just saying hi. straight, bi,gay guy here

[socalbidude]

I'm new to the site and wanted to say hi and see if anyone else varies sexually.
I seem to feel differently from day to day when it comes to sex. Sometimes I want to have wild sex with just a woman. Other times i crave MFF MMF orMMFF. Right now I can only think about men. I'm not the kind of "bi" that is only into getting blowjobs from guys. I really feel like I have gay days. I will not only fuck and suck a guy, I will kiss him, suck his nipples etc. I love to hold a woman close to me after sex and I want the same with men. I recently realized that I can fall in love with a man as easily as a woman. Does this make me a true bisexual? I love sex and it doesn't matter if it is with a male or female partner. I think most people just won't admit how they feel. Everyone should live a bisexual life. I get horny just thinking about it.

By the way, when I'm having a really gay day, I want to have a MMM 3some. Today is one of those days. I want a guy with an 8 inch (not too thick) cock to fuck my ass while I suck a big, thick 10 inch hard on. Damn, I want gay sex right now.

 

[HornyTeenBoy]

Haha, I know what you mean. Well, there are people who have theorized that sexuality is really just a sliding scale and everyone fits somewhere on it, very rarely (or never) being "totally" straight or "totally" gay. I think that probably goes a bit far, but I think there is some truth to it. Anyway, embrace what you are! Life is much hotter that way.

 

[amigayorbi]

true

very true...i can relate with you...

and i guess..even im having one of those gay days today

 

[minn]

Nothing wrong about your feelings. I feel the same way. Some days I favor a round of sex with my girlfriend and others, a round of sex with a man. I have a great girlfriend who is fantastic in bed and I love spending face time between her legs (she feels the same. Unfortunately I have not had the guts nor time to find the right guy to have sex with. I tried it once in the past with a man and it was fantastic howver my situation makes it extremely difficult to search out for the right male partner (Discreet, bi-sexual like me).

 

[BidudeinWi]

I am very similar. "Gay days" come and go for me.

I had a very "gay day" last week. I was in another City in Wisconsin. I stopped at the local YMCA for an executive workout. (Sauna, steam, shave and check out the swinging cock.) I got naked, grabbed a towel and walked into the sauna. Since I shave my balls and trim above my cock VERY short, I usually get some stares. Only one other guy in the sauna at the time. He was sitting on the lowest bench, and was proudly displaying his half hard, shaved cock. (A good sign.) He had some tats and a great body. He went back and fourth to the shower and sauna, but then just left. So, since I was getting really hot, I went into the showers, cooled down and went back to the sauna. There were now two guys in there. One guy my age, (late 40's) chubby, hairy and wearing a towel, and one light skinned black kid. The kid was sitting there naked. He looked at my cock when I walked in and immediately his brown cock began to grow. This skinny kid is hung like a horse. It had to be 9 inches long, thick, with a pair of monster shaved balls. His pubes were trimmed short. He has a fantastic body and is REALLY cute. After a while, I get hot and head to the showers leaving my towel since I was coming back. I turn on the water, and I hear the shower across from me turn on. It is the kid. He begins soaping his hanging meat and and gets rock hard. I turn around so my back is facing him, my cock growing, soap my hand and reach around and insert two fingers into my ass. I slide them in and out a few times and then turn around to look at him. He immediately does the same thing. I am not fully hard. I turn the water off and head back to the sauna. He follows me and sits down next to me. I turned and leaned against the wall and pulled my feet up so that my cock and ass were exposed. He turns, rubs my ankle and then grabs my cock. I moaned and then he slides a finger in my ass. The other guy is just watching. After a while of playing and quiet chatting, I realize that I am naked, hard and about ready to cum while I am sitting in the sauna of a very public YMCA. So, still hard, I thanked him, went to the showers for the final time to cool down. I had to walk by a number of guys while I was sporting a rock hard cock. This YMCA must be pretty tolerant of gay, bi men because nobody so much as frowned as I walked by. I got dressed to leave and my "friend" kept coming out trying to urge me back into the sauna. Regretfully, I left. I walked out of there feeling much more gay than I did walking in and that feeling was fantastic. Some young chick was walking in, tiny, huge boobs and was dressed for "reaction". However, since I was feeling soooooo gay, I chuckled to myself as she looked at me to see if I was looking at her boobs and thought, "sorry honey, not even a LITTLE interested in you. Ha, it was a great way to end the day!!!

