Wife lovers – the category

[jeninflorida]

First let me start off by saying having an open relationship isn’t for everyone and no one should be forced into it.

Well a couple “anonymous” people have sent me emails with the message “a man that shares his wife is a second class citizen” or “only a wimp” which I strongly disagree.

In my opinion, a man doesn’t have to be a wimp or 2nd class citizen to enjoy watching his wife, and is quite the opposite as he has to have confidence and inner strength. A man has to be confident in himself in order to relax and enjoy the experience. Don’t you agree?

And what is a 2nd class citizen?

The good thing about “anonymous” is that they have inspired me to write a story based on “Them” but maybe it would be best to create 3-4 stories. One being a “LW” story, one being a satire story, and another being a horror story.

Thoughts? Is a man that can watch his partner with another a wimp or 2nd class citizen?

 

[lovecraft68]

I will have the stones to say that to me a couple who swings is not truly in love. Not saying there is not emotion but it is not the same as in a monogamous relationship. When you are with your true love you want for nothing including additional sex partners. Now I won;t say second class citizen or wimp to each their own. But the knife cuts both ways. I should not have my confidence or manhood questioned because I want to be my wife's only lover. being able to watch your wife fuck another does not make you more or less of a man it makes you well you. Also if they were truly that confident they would not always try to pull others into it like many do. Majority rules. The more who do it the less guilty one feels. But as I said no one is more or less of a man regardless of your stance on the matter. To me if it comes down to it I am more of a man because I can promise myself to one woman and not have the juvenile desire to dip myself into any woman who moves. Every one has their own code.

Before anyone who knows that I am a Satanist pops up with "That's not consistent you are about indulgence over abstinence" Well know this Satanism is all about sexual freedom. But it is the freedom to choose and then stay within that path. I have exercised my freedom by deciding to be monogamous. Others can choose what they will all we go by is adhering to the choices we make. If I were to step out on my wife I would be as big of a dog in my beliefs as the Christian beliefs.

To agree with you swinging certainly is not for everyone and I cannot tell you how many couples have the fantasy, make it real, and it all goes down hill from there. I am sure you know what I mean.

Hot little fantasy to picture your man with another woman, but then the reality hits when you are at one of these parties and you either watch him with her or watch him go into a room with her. Same the other way around. All fun and games until you see that other cock pounding into your wife.

There are couples it works well for but they are truly the minority. For every couple that lives the lifestyle without issue there are a dozen who let themselves get sucked into the fantasy and were unable to cope with the reality.

Part of why the LW trolls are so vicious. I am sure many were in this position. I have a friend I made here on lit who started the very familiar pattern of her and hubby were a little bored. Started surfing lit, got excited by all that's out there. Finally crossed the line and are now on the rocks. 12 years married with two young kids. More common than uncommon.

Course like any other category LW is exaggerated and glorified a bit. If it is your fantasy these stories are fun. But if you have been there done that you will hate them.

Going to throw myself under even further by saying that if you can completely satisfy your lover there is no need for another. What my wife and I do is Role Play. Role Playing is cheating on your spouse with your spouse.

Over the years we have done everything from the typical Boss/Secretary to soap operas involving different characters on different days that tie into one scene leading to another. Right up to the taboo of playing Brother/sister. No limits within the two of us.

Of course I know cheating and the desire to share are different but it still boils down to you should not want another. If I still wanted other women I would not have made the commitment. The ring is supposed to mean something.

When I have had these conversations with people I am called a prude. Yeah okay I'm a prude. I've done crazier shit than most people write about on here but because for the last 10 years it has been with one amazing woman I am a prude. Invariably however that is the reaction I get from the insecure swingers the solid ones say simply don't knock it until you try it and invite me and the Mrs over to their next little "swap". No thanks this prude will stay home.

Well went on enough. I am sure we will disagree but wanted to put my opinion out there and give you the courtesy of being able to respond to someone who would state their piece under their own name.

