in my bedroom but was 98 earlier so i'll take it. lost a goatbabygirl over the weekend, born friday in the heat and she just never came around much, we bottle fed her for a day then she just died. always sad. i am thrilled to be off for a few days now tho, not sleepin durin the day so good.

 

[GoddessHathor]

hi goddess....we have been in the 100's for about 5 weeks now...its been devastating. we might have a shower movin in now tho, at least clouds and thunder, still 93 in my bedroom but was 98 earlier so i'll take it. lost a goatbabygirl over the weekend, born friday in the heat and she just never came around much, we bottle fed her for a day then she just died. always sad. i am thrilled to be off for a few days now tho, not sleepin durin the day so good.

Damn! I'm sorry GC! Those temps are one of the reasons Illinois is about as far south as I will go. I'd prefer Alaska, but Raja is too much of a warm weather person.

 

[goatchick1]

Damn! I'm sorry GC! Those temps are one of the reasons Illinois is about as far south as I will go. I'd prefer Alaska, but Raja is too much of a warm weather person.

lolol, yeah, i found some "experience frigid alaska" brocheres hid in the goathouse over the weekend....and several cruise brocheres for "traveling to alaska".....they may be plannin something!

 

[GoddessHathor]

lolol, yeah, i found some "experience frigid alaska" brocheres hid in the goathouse over the weekend....and several cruise brocheres for "traveling to alaska".....they may be plannin something!

The smart goats are trying to tell ya somethin! LOL There ya go...we'll plan a Lit Cruise to Alaska. LMAO

(I can see Raja wincing when he reads this. )

 

[goatchick1]

The smart goats are trying to tell ya somethin! LOL There ya go...we'll plan a Lit Cruise to Alaska. LMAO

(I can see Raja wincing when he reads this. )

right now that sounds awesome, so chilly and keepin each other warm......

 

[GoddessHathor]

right now that sounds awesome, so chilly and keepin each other warm......

Now you got it! After all...eskimos say you have to get naked and snuggle up to share body warmth. And if some hands, fingers, tongues and other various body parts do some roaming in the process....all the better!

 

[goatchick1]

Now you got it! After all...eskimos say you have to get naked and snuggle up to share body warmth. And if some hands, fingers, tongues and other various body parts do some roaming in the process....all the better!

just all part of the warmin process.....

 

[GoddessHathor]

just all part of the warmin process.....

The fun part!!!!

 

[goatchick1]

you and raja havin a nice evening? how did the car situation turn out?