 

[Rosie_101]

I am very similar. "Gay days" come and go for me.

I had a very "gay day" last week. I was in another City in Wisconsin. I stopped at the local YMCA for an executive workout. (Sauna, steam, shave and check out the swinging cock.) I got naked, grabbed a towel and walked into the sauna. Since I shave my balls and trim above my cock VERY short, I usually get some stares. Only one other guy in the sauna at the time. He was sitting on the lowest bench, and was proudly displaying his half hard, shaved cock. (A good sign.) He had some tats and a great body. He went back and fourth to the shower and sauna, but then just left. So, since I was getting really hot, I went into the showers, cooled down and went back to the sauna. There were now two guys in there. One guy my age, (late 40's) chubby, hairy and wearing a towel, and one light skinned black kid. The kid was sitting there naked. He looked at my cock when I walked in and immediately his brown cock began to grow. This skinny kid is hung like a horse. It had to be 9 inches long, thick, with a pair of monster shaved balls. His pubes were trimmed short. He has a fantastic body and is REALLY cute. After a while, I get hot and head to the showers leaving my towel since I was coming back. I turn on the water, and I hear the shower across from me turn on. It is the kid. He begins soaping his hanging meat and and gets rock hard. I turn around so my back is facing him, my cock growing, soap my hand and reach around and insert two fingers into my ass. I slide them in and out a few times and then turn around to look at him. He immediately does the same thing. I am not fully hard. I turn the water off and head back to the sauna. He follows me and sits down next to me. I turned and leaned against the wall and pulled my feet up so that my cock and ass were exposed. He turns, rubs my ankle and then grabs my cock. I moaned and then he slides a finger in my ass. The other guy is just watching. After a while of playing and quiet chatting, I realize that I am naked, hard and about ready to cum while I am sitting in the sauna of a very public YMCA. So, still hard, I thanked him, went to the showers for the final time to cool down. I had to walk by a number of guys while I was sporting a rock hard cock. This YMCA must be pretty tolerant of gay, bi men because nobody so much as frowned as I walked by. I got dressed to leave and my "friend" kept coming out trying to urge me back into the sauna. Regretfully, I left. I walked out of there feeling much more gay than I did walking in and that feeling was fantastic. Some young chick was walking in, tiny, huge boobs and was dressed for "reaction". However, since I was feeling soooooo gay, I chuckled to myself as she looked at me to see if I was looking at her boobs and thought, "sorry honey, not even a LITTLE interested in you. Ha, it was a great way to end the day!!!

Wow! That's an amazing story. Do you ever regret not going back with your new-found friend?

In the steam room at my leisure club the dress code is swimwear. When a few women are in together the tops of the bathing suits often come down but, regrettably, no action. The room does go strangely quiet though........

 

[BidudeinWi]

Wow! That's an amazing story. Do you ever regret not going back with your new-found friend?

In the steam room at my leisure club the dress code is swimwear. When a few women are in together the tops of the bathing suits often come down but, regrettably, no action. The room does go strangely quiet though........

Rosie: Indeed. I can't get the picture of him and that huge cock on such a little body out of my mind! It was such an erotic hour and a half.

I'll bet that as a woman, it is much more difficult in the sauna/locker room to see anything that smacks of anything sexual. Just a guess since it seems women have much more of an issue with being nude around others then do men.

 

[Rosie_101]

Rosie: Indeed. I can't get the picture of him and that huge cock on such a little body out of my mind! It was such an erotic hour and a half.

I'll bet that as a woman, it is much more difficult in the sauna/locker room to see anything that smacks of anything sexual. Just a guess since it seems women have much more of an issue with being nude around others then do men.

On the contrary. Wet swimwear, tight gym wear, naked wet women just out of the shower, women stepping into or out of nice underwear....there's plenty to see. The trick is not to get caught staring too much.

I don't think there's an issue about being naked around other women. Very few use the private changing cubicles and, in the steam room, not much incentive's required for the tops to come off.

The only difference I notice is that, in the locker room, there's always chat going on - lots of everyday stuff but with body lotions and sprays being swapped and new lingerie being remarked on and such.

The steam room is that much smaller and there isn't really anywhere else to look than to peer through the mist at the array of nipples. Some, I'd say, aren't aroused but those that are (me!!) just go into a quiet reverie of their own. I doubt that there'd be the sight of two women openly making out in front of the others.