Disclaimer: All opinions spoken here in this post are that of Lovecraft68 and are not necessarily those of other authors or Literotica itself(who makes damn good money off of loving wives and group sex!)

 

[3113]

If you can't take the Loving Wives heat....

Thoughts? Is a man that can watch his partner with another a wimp or 2nd class citizen?

M'dear, this isn't about whether the swingers life style is valid or not or what it says about a man or not. That's a whole pointless argument on this forum as we erotica writers are quite aware of "different strokes for different folks." This is about writing in the category of "Loving Wives." And I'm afraid choosing to do that is like deciding to argue religion with a cult and then complaining that they're not very open-minded

Now the question is, were you really unaware of this? if so, this is your heads-up: The Loving Wives category is notorious for having belligerent readers who, for the most part, are misogynistic and bitter, likely because some woman did them wrong or they thought she did them wrong or maybe because no woman will have anything to do with them and they never get laid. They usually fall into two types, those who like stories where cheating women get them comeuppance, or stories where men who put up with cheating women are second class citizen wimps.

These are the only stories most readers of that category want to read. If you write something else, they will slam you because, like religious fanatics they have made up their minds on how the story must go and they will not tolerate any variation. It doesn't matter what you think or know to be the truth. That's all there is to it. And while it might be satisfying to come here and use us as surrogates for them, because we'll listen and not spout nonsense as you defend your lifestyle...it's kind insulting to to do that to us. Do you really think we'd take up the nonsensical argument of any idiot from Loving Wives? Please give us more credit.

There is, in the end, only one question that needs to be answered and it isn't about the virtues of swinging vs. monogamy. It's this: "Do you want more comments like that one on your stories?" If you don't, post them in "Group." Because so long as you post in "Loving Wives," you will get them in spades. If you do decide to stay in Loving Wives, however, please don't come here to complain about it or justify what you wrote that got slammed. If you didn't know it before you know it now: Loving Wives is the hottest kitchen on Literotica and you don't go in there if you can't take the heat.

 

[Zeb_Carter]

What is a monogamous relationship, when approx. 50% of couples polled admitted to having sex outside the marriage.

Now having said that, the question becomes 'What will keep a couple from straying?'.

Is it love? Is it the fear of losing your partner? Is it the way you were brought up?

I feel that if your partner is going to stray, there isn't much you can do about it. Do I fear mine will? Hardly, but if she did, is there something wrong with me or her?

I do have to admit that if she did I would want her to tell me about it, in living, colorful, detail. Does that make me a wimp? I don't think so and I really don't care what anyone else thinks as long as they keep that thought to themselves. But if they must express their disgust of me, to me, they will find out pretty quick that I'm no wimp when it comes to defending my wife's honor. Can you say fubar?

Now, will I push my wife into an affair? No, although the thought does raise something, if you get my meaning.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I will have the stones to say that to me a couple who swings is not truly in love.

I'm going to congratulate you on your stones, and agree with you.

Monogamy, desiring nothing and no one else, all that stuff-- that's the definition of "Truly in love." Going by that definition, then of course someone who isn't fulfilled by a single partner isn't "truly in love."

They may quite possibly be in a state of romantic and sexual satisfaction that the monogamous can't credit, the way so many heterosexuals can't credit gayness as a legitimate state-- too different to comprehend, especially in this society.

But it's no biggie.

 

[lovecraft68]

What is a monogamous relationship, when approx. 50% of couples polled admitted to having sex outside the marriage.

Now having said that, the question becomes 'What will keep a couple from straying?'.

Is it love? Is it the fear of losing your partner? Is it the way you were brought up?

I feel that if your partner is going to stray, there isn't much you can do about it. Do I fear mine will? Hardly, but if she did, is there something wrong with me or her?

