Flat on your back, Knees up....

[amicus]

....getting pounded so hard your teeth rattle...how does the fair sex claim equality? ))

Heterosexual intercourse by definition, is a penetrative act of aggression; there be a 'poker' & a 'pokee', and n'er the twain shall meet, excusing buggery.

From a writer's point of view, and an, 'objective' point of view, if that is possible, and since climax is seldom reached during vaginal intercourse, (so the textbooks say), can anyone describe the psychological impact of intercourse conerning the female of the species?

I often write stories from the feminine POV, even though I am decidedly male and I have been told that my perceptions of the female psyche are quite accurate, startling to some who think I must be female, I still have doubts.

Please do not view this as a 'sexist' thought, it is not, nor one to purport the supposed male superiority; but, if you will, address the subject from a viewpoint of taking and giving, of two opposites joining to make one whole, and the innate psychological differences that form the basis of both attraction and cooperation during the prelude, foreplay and the event itself.

I have hundreds of stories, some still Posted on Lit, that approach this subject from a variety of directions, and it is mainly because I remain forever curious and mystified about the female and her sense of life as it pertains to the sexual relationships she experiences.

I contend that the sexual revolution, women's emancipation, women's rights, a changing society, all are natural and necessary as humanity enters an era where masculine and feminine roles have so drastically changed.

But...trends and era's be damned, we, you and I, live the only life we will ever have and it is here and now and just how do we find satisfaction and fulfillment without sacrificing self identity?

As a male, I enjoy the process of creating a well stroked pussycat that purrs with pleasure and satisfaction and then rolls over on her back to have her tummy tickled, but what does the pussycat think about it?

ami...

 

[cookiejar]

I just read 2 of your stories. I'll read more.

 

[neci]

....getting pounded so hard your teeth rattle...how does the fair sex claim equality? ))

Heterosexual intercourse by definition, is a penetrative act of aggression; there be a 'poker' & a 'pokee', and n'er the twain shall meet, excusing buggery.

From a writer's point of view, and an, 'objective' point of view, if that is possible, and since climax is seldom reached during vaginal intercourse, (so the textbooks say), can anyone describe the psychological impact of intercourse conerning the female of the species?

I often write stories from the feminine POV, even though I am decidedly male and I have been told that my perceptions of the female psyche are quite accurate, startling to some who think I must be female, I still have doubts.

Please do not view this as a 'sexist' thought, it is not, nor one to purport the supposed male superiority; but, if you will, address the subject from a viewpoint of taking and giving, of two opposites joining to make one whole, and the innate psychological differences that form the basis of both attraction and cooperation during the prelude, foreplay and the event itself.

I have hundreds of stories, some still Posted on Lit, that approach this subject from a variety of directions, and it is mainly because I remain forever curious and mystified about the female and her sense of life as it pertains to the sexual relationships she experiences.

I contend that the sexual revolution, women's emancipation, women's rights, a changing society, all are natural and necessary as humanity enters an era where masculine and feminine roles have so drastically changed.

But...trends and era's be damned, we, you and I, live the only life we will ever have and it is here and now and just how do we find satisfaction and fulfillment without sacrificing self identity?

As a male, I enjoy the process of creating a well stroked pussycat that purrs with pleasure and satisfaction and then rolls over on her back to have her tummy tickled, but what does the pussycat think about it?

ami...

sounds like you need to get fucked until your brain stops working.

 

[rod43]

I just read 2 of your stories. I'll read more.

i've admired your pics and will definately read your stories!!

 

[amicus]

sounds like you need to get fucked until your brain stops working.