Would you go back to that place again and, if you saw him, would you take it further?

 

[BidudeinWi]

On the contrary. Wet swimwear, tight gym wear, naked wet women just out of the shower, women stepping into or out of nice underwear....there's plenty to see. The trick is not to get caught staring too much.

I don't think there's an issue about being naked around other women. Very few use the private changing cubicles and, in the steam room, not much incentive's required for the tops to come off.

The only difference I notice is that, in the locker room, there's always chat going on - lots of everyday stuff but with body lotions and sprays being swapped and new lingerie being remarked on and such.

The steam room is that much smaller and there isn't really anywhere else to look than to peer through the mist at the array of nipples. Some, I'd say, aren't aroused but those that are (me!!) just go into a quiet reverie of their own. I doubt that there'd be the sight of two women openly making out in front of the others.
Would you go back to that place again and, if you saw him, would you take it further?

Interesting Rosie. Shows you what I know. Obviously I wouldn't have thought that to be the case. When we belonged to Golds Gym here in town, my wife would tell me a few stories about women wearing thong panties, but that was about it.

Rarely have I been in the steam room or sauna at the Y or any gym for that matter, where the guys would wear a swim suit. Once and a while a young guy will, or sometimes guys won't take off their towel, but most of the time, guys put down a towel, unwrap themselves if they are wearing a towel, and sit down completely naked.

Will I go back? For sure. If I see him again, will I take if further? perhaps, but unlikely. Definitely don't want to be arrested at the YMCA and one never knows. I get very horny and like I mentioned before, feel very gay, when I go and get naked with other men and either get hit on, (Which happens regularly) or get to check out all the shaved and/or semi to fully hard guys. It was also the first time I walked past other men while being fully hard. That was quite a rush too.

So Rosie, when you see women who are either shaved or waxed, completely or landing strip, do you think that they might be more likely to be interested in another woman, as opposed to the full bush women?

 

[Rosie_101]

Interesting Rosie. Shows you what I know. Obviously I wouldn't have thought that to be the case. When we belonged to Golds Gym here in town, my wife would tell me a few stories about women wearing thong panties, but that was about it.

Rarely have I been in the steam room or sauna at the Y or any gym for that matter, where the guys would wear a swim suit. Once and a while a young guy will, or sometimes guys won't take off their towel, but most of the time, guys put down a towel, unwrap themselves if they are wearing a towel, and sit down completely naked.

Will I go back? For sure. If I see him again, will I take if further? perhaps, but unlikely. Definitely don't want to be arrested at the YMCA and one never knows. I get very horny and like I mentioned before, feel very gay, when I go and get naked with other men and either get hit on, (Which happens regularly) or get to check out all the shaved and/or semi to fully hard guys. It was also the first time I walked past other men while being fully hard. That was quite a rush too.

So Rosie, when you see women who are either shaved or waxed, completely or landing strip, do you think that they might be more likely to be interested in another woman, as opposed to the full bush women?

When I said "would you take it further" I didn't necessarily me there. I should have worded it better and maybe said would you arrange to meet up with him elsewhere? From reading your initial post, with the way he followed you I'd say he wouldn't need much asking!!

As for your last question, I really don't know. To be perfectly honest I've never really thought about it that way. Also, I'm an (albeit well trimmed) "full bush woman" (as you put it ) and I'm interested in the other women but some of the other ladies might know better whether that makes me an exception to the rule or not.

 

[BidudeinWi]

When I said "would you take it further" I didn't necessarily me there. I should have worded it better and maybe said would you arrange to meet up with him elsewhere? From reading your initial post, with the way he followed you I'd say he wouldn't need much asking!!

As for your last question, I really don't know. To be perfectly honest I've never really thought about it that way. Also, I'm an (albeit well trimmed) "full bush woman" (as you put it ) and I'm interested in the other women but some of the other ladies might know better whether that makes me an exception to the rule or not.

I suspect you are right. Not sure if I would or will take it further or not. Probably not. I get the sense that there is a high tolerance for gay/bisexual "activity" at this particular place. Still risky though.