I do have to admit that if she did I would want her to tell me about it, in living, colorful, detail. Does that make me a wimp? I don't think so and I really don't care what anyone else thinks as long as they keep that thought to themselves. But if they must express their disgust of me, to me, they will find out pretty quick that I'm no wimp when it comes to defending my wife's honor. Can you say fubar?

Now, will I push my wife into an affair? No, although the thought does raise something, if you get my meaning.

Well in response to what a monogamous relationship is according to that stat something that is increasingly rare. I think being monogamous factors in a lot of things which you mentioned some. Another is perspective I was married previously to a bitch from hell (classic what was i thinking but what you marry at 21 is not what you marry at 31) because of that i have a very deep appreciation for my wife.

The problem with marriage is the hypocrisy of trying to have the cake and it as well. Years ago men strayed mostly but it is a more than even field now. I traveled to Chicago for a few days in January and was hit on twice at the bar during the week. I told both women I was married and both said they were as well so what?

This is why monogamy takes a hit. Marriages are assumed to be but if one or both are stepping out then it is not monogamous. That term is now taken out of the mix. These people want the pretty wife or handsome hubby to have on their arm to play family, have the kids the nice house etc... but then the ygo to the "wild side" for their fun.

This is ego. The fact of the more I fuck the more of a man I am. Please it just means you are still a horndog teenager. Want to fuck anything that moves? Cool, don;t get married.

Men claim the wife don;t give it to them. Women claim their husbands just don't understand.

As for the men pure and simple; you get what you give. If your limp dick took care of shit at home or you weren't an ass wifey would put out. Ladies have you tried to get hubby to understand? Try talking with him? Sometimes guys are just dense.

Excuses, justifications. Just don't take the plunge.

I think if you find the "one" you will have no desire to stray too many people settle. Fear of loss this one isn't perfect but...

My wife is a six figure professional who comes across as the cute little girl next door the one you take home to mom. In the bedroom she is a total whore. But my whore. Why the hell would I stray? To put a notch on my belt? It's all about thinking with the wrong head.

 

[lovecraft68]

I'm going to congratulate you on your stones, and agree with you.

Monogamy, desiring nothing and no one else, all that stuff-- that's the definition of "Truly in love." Going by that definition, then of course someone who isn't fulfilled by a single partner isn't "truly in love."

They may quite possibly be in a state of romantic and sexual satisfaction that the monogamous can't credit, the way so many heterosexuals can't credit gayness as a legitimate state-- too different to comprehend, especially in this society.

But it's no biggie.

Thank you. I was fortunate enough (the second time around) to find my soulmate. There is no sexual act or no woman attractive enough to be worth throwing that away.

There may be a deep sexual thrill to swinging that I am not aware of but am completely happy in every way so don't feel I am missing out.

For the record I personally believe swapping is a sexual fetish as much as feet, or anything else that "deviates from the norm" if two people with this fetish meet up then perhaps they can live happily in this lifestyle. Unfortunately it usually goes bad.

 

[voluptuary_manque]

What 3 said.

 

[Boota]

A friend of mine owned a swingers club and I did security for the club for almost a year. In that year I got to know a lot of the swingers. One older couple who had been in the lifestyle for a long time and thought they were beyond such things even had a bout with jealousy. It didn't break them up, but it was a rather large bump in the road.

One thing I did notice is that the ones who had been swinging for a while seemed very loyal to each other, regardless of what they did sexually at the club. Who's to say if they aren't truly in love?

In general, though, I think swinging is a bad idea for the vast majority of couples. You really don't know if you're cool with it until it's too late.

 

[lovecraft68]

A friend of mine owned a swingers club and I did security for the club for almost a year. In that year I got to know a lot of the swingers. One older couple who had been in the lifestyle for a long time and thought they were beyond such things even had a bout with jealousy. It didn't break them up, but it was a rather large bump in the road.

One thing I did notice is that the ones who had been swinging for a while seemed very loyal to each other, regardless of what they did sexually at the club. Who's to say if they aren't truly in love?