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Sound advice, no doubt, but I surmise that the cognitive portion of the brain does stop working during sex as blood and oxygen is diverted to the erogenous zones and the genitalia...which is where 'seduction', as a word and a concept comes into play...candy & liquor works wonders...smiles...

oh, well, one can only hope for a rational discussion, never guaranteed...

ami

 

[neci]

~~~

Sound advice, no doubt, but I surmise that the cognitive portion of the brain does stop working during sex as blood and oxygen is diverted to the erogenous zones and the genitalia...which is where 'seduction', as a word and a concept comes into play...candy & liquor works wonders...smiles...

oh, well, one can only hope for a rational discussion, never guaranteed...

ami

do liquor and candy cause you to sacrifice self identity?

 

[amicus]

do liquor and candy cause you to sacrifice self identity?

~~~

Chuckles, indeed they do, m'love, sweet persuasion for a lower invasion...gads, thas from high school!

meh...



ami

 

[sweepthefloor]

The pussycat thinks: Is it time for him to go to sleep now...or what?

 

[redheadedtxn]

Interesting.

Had an experience Thursday ...

Master was pounding my cunt with his hand, so hard and rough, it was like being punched. Quite enjoyable, actually blissful, but I like it very hardcore.

 

[cum2ut]

Maybe its just my inexperience talking, but I kind of feel more empowered when I have had sex. Knowing that its me & my body that is causing the other person to react the way they are, is a bit of a power kick. Realistically, I know that the same thing would happen with anyone else they desired as well, but for that time he's with me & inside me, that's my power. I can beg him for more, I can turn him away, its up to me. Like I said, I'm not very experienced, so that just may be my lack of that makes me this way, but I think a lot of women feel that little kick of power, when they have a man (or woman if they're into it) wanting them that way.

 

[NewEnglandGirl]

Maybe its just my inexperience talking, but I kind of feel more empowered when I have had sex. Knowing that its me & my body that is causing the other person to react the way they are, is a bit of a power kick. Realistically, I know that the same thing would happen with anyone else they desired as well, but for that time he's with me & inside me, that's my power. I can beg him for more, I can turn him away, its up to me. Like I said, I'm not very experienced, so that just may be my lack of that makes me this way, but I think a lot of women feel that little kick of power, when they have a man (or woman if they're into it) wanting them that way.

I think this is an excellent observation, and you are far from alone in feeling this way.

Amicus, you err if you believe that all women wish to pounded until their teeth rattle. Sex is not necessarily a domination event, despite one being an "innie" and one being an "outie", unless that is what the participants desire (or in the case of rape, of course).

 

[BongoGal]

Heterosexual intercourse by definition, is a penetrative act of aggression...

On those (sadly rare) occasions when I've had a guy tied spread-eagle on his back and climbed on top cowgirl style and rode him as hard as I wanted until I came...you'd say that he was the aggressor?

 

[amicus]

I think this is an excellent observation, and you are far from alone in feeling this way.

Amicus, you err if you believe that all women wish to pounded until their teeth rattle. Sex is not necessarily a domination event, despite one being an "innie" and one being an "outie", unless that is what the participants desire (or in the case of rape, of course).[/QUOTE]

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NewEnglandGirl....I take the blame for not being clear in my query...'pounding' was not the issue, psychology between male and female in the natural sense was and I failed to clarify.

Affection between two people, well, this is Literotica, as many as you like, I guess, can be anything you wish it to be.

The societal roles of sex are always changing...as I write stories about contemporary people and since I am well past my prime, I ask questions now and then, not really expecting answers, but a few diamonds in the rough sometimes appear.

thank you...

ami

 

[girlsmiley]

What the hell are you trying to find out?

 

[amicus]

What the hell are you trying to find out?

~~~~

Well, for example, girlsmiley, the thoughts of an Islamic woman in an arranged marriage to a man she may or may not have any attraction to?

Also...my very unscientific survey over the years that determined a girl/woman, slept with about a dozen different men before she married.

Thanks for asking...



ami

 

[girlsmiley]

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Well, for example, girlsmiley, the thoughts of an Islamic woman in an arranged marriage to a man she may or may not have any attraction to?

Also...my very unscientific survey over the years that determined a girl/woman, slept with about a dozen different men before she married.

Thanks for asking...



ami

So you're asking what the thoughts are of women, who may or may not be attracted to their SO.
Thoughts about what? The emotions, sex? What?


You need to be more specific. Actually, give us an example.
What thoughts do you have when you aren't attracted to the man or woman you're fucking?

 

[amicus]

So you're asking what the thoughts are of women, who may or may not be attracted to their SO.
Thoughts about what? The emotions, sex? What?


You need to be more specific. Actually, give us an example.
What thoughts do you have when you aren't attracted to the man or woman you're fucking?[/QUOTE]

