Virgin Bi Curious Male (Bi Couples only please!)

[VryCurious]

How would you help a reluctant but VERY curious man with his first bi experience?

 

[Stella_Omega]

Let him overcome his reluctance on his own.

Oh wait-- you want to be raped?

Try the sexual roleplay or the fetish forums.

 

[Safe_Bet]

Let him overcome his reluctance on his own.

Oh wait-- you want to be raped?

Try the sexual roleplay or the fetish forums.

 

[VryCurious]

Not raped but definately seduced by 2!

 

[Stella_Omega]

try sexual roleplay, for sure.

 

[in4more]

Go out a couple times to ease the tension, make him comfortable with the situation by reassuring him it's OK to indulge his fantasies, then use the power of persuasion to get him into a threeway with me and the wife. Both of us would introduce him first to some oral and touching from us both and offer him the option of doing it as well to both of us or choosing to wait untill the next time to indulge his M/M fantasies. After he's comfortable with the M/M touching, move on to the other things.

Also letting him know that we enjoy him playing with us and really value the trust/discretion we place on the relationship and want it to be a continuing thing if he's up for it. Having a woman there that's totally into it and reassuring him it's totally hot helps too.

 

[VryCurious]

Awesome!

Thanks in4more!

I guess I need to move this thread. Can I do that or should I just restart it?

 

[Bimusicman]

When I was in college my wife and I went to an off campus party that promised to be wild. We figured there would be good music, top shelf booze, and probably drugs galore. It was the 80's.. what we got was a very wild sex party.

By the end of the night I watched my wife devour a gorgeous blonde, and got to fuck her myself, and had a 3 way with the wife and another guy. 'At that point there was no mutual touching between him and me except 2 guys trying to position themselves for DP but as time went on over the next couple of months and we attended more parties my curiosity became greater and greater, and one night this drop dead gorgeous adonis offered me a blowjob, and my wife went crazy begging me to let him do it, so of course I did, I mean a blowjob is a blowjob right lol.

A few days later we hooked up with him privately and with lots of vodka, some smoke, and my wife persuading me.. so I kinda said.. what the hell, if I don't dig it.. no harm, no foul. Well.. I liked it. We went fairly slow, touching, kissing, mutual head, some finger exploration. The more comfortable I became over a few weeks the better it was.

some 25 years later, I'm with a great guy, we're both Bi, and we're both 'switches'

I think the route to take all depends on just HOW curious the guy is, and it has to be someone he chooses I think. Had Mr. Adonis not walked in that night I don't know if I'd let my curiosity turn into an experience because it had been offered before and I was turned off by it.

Good Luck.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Okay, now I've totally changed my tune, this thread stays here

 

[VryCurious]

Sweeeeet!

...and thanks Bimusicman!

 

[VryCurious]

Bump!

 

[tinylittlegnat]

Have him naked on the bed and walk up to him. If you dont feel the urge to put the cock in your mouth you probably really arnt all that into it.

No harm done tell them it wont work out and have a nice day.

If however you do feel the urge to suck the guys dick start out with kisses and licks and your body will do the rest.

 

[VryCurious]

Have him naked on the bed and walk up to him. If you dont feel the urge to put the cock in your mouth you probably really arnt all that into it.

No harm done tell them it wont work out and have a nice day.

If however you do feel the urge to suck the guys dick start out with kisses and licks and your body will do the rest.

Thanks TLG!

Cool Av. Does it represent anyone? I love to spoon and my wife doesn't so I can identify with it.