In general, though, I think swinging is a bad idea for the vast majority of couples. You really don't know if you're cool with it until it's too late.

That was pretty much my point. There is no middle ground here you love it or you are screwed. Only one way to find out. The true swingers seem to function and that's good for them they are like minded souls.

Problem is swinging tends to be glorified and attracts a lot of "amateurs" Sites like this and Adult Friend finder attract a lot of Posers just like Fetlife and Alt friend finder attract a lot of BDSM posers. Problem is all the people think of is the physical act of fucking others with their spouses permission the ydo not think morning after.

By the way props for the Exorcist T-Shirt!

 

[Zeb_Carter]

Well in response to what a monogamous relationship is according to that stat something that is increasingly rare. I think being monogamous factors in a lot of things which you mentioned some. Another is perspective I was married previously to a bitch from hell (classic what was i thinking but what you marry at 21 is not what you marry at 31) because of that i have a very deep appreciation for my wife.

The problem with marriage is the hypocrisy of trying to have the cake and it as well. Years ago men strayed mostly but it is a more than even field now. I traveled to Chicago for a few days in January and was hit on twice at the bar during the week. I told both women I was married and both said they were as well so what?

This is why monogamy takes a hit. Marriages are assumed to be but if one or both are stepping out then it is not monogamous. That term is now taken out of the mix. These people want the pretty wife or handsome hubby to have on their arm to play family, have the kids the nice house etc... but then the ygo to the "wild side" for their fun.

This is ego. The fact of the more I fuck the more of a man I am. Please it just means you are still a horndog teenager. Want to fuck anything that moves? Cool, don;t get married.

Men claim the wife don;t give it to them. Women claim their husbands just don't understand.

As for the men pure and simple; you get what you give. If your limp dick took care of shit at home or you weren't an ass wifey would put out. Ladies have you tried to get hubby to understand? Try talking with him? Sometimes guys are just dense.

Excuses, justifications. Just don't take the plunge.

I think if you find the "one" you will have no desire to stray too many people settle. Fear of loss this one isn't perfect but...

My wife is a six figure professional who comes across as the cute little girl next door the one you take home to mom. In the bedroom she is a total whore. But my whore. Why the hell would I stray? To put a notch on my belt? It's all about thinking with the wrong head.

My wife and I married when, she was 24 and I was 22. I would have still married her when we were in our 30's, 40's or even 50's. We have been together for 40 years.

 

[lovecraft68]

My wife and I married when, she was 24 and I was 22. I would have still married her when we were in our 30's, 40's or even 50's. We have been together for 40 years.

Sorry if you feel I was insulting you or other people who got it right the first time around, or better yet are childhood sweethearts which I think is the most romantic thing in the world (Mom and dad been together since 14). I was referring to myself and many others who have made the mistake of marrying the wrong person and marrying to young. I was a dysfunctional mess back then with a lot of issues and so was she. As the years went on I overcame a lot of my problems and wanted a better life. She did not we had two young daughters and I made the classic mistake of being there longer for them. In the end she was the one who cheated (I do not troll loving wives however in all honesty she did me a favor)

Two years later I met my current wife whom would not have wanted anything to do with the 21 year old me but I had learned a lot since then including not taking a good woman for granted. Now what she sees in me well that is still up in the air. Personally I think she's just slumming!

 

[jeninflorida]

Well, I’m not one to judge. What works for me might not work for you and vice versa; nor would I ever want to change someone, or think that he or she has to change. Being forced or doing things that one doesn’t want to do is never a good thing.

