Do you have an ideal 'type'? I have 2....

[Hitchiker69]

Two types of guys drive me nuts, make my knees go weak and get me hard just meeting them.

One would be a smaller, thin fem type guy. Maybe 5'8" or less, slim and well groomed. Nice hair and skin complexion. Especially when my gaydar picks up all the right signals. I'd love to grab him, strip him down, kiss him and spend all night and the next day in bed with him. I'd be dominant, but also reciprocate. Anything is possible. Sorta like a woman, but with a delicious hard cock and fantastically tight ass.

The other is larger buff guys. I don't go for super muscular guys, just fit and toned. They make me want to drop to my knees and suck as much cum out of them as I can. I want to please and tease, leave them totally spent and wanting more. And have them fuck me hard, long and deep. I'd totally give myself to him, but not be used or humiliated. I'd love to be a straight guy's first male lover, and seduce him into being fully Bi.

And in either case, tatoos or piercings are a turn off.

What about you? Do you have a favorite type?

 

[CJontherocks]

I liked the ruggedly handsome outdoorsy type, and the ruggedly handsome urban professional type.

I like my men to be manly, but not in a hairy Neanderthal way. I don't care for femme guys much. Though some of the guys here in the forums look pretty darn sexy in a skirt.

I like my men to be intellectually stimulating. I'm not so into the manly thing that I'll forgo intelligence for muscles. A quick-witted, intelligent and learned man can seduce me easily. Joe Rockhead will have a tough time... well, he'll need to compensate somehow. A sense of humor is a must.

I like a man who is soft-spoken; the strong, silent type. Braggarts, bullies, snobs and big-headed buffoons don't turn me on at all. But there was one guy I knew a few years ago... he could have had me easily. He was a little cockier than I like, but he had a lot of other good stuff going on too.

I like him to be fit, but sometimes the right guy can make me overlook physical preference. I'm not much turned on by huge muscles. I like a guy who works out a few times a week, but not one that lives at the gym. Although... there was this guy I knew a few years ago...

I think a little ink, and even a piercing or two is sexy. I have a nipple pierced, and a tattoo. I like the way it looks. Pierced nipples are a big turn-on for me. Some piercings are kinda weird, though, and tattoos can be over the top. Funny thing is, I love it when a girl has lots of ink and multiple piercings. I wonder why that is.


I'm curious, Hitch, why you specifically don't like tattoos or piercings? Just not a good look for you, or is there some specific look you don't like?

 

[none2_none2]

I always get turned on by butch, muscular, hairy guys. It has been that way since I was four years old. I remember at that age seeing my cousin's uncle getting out of bed and he was COVERED all over with dark hair. I saw a film of him and me about 8 year ago. I hadn't remembered him at all. Except for the fact he was much skinnier than I remembered, he was that same template.

I would add that there are things that can turn me off sexually. I don't care for attitude; body odor; bad breath; vanity; size queens; extreme liberals; extreme conservatives; drunks; drug users; guys that think part of being gay is disliking females either physically, mentally or both; guys who dislike animals or kids; feminine guys; middle age guys or older that drool whenever they see a teen or young man (pedo wanna-bees).

The older I get the more my turn-off list grows. Luckily, I'm happy with my partner. I don't know what I would do if he died tomorrow. Not only do more things turn me off, I'd be lying to say at my age and condition that I turn non-AMA heads.

 

[Hitchiker69]

Tattos are a permanent way to get short term payback and attention. It's total vanity.
Its so abosolutely irrational that it drives me nuts. It's sad to see otherwise attractive young women covered with large, extensive tattos.
It's also complete disrespect for your body.
See which of these doesn't fit: Eat right. Exercise. Get plenty of sleep. Always use a condom. Pierce your skin several thousand times with a needle full of ink.
It's a lot like smoking; total disrespect for your body.

 

[CJontherocks]

Tattos are a permanent way to get short term payback and attention. It's total vanity.
Its so abosolutely irrational that it drives me nuts. It's sad to see otherwise attractive young women covered with large, extensive tattos.
It's also complete disrespect for your body.
See which of these doesn't fit: Eat right. Exercise. Get plenty of sleep. Always use a condom. Pierce your skin several thousand times with a needle full of ink.
It's a lot like smoking; total disrespect for your body.

That's cool. I was just curious. My own opinion is that it's no different than decorating yourself with trendy clothing, except of course that the effects are much more permanent. Luckily, tattoo designers are not like clothing designers and piercings can be removed. I'm not sure I follow you on the "disrespect" thing. My body is not offended by the small amount of ink on my calf or the hole in my nipple. But I will admit, it let me know it wasn't too happy when I had them done.

Anyway... not trying to debate. Everyone has their thing. It's interesting to hear your view.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Types? With women? I have none. I love all women, all shapes, all sizes, all colors. I don't care if they are butch or femme. I don't care if they straight, lesbian or bi. I have always been able to find something utterly fuckable about any woman that catches my eye.

Men? When I still considered myself actively bi...only certain types of males caught my attention. Well groomed. Dominant. Physically imposing, Very white teeth. Dark eyes. Not hairy (shudder) or pasty pale (ick). Not femme but a certain type of androgyny (like a pretty feminine mouth or long lashes, smaller hands, feet). Every man I ever dated follwed that template look wise~whether they were black, white or whatever.

However I will admit to having a small bias for tattoos and piercings. I love em. Think they are utterly sexy. So if two women are standing side by side and are comparable in every way...if one has tats/piercings? That's the one that will keep my attention,.

 

[CJontherocks]

Types? With women? I have none. I love all women, all shapes, all sizes, all colors. I don't care if they are butch or femme. I don't care if they straight, lesbian or bi. I have always been able to find something utterly fuckable about any woman that catches my eye.

I have this little game I play in my head where I try to pick out things in every person I meet that is attractive. I've never failed to find something.

And I love that word... fuckable. I strive to be fuckable.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

I have this little game I play in my head where I try to pick out things in every person I meet that is attractive. I've never failed to find something.

And I love that word... fuckable. I strive to be fuckable.

I think women are just...amazing. Everything about them. And EVERY woman has one thing...at the very least... that makes me want to drag em into an alley and do vile things to them.

Of course, I'm a gentleman so i don't~ but egads...it's hard to be surrounded by curves and bends and lusciousness and NOT do it. How I managed to consider myself bi and gender fluid for so long I will never know because men don't have (have never had) the same impact unless they had very feminine traits...and then i didn't want them because they were men and shouldn't be girly...(in my head).

And fuckable? That IS an awesome word. Everyone on the planet should strive for that. Not perfection. It will never be attainable. But to be fuckable to at least one or two people. Yes!! That is attainable and should be a goal. It's mine and has been ever since I discovered that my boobs and butt didn't make me fat~they made me curvy and all things girly to look at.

*grins*

 

[Chrissi]

Don't really have a favorite type of guy. Like guys who are interesting, can carry on a conversation, and like to touch, other than that, smooth, hairy, slim, athletic, a few extra, short, tall, doesn't really matter.

Have dated and have done more with many different shapes and sizes.

I suppose I gravitate to guys who are more my age (+/- 10 years or so), but that could mostly be due to common experiences in my generation. And even that is not engraved in stone.

I do however have some turn offs: Smokers, heavy drinkers, any drug use, less than good hygiene, and guys who are full of themselves.