~~~

I am a bit of a nerd, girlsmiley, worse than that, a fiction writer, creating what I hope are interesting stories about people, sex included, so I do not wish to be specific, nor do I wish to give an example.

Further, it is not a 'personal' quest, it is a professional, objective one, as best I can make it...

In nature, if sex is about to occur, with or without consent, a woman's vagina automatically begins to lubricate and lengthen, to prevent damage or injury.

During arousal. I think I mentioned before, the body naturally directs blood flow to the genitals, away from the brain, which, in effect, removes sex from a thinking activity to one of a more basic and physical nature.

In every story I write, I try to approach these 'facts' from a different perspective and to include a psychological prelude of the individual I have created and how he or she might react or respond.

I think I said before that sexual intercourse is the most intimate and personal relationship a human being can experience; it is also the most psychologically influential experience a person can have.

I have a thousand more stories in mind in addition to the several hundred I have already penned...it is an endless and moveable feast....to go a little Hemingwayesque on you...smiles...

ami

 

[girlsmiley]

So you're asking what the thoughts are of women, who may or may not be attracted to their SO.
Thoughts about what? The emotions, sex? What?


You need to be more specific. Actually, give us an example.
What thoughts do you have when you aren't attracted to the man or woman you're fucking?[/QUOTE]

~~~

I am a bit of a nerd, girlsmiley, worse than that, a fiction writer, creating what I hope are interesting stories about people, sex included, so I do not wish to be specific, nor do I wish to give an example.

Further, it is not a 'personal' quest, it is a professional, objective one, as best I can make it...

In nature, if sex is about to occur, with or without consent, a woman's vagina automatically begins to lubricate and lengthen, to prevent damage or injury.

During arousal. I think I mentioned before, the body naturally directs blood flow to the genitals, away from the brain, which, in effect, removes sex from a thinking activity to one of a more basic and physical nature.

In every story I write, I try to approach these 'facts' from a different perspective and to include a psychological prelude of the individual I have created and how he or she might react or respond.

I think I said before that sexual intercourse is the most intimate and personal relationship a human being can experience; it is also the most psychologically influential experience a person can have.

I have a thousand more stories in mind in addition to the several hundred I have already penned...it is an endless and moveable feast....to go a little Hemingwayesque on you...smiles...

ami

I don't want to be specific, nor do I wish to give an example.

 

[amicus]

Maybe its just my inexperience talking, but I kind of feel more empowered when I have had sex. Knowing that its me & my body that is causing the other person to react the way they are, is a bit of a power kick. Realistically, I know that the same thing would happen with anyone else they desired as well, but for that time he's with me & inside me, that's my power. I can beg him for more, I can turn him away, its up to me. Like I said, I'm not very experienced, so that just may be my lack of that makes me this way, but I think a lot of women feel that little kick of power, when they have a man (or woman if they're into it) wanting them that way.[/QUOTE]

~~~

Thank you...your response is the most honest and meaningful that will probably appear on this Thread and it is much appreciated.

I tried to write about what you are expressing, in a small way, in my story of Billy, the, "Molly" chapter, where she experiences an epiphany as to the meaning of a male climax and ejaculation, as a continuation of species, a "God" moment of creation, and the ultimate power she felt in 'taking' him at that moment, with full awareness and ultimate surrender.

I am a bit of a rogue writer of the old school; I perceive human sexual activity as more than two dogs copulating in a gutter.

thank you again for being up front and honest in your thoughts....I wish there were more of that...

hugs...

ami