With that said, I don’t buy most of the stuff the “church” is selling, or that I have to do things to get into heaven.

with that sad....if some man likes watching his wife with other men? well what ever works for "them"

I will have the stones to say that to me a couple who swings is not truly in love. Not saying there is not emotion but it is not the same as in a monogamous relationship. When you are with your true love you want for nothing including additional sex partners. Now I won;t say second class citizen or wimp to each their own. But the knife cuts both ways. I should not have my confidence or manhood questioned because I want to be my wife's only lover. being able to watch your wife fuck another does not make you more or less of a man it makes you well you. Also if they were truly that confident they would not always try to pull others into it like many do. Majority rules. The more who do it the less guilty one feels. But as I said no one is more or less of a man regardless of your stance on the matter. To me if it comes down to it I am more of a man because I can promise myself to one woman and not have the juvenile desire to dip myself into any woman who moves. Every one has their own code.

Before anyone who knows that I am a Satanist pops up with "That's not consistent you are about indulgence over abstinence" Well know this Satanism is all about sexual freedom. But it is the freedom to choose and then stay within that path. I have exercised my freedom by deciding to be monogamous. Others can choose what they will all we go by is adhering to the choices we make. If I were to step out on my wife I would be as big of a dog in my beliefs as the Christian beliefs.

To agree with you swinging certainly is not for everyone and I cannot tell you how many couples have the fantasy, make it real, and it all goes down hill from there. I am sure you know what I mean.

Hot little fantasy to picture your man with another woman, but then the reality hits when you are at one of these parties and you either watch him with her or watch him go into a room with her. Same the other way around. All fun and games until you see that other cock pounding into your wife.

There are couples it works well for but they are truly the minority. For every couple that lives the lifestyle without issue there are a dozen who let themselves get sucked into the fantasy and were unable to cope with the reality.

Part of why the LW trolls are so vicious. I am sure many were in this position. I have a friend I made here on lit who started the very familiar pattern of her and hubby were a little bored. Started surfing lit, got excited by all that's out there. Finally crossed the line and are now on the rocks. 12 years married with two young kids. More common than uncommon.

Course like any other category LW is exaggerated and glorified a bit. If it is your fantasy these stories are fun. But if you have been there done that you will hate them.

Going to throw myself under even further by saying that if you can completely satisfy your lover there is no need for another. What my wife and I do is Role Play. Role Playing is cheating on your spouse with your spouse.

Over the years we have done everything from the typical Boss/Secretary to soap operas involving different characters on different days that tie into one scene leading to another. Right up to the taboo of playing Brother/sister. No limits within the two of us.

Of course I know cheating and the desire to share are different but it still boils down to you should not want another. If I still wanted other women I would not have made the commitment. The ring is supposed to mean something.

When I have had these conversations with people I am called a prude. Yeah okay I'm a prude. I've done crazier shit than most people write about on here but because for the last 10 years it has been with one amazing woman I am a prude. Invariably however that is the reaction I get from the insecure swingers the solid ones say simply don't knock it until you try it and invite me and the Mrs over to their next little "swap". No thanks this prude will stay home.

Well went on enough. I am sure we will disagree but wanted to put my opinion out there and give you the courtesy of being able to respond to someone who would state their piece under their own name.

Disclaimer: All opinions spoken here in this post are that of Lovecraft68 and are not necessarily those of other authors or Literotica itself(who makes damn good money off of loving wives and group sex!)

 

[jeninflorida]

Oh I am very aware of the LW bashing trolls and sometimes I keep that in mind just to irk them.

I just wanted to get a conversation going on how people felt about “LW” and the other things. The only thing that irks me is that the troll reads a LW story knowing full well that he will get pissed off. In my mind, I just want to grab the reader and shake them (till they suffer infant death syndrome) if you know that LW stories upset you, than why read them!?!

Swinging and swapping – this is a questions that is up to the couple. If it works for them great; and if swinging isn’t for them, great.

I’m not really complaining what they trolls wrote, after all, it’s my words that got that guy so upset that he had to post something. So I motivated someone to do something. Right or wrong, my words moved a person.

