Male Submissives

[newenglandbiguy]

Any other male Submissives out there?

Tonight my wife had her way with me. Dressed in hot pink panties, she attached purple vibrating nipple clips and pinched and pulled repeatedly. She made me jerk off for her but I was not allowed to cum until after she took me in my ass with a dildo. I had to beg and plead repeatedly for her to let me cum, which she graciously allowed at the very end of the session.

She also made me post this story for all of you to read.

Any similar stories to share?

 

[TheLM]

Nothing quite so elaborate, but I have sub/dom tendencies that change with my mood. My last GF was VERY excited by this, and though we never got a strapon we had a lot of fun exploring things..

(Pic from my thread)
http://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=1074354&d=1305426903

 

[gregor2001us]

Raises my hand.

I am not allowed to play with myself, so the only stimulation I get is by her hand. I never know when I will be allowed to climax. Frequently I get teased and denied, sometimes for several weeks at a time.

Our typical lovemaking is for me to give her a leg massage, while she casually strokes me. Then I am allowed to press my nose into her pussy for a few minutes, breathing deeply. Then i give her a back massage, with my penis touching her pussy. Then I lick and finger her to climax, while she strokes my penis. Then she edges me over and over while my face is pressed against her pussy.

Cheers!

 

[Davesmith42]

Lucky man

 

[big_heart_nerd]

I am tottaly summisive, not in a BDSM way or in a S&M way, but I would not mind being tied up and letting a woman ride me till I pass out then wake up to her still on me, I just like women that take charge and get what they want

 

[MoleskineScribbler]

My desire (or one of them!) is to be a submissive male to a couple. The idea of being a slave doesn't appeal, but to serve would be my pleasure. Some day!

 

[bronco20]

ive wanted to explore my submissive fantasies with a female domme, but havent had the chance yet....

 

[Daveinport]

I have always fantasized about being with a dominant woman but not in the bdsm sense. I don't find it all that erotic to be deprived of any pleasure or verbally abused...rather a woman that does to me what she wants, has me do or tells me directly to do things to her and being totally unreserved in controlling the situation. Okay maybe handcuffs wouldn't such a bad thing. lol

 

[big_heart_nerd]

ive wanted to explore my submissive fantasies with a female domme, but havent had the chance yet....

me either it seems most females want male dommes

 

[Rembrandt500]

I am tottaly summisive, not in a BDSM way or in a S&M way, but I would not mind being tied up and letting a woman ride me till I pass out then wake up to her still on me, I just like women that take charge and get what they want

This.

I don't like the whole S&M thing either but I wouldn't mind being cuffed. I too love to serve women who take charge - dominant women are just so fucking amazing.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I think most of us want to be the bottom at first -- we all of us crave that much attention be paid to us. What's great is when you start to realise that what feels so very good to you might also feel good to the person who's doing unto you, and you and they can start to take turns.

I know this isn't the current mode of thought. People believe that they are submissive for ever and ever. I don't think that many of us are "Submissive" much at all, we all want what we want.

 

[saskatuna1]

I think most of us want to be the bottom at first -- we all of us crave that much attention be paid to us. What's great is when you start to realise that what feels so very good to you might also feel good to the person who's doing unto you, and you and they can start to take turns.

I know this isn't the current mode of thought. People believe that they are submissive for ever and ever. I don't think that many of us are "Submissive" much at all, we all want what we want.

well said, and too true. Why limit yourself?

 

[Licia]

My philosophy: a person can never be a competent top/domme (insert title here) without having the experience of a bottom/subbie (insert title here) first. I tend to agree with Stella that we all want what we want. I can understand WHY someone might like to be humiliated in the bedroom, but the scope is limited for me. I will never sacrafice my ideals about humanity just so a guy can get off.

Maybe the reason for "preferring" a dominant woman is because she's fully confident about what she likes, has no qualms getting what she wants, and...she wants to play with "you"? Not that subs aren't sure of what they want or can't be confident because of their "position", it's just a mirror image. My hubby describes it as having full permission to play with a woman he thinks is out of his league. It's a strange concept for me but an ego boost nonetheless.

 

[CandiCame]

Kinda what Stella said- I'm an attention whore but also... I just get off way harder as a bottom... I don't know; I like the whole deal. That's just me.

 

[BeeBeestoy]

I think most of us want to be the bottom at first -- we all of us crave that much attention be paid to us. What's great is when you start to realise that what feels so very good to you might also feel good to the person who's doing unto you, and you and they can start to take turns.

I know this isn't the current mode of thought. People believe that they are submissive for ever and ever. I don't think that many of us are "Submissive" much at all, we all want what we want.

Yet again I have to agree with you. We have found of late that while I enjoy a women that knows what she wants and takes it or demands it. There are times when she herself wants to be taken. She of course stays in control, with biting or a slap, but still taken. Does this make since?

 

[strapon_tales]

I'm fifty-fifty. A lot of the time, I'm quite dominant, but there are times when I just want to be used in every manner by my girl. I think what I dig is less the attention-whore-y aspects (mind you, who could deny the appeal?) and the simple fact that a girl who exudes confidence is pretty sexy.

 

[michaelinteas]

In my every day working, out in public life, I am a very dominate guy, I own my own business and have to be in control at all times. But when the work day is over, I want nothing more then to be totally subservient to the one I am with, either male or female. giving up the control to someone else at night is like a weight being lifted of my shoulders. I also find that being submissive is a huge turn on for me, I will take charge when asked to but I do enjoy being the submissive one so much more.

 

[sterculius]

I jokingly like to describe myself as being a straight, male cocksucker because sucking cock is the only sexual activity I like to engage in with other men. I don't want to receive a blowjob from them in return. I enjoy just being their submissive cocksucker. I love to be on the receiving end of a very intense, rough throat fucking. I delight in allowing a man to aggressively use my mouth and throat as a sex toy for his erotic sexual gratification and I'm thrilled when he ultimately cums in my mouth. With a woman however, I usually assume the dominant role. Most of the women I've known seem to prefer that I take the lead with them sexually, although my wife and I have occasionally engaged in strap on dildo sex where she'll fuck me both orally and anally. We both like that a lot!

 

[Stella_Omega]

Yet again I have to agree with you. We have found of late that while I enjoy a women that knows what she wants and takes it or demands it. There are times when she herself wants to be taken. She of course stays in control, with biting or a slap, but still taken. Does this make since?

Makes perfect sense to me! I congratulate you, you guys are really starting to build something great together.