I do enjoy sex with other men, but to really enjoy it, I prefer it be with someone I know or have somewhat of a relationship with. (As opposed to random NSA sex)

I asked you about the shaved vs not shaved because I met a openly bisexual woman a few years ago and had a GF in college that confessed to being bisexual, and both preferred that the women they were with be completely smooth. Front to back. Was curious about your take on it, and if being shaved was as much of a "signal" for women as it is for men.

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

Apologies for going off-topic, but a few thoughts on the theme of 'what a woman's pubic hair says about her sexuality', as it were.

Personally - I'm a lesbian, and I have a full bush. I've never shaved, although I do trim my bikini line if I'm going swimming or on holiday, so it doesn't emerge around the outside of my swimming costume, as that would be rather vulgar.

My girlfriend doesn't shave either, and to be blunt, she has a very hairy pussy. Of the women I've slept with, I don't remember any of them being shaved or closely trimmed, but instead being naturally hairy. But as I don't have any experience of straight women's vaginas, at least at close quarters, I can't deduce anything very scientific from these observations!

So do lesbian women give off a signal, by celebrating their pubic hair? I doubt that, as it's not something I've ever heard discussed or rumoured. There are two ways of looking at it, I suppose. As a lover, I enjoy a woman's pubic hair - running my fingers or tongue through it, or smelling her there. I find the sight of a full bush attractive - it frames her vagina, it makes her look womanly and sexual, it makes a statement, in a way. Perhaps subconsciously I don't shave there because I want my cunt to project its sexual power to my girlfriend.

On the other hand, shaving makes its own statement. A woman who shaves is taking the appearance of her pussy seriously; she cares about how it looks. Perhaps, for some women (although it's not something I've much discussed), they deliberately want to make their sex look attractive to their partner - by revealing the detail of her labia and vulva, without the hair. Lesbian sex is ultimately all about the vagina, so it would make sense if some gay female couples chose to shave for that reason, because they like to share their pussies together in that way, or because it feels nicer and more intimate during sex.

More mundanely though, I suspect chiefly that on average, a lesbian woman is less likely to have a detailed beauty regime, and wears bikinis less often, than the average straight woman - although that's a crude generalisation. So most likely, gay women are hairier simply because they care less, and can't be bothered to touch themselves up.

 

[girlsmiley]

Lesbian sex is ultimately all about the vagina, so it would make sense if some gay female couples chose to shave for that reason, because they like to share their pussies together in that way, or because it feels nicer and more intimate during sex.

More mundanely though, I suspect chiefly that on average, a lesbian woman is less likely to have a detailed beauty regime, and wears bikinis less often, than the average straight woman - although that's a crude generalisation. So most likely, gay women are hairier simply because they care less, and can't be bothered to touch themselves up.

*snortgigglespew*

Speak for yourself!

There are so many things wrong with that post it's not even funny

"So most likely, gay women are hairier simply because they care less, and can't be bothered to touch themselves up"

what?

I'm new to the site and wanted to say hi and see if anyone else varies sexually.
I seem to feel differently from day to day when it comes to sex. Sometimes I want to have wild sex with just a woman. Other times i crave MFF MMF orMMFF. Right now I can only think about men. I'm not the kind of "bi" that is only into getting blowjobs from guys. I really feel like I have gay days. I will not only fuck and suck a guy, I will kiss him, suck his nipples etc. I love to hold a woman close to me after sex and I want the same with men. I recently realized that I can fall in love with a man as easily as a woman. Does this make me a true bisexual? I love sex and it doesn't matter if it is with a male or female partner. I think most people just won't admit how they feel. Everyone should live a bisexual life. I get horny just thinking about it.

By the way, when I'm having a really gay day, I want to have a MMM 3some. Today is one of those days. I want a guy with an 8 inch (not too thick) cock to fuck my ass while I suck a big, thick 10 inch hard on. Damn, I want gay sex right now.

Hi socalbidude! I'm girlsmiley
Welcome to GLBT chatter!

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

Sorry you didn't like it, but each to our own, eh? It was a slightly silly topic, and perhaps not worth the serious response I wrote - but I was just trying to answer the question. No one died.

*snortgigglespew*

Speak for yourself!

There are so many things wrong with that post it's not even funny

"So most likely, gay women are hairier simply because they care less, and can't be bothered to touch themselves up"

what?






Hi socalbidude! I'm girlsmiley
Welcome to GLBT chatter!