M'dear, this isn't about whether the swingers life style is valid or not or what it says about a man or not. That's a whole pointless argument on this forum as we erotica writers are quite aware of "different strokes for different folks." This is about writing in the category of "Loving Wives." And I'm afraid choosing to do that is like deciding to argue religion with a cult and then complaining that they're not very open-minded

Now the question is, were you really unaware of this? if so, this is your heads-up: The Loving Wives category is notorious for having belligerent readers who, for the most part, are misogynistic and bitter, likely because some woman did them wrong or they thought she did them wrong or maybe because no woman will have anything to do with them and they never get laid. They usually fall into two types, those who like stories where cheating women get them comeuppance, or stories where men who put up with cheating women are second class citizen wimps.

These are the only stories most readers of that category want to read. If you write something else, they will slam you because, like religious fanatics they have made up their minds on how the story must go and they will not tolerate any variation. It doesn't matter what you think or know to be the truth. That's all there is to it. And while it might be satisfying to come here and use us as surrogates for them, because we'll listen and not spout nonsense as you defend your lifestyle...it's kind insulting to to do that to us. Do you really think we'd take up the nonsensical argument of any idiot from Loving Wives? Please give us more credit.

There is, in the end, only one question that needs to be answered and it isn't about the virtues of swinging vs. monogamy. It's this: "Do you want more comments like that one on your stories?" If you don't, post them in "Group." Because so long as you post in "Loving Wives," you will get them in spades. If you do decide to stay in Loving Wives, however, please don't come here to complain about it or justify what you wrote that got slammed. If you didn't know it before you know it now: Loving Wives is the hottest kitchen on Literotica and you don't go in there if you can't take the heat.

 

[Boota]

By the way props for the Exorcist T-Shirt!

Thanks. My favorite shirt. I wore it to visit a friend in a Catholic hospital one time and two priests got in the elevator with me. They looked at the shirt and started giving me dirty looks. I said, "The shirt?" and they nodded. All I could think to say was, "I figured you'd like this. This movie should be like your Rocky."

 

[lovecraft68]

Thanks. My favorite shirt. I wore it to visit a friend in a Catholic hospital one time and two priests got in the elevator with me. They looked at the shirt and started giving me dirty looks. I said, "The shirt?" and they nodded. All I could think to say was, "I figured you'd like this. This movie should be like your Rocky."

No shit! That book and especially the movie was completely reviled by the Church! Hell Billy Graham came out and said the film itself was evil.

Hello? The priests win!! This movie was the best portrayal of faith (at least Catholic faith I have ever seen)

First you have Merrin who knew the exorcism was going to kill him yet he went anyway. And Karras who by that time had little to no faith steps up and takes the demon within himself (which the demon foresaw but did not know Karras would over power it) Two men who died too save an innocent soul.

People should try reading the damn thing and stop thinking it is all about crucifixes being used as dildos and pea soup!

 

[jeninflorida]

here is a new point, looking at the top 250 authors and one thing that they have in comon is LW. guess men love to hate the LW stories

to everyone who has posted in this thread, thanks and I will test some ideas in the future and post a couple stories in the group section

What is a monogamous relationship, when approx. 50% of couples polled admitted to having sex outside the marriage.

Now having said that, the question becomes 'What will keep a couple from straying?'.

Is it love? Is it the fear of losing your partner? Is it the way you were brought up?

I feel that if your partner is going to stray, there isn't much you can do about it. Do I fear mine will? Hardly, but if she did, is there something wrong with me or her?

I do have to admit that if she did I would want her to tell me about it, in living, colorful, detail. Does that make me a wimp? I don't think so and I really don't care what anyone else thinks as long as they keep that thought to themselves. But if they must express their disgust of me, to me, they will find out pretty quick that I'm no wimp when it comes to defending my wife's honor. Can you say fubar?

Now, will I push my wife into an affair? No, although the thought does raise something, if you get my meaning.

 

[jomar]

...

In my opinion, a man doesn’t have to be a wimp or 2nd class citizen to enjoy watching his wife, and is quite the opposite as he has to have confidence and inner strength. A man has to be confident in himself in order to relax and enjoy the experience. Don’t you agree?

