Married male wonders about being a sub

[Davesmith42]

Hey all fantasize about being a sub slave for a Dom woman. What's I like? Any Dom women looking for an online slave for starters? Would love to hear from everyone Not sure if it's for me but like to explore it.

 

[subwannabe]

I'm guessing you already know you're wife would not accomodate?

 

[Davesmith42]

I only wish she would but that would never happen

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

I only wish she would but that would never happen

Find a Domme online and give it a try in role-play. If you like it, then find a discreet Domme in real-time. If you don't fuck the Domme, (which she probably won't let you), it really isn't cheating, just exploring a fantasy.

 

[subwannabe]

Sorry to say it but I think you are playing with gasoline next to a fire. I hope you don't mind if your marriage blows up in your face. If you don't then go for it.

 

[Stella_Omega]

regardless of your potential marriage breakup, my suggestion is that you register at fetlife.com and look for groups, lurk, be polite, and maybe you;ll find a partner. Another good site for online roleplay is called http://elliquiy.com/ You have to jump through a few hoops to join it, but hey-- You wanna be submissive, right?

Keep in mind that "sub" is a very vague description and most of the ways people use it are flatout wrong. Likewise "dom" and most people who talk about Dom women really want a woman who will do to them what they request-- which is a top, and equally honorable but you'd never know that from the community in general OR the women. That's a bigass political bee in my bonnet. It only matters to you because you need to know what you want.

 

[Davesmith42]

Thanks

Thanks everyone for your thoughts I guess I need to move very slowly on this one

 

[Stella_Omega]

Thanks everyone for your thoughts I guess I need to move very slowly on this one

How sure are you, that you can't seduce your wife to the dark side?
baby steps baby steps...

 

[greenjacobin]

Hey all fantasize about being a sub slave for a Dom woman. What's I like? Any Dom women looking for an online slave for starters? Would love to hear from everyone Not sure if it's for me but like to explore it.

Send me a PM, hon. We'll talk all about it.

 

[Davesmith42]

Tried to bring her

Tired to bring my wife to the dark side even got her toys but she will not use them

 

[Stella_Omega]

Tired to bring my wife to the dark side even got her toys but she will not use them

maybe her path to the dark side is not toys.

Maybe it's you yourself...

When you say "sub" what exactly do you mean? Do you want to be tied up spanked buttfucked etc? (who doesn't, after all)

Or do you mean you would really like to submit to your wife, know that you're doing exactly what makes her happiest even if it isn't something you would prefer?

 

[LindsayRae]

Any Dom women looking for an online slave for starters? Would love to hear from everyone.

Try the BDSM personal ads.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Try the BDSM personal ads.

we're a long way past that, sweets.