 

[girlsmiley]

Sorry you didn't like it, but each to our own, eh? It was a slightly silly topic, and perhaps not worth the serious response I wrote - but I was just trying to answer the question. No one died.

It's not that I didn't like it.
i found it quite amusing lol
it's the fact that your comment does not apply to me or my lesbian partner.

"So most likely, gay women are hairier simply because they care less, and can't be bothered to touch themselves up"

^ I have not met ONE lesbian like that...

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

It's not that I didn't like it.
i found it quite amusing lol
it's the fact that your comment does not apply to me or my lesbian partner.

"So most likely, gay women are hairier simply because they care less, and can't be bothered to touch themselves up"

^ I have not met ONE lesbian like that...

Well, like I said, each to their own. I *did* say it was only a generalisation, and I was speculating to try to answer a not very serious question. My lesbian partner doesn't shave precisely because she doesn't really care, and can't be bothered, and almost never wears a swimsuit.

 

[girlsmiley]

Well, like I said, each to their own. I *did* say it was only a generalisation, and I was speculating to try to answer a not very serious question. My lesbian partner doesn't shave precisely because she doesn't really care, and can't be bothered, and almost never wears a swimsuit.

Fair enough. Natural's fine with me!
Saying that
I wouldn't go around saying most lesbians are like me and my partner who wax...
because I don't know that.
maybe you and i should start a poll

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

Fair enough. Natural's fine with me!
Saying that
I wouldn't go around saying most lesbians are like me and my partner who wax...
because I don't know that.
maybe you and i should start a poll

OK, fair enough...I did say I was generalising! But I take your point. But honestly...I've slept with, I don't know, about twenty women in my time, and all of them have been natural, so I was just going from true personal experience, and trying to speculate why. It wasn't very scientific, and it was a slightly frivolous topic anyway...

 

[Mr. Briggs]

I am very similar. "Gay days" come and go for me.

I had a very "gay day" last week. I was in another City in Wisconsin. I stopped at the local YMCA for an executive workout. (Sauna, steam, shave and check out the swinging cock.) I got naked, grabbed a towel and walked into the sauna. Since I shave my balls and trim above my cock VERY short, I usually get some stares. Only one other guy in the sauna at the time. He was sitting on the lowest bench, and was proudly displaying his half hard, shaved cock. (A good sign.) He had some tats and a great body. He went back and fourth to the shower and sauna, but then just left. So, since I was getting really hot, I went into the showers, cooled down and went back to the sauna. There were now two guys in there. One guy my age, (late 40's) chubby, hairy and wearing a towel, and one light skinned black kid. The kid was sitting there naked. He looked at my cock when I walked in and immediately his brown cock began to grow. This skinny kid is hung like a horse. It had to be 9 inches long, thick, with a pair of monster shaved balls. His pubes were trimmed short. He has a fantastic body and is REALLY cute. After a while, I get hot and head to the showers leaving my towel since I was coming back. I turn on the water, and I hear the shower across from me turn on. It is the kid. He begins soaping his hanging meat and and gets rock hard. I turn around so my back is facing him, my cock growing, soap my hand and reach around and insert two fingers into my ass. I slide them in and out a few times and then turn around to look at him. He immediately does the same thing. I am not fully hard. I turn the water off and head back to the sauna. He follows me and sits down next to me. I turned and leaned against the wall and pulled my feet up so that my cock and ass were exposed. He turns, rubs my ankle and then grabs my cock. I moaned and then he slides a finger in my ass. The other guy is just watching. After a while of playing and quiet chatting, I realize that I am naked, hard and about ready to cum while I am sitting in the sauna of a very public YMCA. So, still hard, I thanked him, went to the showers for the final time to cool down. I had to walk by a number of guys while I was sporting a rock hard cock. This YMCA must be pretty tolerant of gay, bi men because nobody so much as frowned as I walked by. I got dressed to leave and my "friend" kept coming out trying to urge me back into the sauna. Regretfully, I left. I walked out of there feeling much more gay than I did walking in and that feeling was fantastic. Some young chick was walking in, tiny, huge boobs and was dressed for "reaction". However, since I was feeling soooooo gay, I chuckled to myself as she looked at me to see if I was looking at her boobs and thought, "sorry honey, not even a LITTLE interested in you. Ha, it was a great way to end the day!!!

Damn i don't have gay days but the way you describe the black cock I'd have trouble not being turned on