And what is a 2nd class citizen?

...

Thoughts? Is a man that can watch his partner with another a wimp or 2nd class citizen?

Well, jeninfla, 3 pretty much nailed it category-wise.

I put a 10 chapter story there that's mostly in the low 4s, though I just noticed a second chapter dipped just below. Bet some of the chapters would get the red H if in EC.

LW was fun because of the comments. Some of the nearly as long as the chapter!

As far as your question...depends. Lots of complex psychological stuff comes into play. Witness what is usually referred to as cuckolding where the man feels is submissive, has adequacy issues and enjoys the exquisite agony knowing/watching his beloved having sex with a bull and doing things with him she'd never do with the cuck. For the "cuckold" in this arrangement, it's masochistic at its heart.

 

[sr71plt]

What is a monogamous relationship, when approx. 50% of couples polled admitted to having sex outside the marriage.

It' s what the other 50 percent are doing (if they didn't lie). Was this a trick question?

 

[Zeb_Carter]

Sorry if you feel I was insulting you or other people who got it right the first time around, or better yet are childhood sweethearts which I think is the most romantic thing in the world (Mom and dad been together since 14). I was referring to myself and many others who have made the mistake of marrying the wrong person and marrying to young. I was a dysfunctional mess back then with a lot of issues and so was she. As the years went on I overcame a lot of my problems and wanted a better life. She did not we had two young daughters and I made the classic mistake of being there longer for them. In the end she was the one who cheated (I do not troll loving wives however in all honesty she did me a favor)

Two years later I met my current wife whom would not have wanted anything to do with the 21 year old me but I had learned a lot since then including not taking a good woman for granted. Now what she sees in me well that is still up in the air. Personally I think she's just slumming!

I didn't take offense. I was just saying some of us got it right. And we didn't meet until a year before we married.

 

[Zeb_Carter]

here is a new point, looking at the top 250 authors and one thing that they have in comon is LW. guess men love to hate the LW stories

to everyone who has posted in this thread, thanks and I will test some ideas in the future and post a couple stories in the group section

I write LW stories. I like to read them too. What I like more is poking the those hypocritical readers (trolls) that say they don't like or read stories about cheating wives and/or wimpy husbands...Hello, you just did and commented on it to boot you lying sack of shit! (Not you Jen)

 

[Zeb_Carter]

It' s what the other 50 percent are doing (if they didn't lie). Was this a trick question?

Only for you, it seems, everyone else understood the statement.

 

[sr71plt]

Only for you, it seems, everyone else understood the statement.

Polled "everyone," have you? Speak for "everyone," do you?

Oh, yes, anyone who thought about it understood the zany misstatement. Maybe not all that many give your statements much thought.

But I'll bite on your question. Monogamy just goes on being monogamy no matter how many do/don't practice it. (duh)

 

[Stella_Omega]

Thank you. I was fortunate enough (the second time around) to find my soulmate. There is no sexual act or no woman attractive enough to be worth throwing that away.

There may be a deep sexual thrill to swinging that I am not aware of but am completely happy in every way so don't feel I am missing out.

For the record I personally believe swapping is a sexual fetish as much as feet, or anything else that "deviates from the norm" if two people with this fetish meet up then perhaps they can live happily in this lifestyle. Unfortunately it usually goes bad.

I don't think swapping deviates from the norm.

Nor is it normally a fetish any more than monogamy is.

 

[Zeb_Carter]

Polled "everyone," have you? Speak for "everyone," do you?

Oh, yes, anyone who thought about it understood the zany misstatement. Maybe not all that many give your statements much thought.

But I'll bite on your question. Monogamy just goes on being monogamy no matter how many do/don't practice it. (duh)

Well as you're the only idiot that brought it up, it must not have been all the important, except to hear yourself bluster and be the pompous ass you are.

As to your answer to my non-question. Questions usually end in a '?'.

No shit sherlock. What an asshole.